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WTF has happened to my c0ck!!!

bilboteabaggins

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been seeing a new girl for the past few weeks, been getting closer and closer to getting down to business the past lil bit

3 days ago we decided to get down, my c0ck decided it wasn't the time, she would blow me and very well at that but as soon as she stopped and I was gonna put it in boner was gone

fast forward to the next night, only this time I could not get hard at all, just dead

last night we tried again and played around for like 4 hours straight, her giving me bj's and me eating/fingering her, things were good, I decide to slip it in and it goes limp on me once again

I mean what the fvck?

all 3 times I end up finishing her with my oral skills:rockon: she says it is awesome but is screaming the entire time for me to put my c0ck in her, begging for it and it just isn't happening:mad:

I am really into this girl, she is so sweet and lovely and is a 18 year old 8 hottie that 200 guys are after, she says I must not be into her and that is why my c0ck is dead when I get ready to bang her, I easily get hard on the bjs and even just touching her in public

I am so beyond frustrated, my confidence is getting destroyed day by day

help me out with this guys, I think I should get some viagra to get things on the way and maybe this will subside:confused:

shes a keeper, poonani so tight you can't shove in 2 fingers, I love her to death, this is going to destroy things I am affraid
 

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Dear Billy,
You did not tell us if you had been indulging in alcohol,how tired were you?...my suggestion is to pop along to your Doctor,tell him your story tell him you want the little Blue pill...when you have it always keep one in your Wallet for times like like last night.
 

bilboteabaggins

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not been sleeping much and tired from work, I am pretty healthy, workout lifting twice a week, watch my diet, although of late has been poor

no alcohol at all, my sex drive just doesn't feel up to snuff as of late, since seeing new girl have cut all porn and jerking

girl says I turn her on like nothing she has ever seen, she gets dripping wet just from making out with me for 2 mins, so this must end ASAP hahaha...she is constantly giving me boners throughout the day and insists on blowing me every time we are in a car(and she is freaking amazing at it), that may be part of the problem, but damn I am 27, ought to be up to all this

think the blue pill would help me with this?

thanks guys
 

zekko

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I think you're having foreplay too long. If you make out for four hours your attention might start to drift. If she's wet after two minutes, try giving it to her then while you're still fresh.
 

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This sounds more of a mental issue, something is holding you back.

Have a think, is there anything niggling away at you?
 

bilboteabaggins

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im nervous with her, simple as that, getting more and more open though in attempts to ease things up, did all kinds of stuff last night in full lights on living room with a movie playing, said she has never done that before(demands total darkness), the johnson just didn't want to behave :( she doesn't like kinky stuff, hates porn and talking dirty, she is dripping wet and begging me to stick it in her though I mean WTF

this is killing me mentally, can't handle it, my morning wood has vanished even, I mean rock hard c0ck that hurt every morning
 

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anxiety, stress. not getting enough rest. maybe you just need a vacation from work to recharge your batteries.
 

Serg897

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I've been known to lose my erection sometimes during sex, even with the total hottie I've gotten with recently the last time we had sex I went limp after 10 minutes or so.

Sometimes it just happens. Its purely psychological. Are you masturbating too much?

Keep in mind, pharma companies make drugs to treat this condition...
 

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I have the encountered the same problems. On our age, it is most likely a mental thing. Because, I suppose, you don't have any problems getting boners or orgasms when looking at porn. But when you are going to finish the job, you can't perform, right?

That's some kind of performance anxiety. Thinking about it will only make it worse. I'd try either two things:

1. Talk with the girl about this, get more comfortable.

2. Get a pill, to create a 'kick start' to get your confidence back.
 

bilboteabaggins

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I have gotten the girl to be way more comfortable and the last time we tried it almost happened but I still lost him, much better than the 1st try, but still not there

I wanna lay it on this girl hard and heavy, time for the pill, someone please PM me with info on how/where to buy them, very healthy guy so I have no insurance and just pay for complete doc checks twice a year, I doubt her writing me a prescription for it anyways, she is a doctor that hates medications and is very strict with them

and I need a vacation bad, haven't had one in 3 years :(
 

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Anxiety due to lack of experience, porn, insecurities etc. I was the same way in my early 20s. It's mostly mental bc you can get hard during foreplay but lose before sex. Work on your mental health.

Not I can get a hard-on and keep it for as long as I want.
 

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I went to a quack doctor and got a prescription for the V-pill. It allowed me to fvck until I got past that initial anxiety. I'm ready to come off it now, but it's kinda fun to fvck her while waiting for the viagra to kick in and go a second round :D
 

bilboteabaggins

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Brownrice said:
Anxiety due to lack of experience, porn, insecurities etc. I was the same way in my early 20s. It's mostly mental bc you can get hard during foreplay but lose before sex. Work on your mental health.

Not I can get a hard-on and keep it for as long as I want.
thats it exactly man

need online sources for V, gonna use it sparingly until I regain my mojo :rockon:
 

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your just very exited and all the blood flow is through out your body and not you **** anymore
 

bilboteabaggins

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tried it again last night, success, tore that ass up :rockon:, just calmed myself, had trouble a few times, just chilled out, got decent hard and went 4 or 5 times 10 mins each, never even jizzed :rockon:

all this and was gonna try viagra tomorrow from a friend, still going to as I think I could get even harder and bigger
 

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I have also noticed my sex drive is lower lately. I am 25, and have morning wood regularly, and np when i JO, but bring a girl in and after 5 min of sex im limp. Thing is I am not very nervous, so I dont know what do do mental health wise. I also noticed that I can never go for 5-6 times in a row, I just dont get hard after 2-3 times, which is annoying becuase at my age I know men that can go for many times in a row.

I dont really want to mess with chemical pills, but I want to be able to f*** all night long! Any herbal supps out there that work, or what are "mental" exercises I can do?
 

bilboteabaggins

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I took a extenze and man it gave me a better hard on

I poured it to my girl again for 3 hours last night, **** was so big and hard it was hittin bottom in her, she made me stop it was hurting so bad lmao
 

bilboteabaggins

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more extenze action, man that stuff is awesome, biggest hard-ons ever, throbbing almost painful, but it is messing with my load blowing, I fell like I am hovering around orgasm forever, really hard to go, of course this is awesome with my girl, but she says I am hurting her really bad


this was all nerves folks, nothing less, kinda glad I didn't try viagra lol
 
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