Phenomenal One
Don Juan
here a good story for everyone
i'm on myspace and i send a girl a message,
(basiclly sayin that i was interested in her).
without even having a conversation with me she gives me her number,
i thought maybe that was too easy.
while setting up a time/place where we can meet up, (i did'nt notice this at the time)
she seemed very unsure about me.
meet up # 1 :
we planned to meet up in front of a building that at a certain time is very crowded . i wanted to meet up at a nice park a block away
(the park is an community park with a pool, mini golf course, basketball court, tennis court, just a great park to go to). she suggested we meet up infront of the building. i waited in front of the building in a spot thats not so crowded but i didn't see her, i waited for a while before leaving.
i call her a half an hour later, she says she didnt see me and we both agree we should meet up at the park.
meet up #2 :
i'm walking in the park enjoying the weather when i realize time has flow by and she not here. i call her to ask her where she is and shes at a basketball game.
(in a calm and cool voice) i tell her that it's messed up to say your gonna meet someone at a certain place and go back on your word, she agrees and i set up another time.
meet up # 3 does'nt even happen.
she calls me an hour before we meet up to tell me she was'nt interested in meeting me in person.
the funny thing was my reaction to it, i was HAPPY.
i took a risk, failed and learned a lesson.
i'm not known for taking alot of risk,
but as long as i was improving myself & living life i was contant.
i learned a couple of lessons
- just because a girl gives you her number, nothing may come of it.
- you can't use past interest/attraction as the basis for interest/attraction in the present. (i read a post here on that subject that made me think of this)
- a girl being unsure about you can play a big role in how she sees you.
i'm on myspace and i send a girl a message,
(basiclly sayin that i was interested in her).
without even having a conversation with me she gives me her number,
i thought maybe that was too easy.
while setting up a time/place where we can meet up, (i did'nt notice this at the time)
she seemed very unsure about me.
meet up # 1 :
we planned to meet up in front of a building that at a certain time is very crowded . i wanted to meet up at a nice park a block away
(the park is an community park with a pool, mini golf course, basketball court, tennis court, just a great park to go to). she suggested we meet up infront of the building. i waited in front of the building in a spot thats not so crowded but i didn't see her, i waited for a while before leaving.
i call her a half an hour later, she says she didnt see me and we both agree we should meet up at the park.
meet up #2 :
i'm walking in the park enjoying the weather when i realize time has flow by and she not here. i call her to ask her where she is and shes at a basketball game.
(in a calm and cool voice) i tell her that it's messed up to say your gonna meet someone at a certain place and go back on your word, she agrees and i set up another time.
meet up # 3 does'nt even happen.
she calls me an hour before we meet up to tell me she was'nt interested in meeting me in person.
the funny thing was my reaction to it, i was HAPPY.
i took a risk, failed and learned a lesson.
i'm not known for taking alot of risk,
but as long as i was improving myself & living life i was contant.
i learned a couple of lessons
- just because a girl gives you her number, nothing may come of it.
- you can't use past interest/attraction as the basis for interest/attraction in the present. (i read a post here on that subject that made me think of this)
- a girl being unsure about you can play a big role in how she sees you.