So I was at this party the other night and I was intoduced to this hot girl that goes to my school. We were talking for a little while and I was working on the whole ****y/funny thing, but trying not to overdo it since I'm still trying to get it down. Anyway, at one point she said I was such a smartass. Well, she didn't seem like she was upset about that or anything, but I didn't get the impression she was turned on by it either. I didn't see her for the rest of the night so I don't know how she took it.
Here's the question: when does ****y & funny become just being a smartass? Is that a good thing? Is being a smartass the ultimate goal of that anyway? I have seen people use the ****y & funny approach and I know it works for them, but it is completely opposite of how I am. I tend to come over as just being mean or not funny with that approach.
Any advice from those of you who have learned how to do this (when it didn't come as second nature)?
Here's the question: when does ****y & funny become just being a smartass? Is that a good thing? Is being a smartass the ultimate goal of that anyway? I have seen people use the ****y & funny approach and I know it works for them, but it is completely opposite of how I am. I tend to come over as just being mean or not funny with that approach.
Any advice from those of you who have learned how to do this (when it didn't come as second nature)?