It is absolutely not necessary for men to flirt with women. Indeed, flirtation can be fun; no doubt about it; but it is NOT NEEDED.
Women flirt to show interest; it's not their role to ask out men, therefore they volley interest to your court in way of flirtation. You pick up the ball and volley interest back by getting the home phone number. Flirting with a woman does nothing but waste time. Men who do flirt believe the flirting makes the woman interested, but how can you make a woman interested whom is already interested?
When a woman flirts with you, play along, but know it's not your role to flirt; she flirts, you ask out. To focus on flirting is akin to a job where you do tasks outside of your job title.
Long ago, Anti-Dump expressed this sentiment of not flirting, and not until now did I understand why. Women are almost always the true initiators, not the man. She initiates, you respond. She volleys hints for you to approach, you approach. (Or, she gravitates towards you, you talk). She flirts, you ask her out. Bada bing!
Women flirt to show interest; it's not their role to ask out men, therefore they volley interest to your court in way of flirtation. You pick up the ball and volley interest back by getting the home phone number. Flirting with a woman does nothing but waste time. Men who do flirt believe the flirting makes the woman interested, but how can you make a woman interested whom is already interested?
When a woman flirts with you, play along, but know it's not your role to flirt; she flirts, you ask out. To focus on flirting is akin to a job where you do tasks outside of your job title.
Long ago, Anti-Dump expressed this sentiment of not flirting, and not until now did I understand why. Women are almost always the true initiators, not the man. She initiates, you respond. She volleys hints for you to approach, you approach. (Or, she gravitates towards you, you talk). She flirts, you ask her out. Bada bing!
) and they ended up losing interest.