I've been dating a girl for a couple of months now, over the weekend some **** got ****ed up...she pushed my buttons and for the first time I lost control of the relationship. Ended up arguing for like 3 hours. The next day I tell her I need a little space. That was Sunday. Today she called and we talked on the phone, I think everything is alright and I invite her out to hear my buddy play tonight. I put her on the list and in IM tell her that I may need her to give me a ride home.
I go to the bar and she doesn't show, I finally leave b/c I have work in the morning. This chic told me we can work it out...but I know she wants to see if I loose my cool again. I call her on my way out she picks up and I say "blah, blah...work...hate I missed you". She is on her way and so I ask "do you want to hang out a minute before I bounce"...she says "not really". At this moment I don't know if it's a test to see if I'm like a lap dog and come back...but by her tone I don't think she was playing. I say "cool, see you soon" and keep walking to the train.
My buddy is at the bar and he calls saying she came up to him asking where I was, tells him about the phone conversation and tells him she was only playing that she expected to see me there. He also adds that she walked up with a guy, but as soon as they got in the bar they split ways and made it look like they weren't together. Right now I'm a little po'd, but I will not email her and show out on her...not going to contact her at all I don't think. Was this a huge **** test tonight or what? So confused. My buddy swears that she is obsessed with me and stood there talking about me to him for minutes.
Did I handle this right by not going back and acting like a waiting dog?
I go to the bar and she doesn't show, I finally leave b/c I have work in the morning. This chic told me we can work it out...but I know she wants to see if I loose my cool again. I call her on my way out she picks up and I say "blah, blah...work...hate I missed you". She is on her way and so I ask "do you want to hang out a minute before I bounce"...she says "not really". At this moment I don't know if it's a test to see if I'm like a lap dog and come back...but by her tone I don't think she was playing. I say "cool, see you soon" and keep walking to the train.
My buddy is at the bar and he calls saying she came up to him asking where I was, tells him about the phone conversation and tells him she was only playing that she expected to see me there. He also adds that she walked up with a guy, but as soon as they got in the bar they split ways and made it look like they weren't together. Right now I'm a little po'd, but I will not email her and show out on her...not going to contact her at all I don't think. Was this a huge **** test tonight or what? So confused. My buddy swears that she is obsessed with me and stood there talking about me to him for minutes.
Did I handle this right by not going back and acting like a waiting dog?