irocknike23
Senior Don Juan
Ok hear me out....forget the DJ Bible that I just started a thread about yesterday saying how great it is....I should of read the NC challenge thread....
I feel like I am going to throw up right now, after I just got done reading that whole thread I feel like I want to vomit.
6 months ago my GF broke up with me. During the week of the break up I sensed she was going to do it, she kept asking me what would I do if I broke up with her....I simply told her I would not talk to her again(But I did not mean it, and had no clue about the NC challenge) And this DISTURBED her a lot. But about 4 days later, she hit me with the "i just need to be alone right now" bomb. When I heard that my heart dropped to my stomach. She told me how sorry she was and all that HOWEVER she told me that she still wanted to stay friends and talk. She told me that she did not want us drifting apart one bit. LIKE AN IDIOT I agreed(because I was sprung over this girl very badly). Next night she hit me up to talk on the phone, so we did just like nothing ever happened. During the next 6 months after out breakup, we talked, hung out and even had sex as if we never broke up. But something was different, as time went on from week to week we talked less and less and less and overall I started noticing that I was loosing her. And to make matters even worse, during the 6 months there were times when I would let my thoughts get to me to much and vent out EVERYTHING of how I felt about her and how I miss her...etc(all that p*ssy sensitive sh*t that send a girl running for the hills).
Early this month she went on a trip for 2 weeks. Before she left we talked on the phone for about 4 hours(just had one of those nights where we couldn't sleep). We left it off very good. But then when she came back I noticed right away something was different. She did not hit me up when she came back. About a week of her return, I finally broke silence and text her. No reply. I called 2 hours later...no answer. She called back an hour later at 3am and woke me up. When I answered she asked me what I wanted(and I never heard her use that tone of voice when talking to me....it was that irritated voice). I asked her if she was mad at me or anything, she said no...why would I think that. I asked her why she didn't hit me up when she came back and why she ignored my text...she told me simply that we cannot talk anymore. I asked her why....she said she didn't know....that we just couldn't. And I asked her to just be honest and give the real answer......she took a 20 second pause and said that she is currently talking to someone else and that it would not benefit me at all if I kept on talking to her....I said fine...
I feel so frustrated now and pissed off, because at the start, when we broke up she showed EVERY SINGLE classic sign of what the NC challenge describes of what happens to a girl when you dont talk to them after break up....and I did opposite. After reading that thread I KNOW for a fact I could of easily got her back if I would of followed it. But instead, she is now with another guy and I am still hurting bad like a little b*tch.
HOWEVER THERE IS MORE:
Before we hung up, she told me that she will still hit me up from time to time.....
and we also have a mutual friend(her best friend is my really good female friend) and she told me that I better say hi to her when i see her in person...
How should I handle that last part? Should I just ignore her and give her the cold shoulder?(I know I cant do the NC challenge anymore, way to late for that I just want to show some backbone)
I feel like I am going to throw up right now, after I just got done reading that whole thread I feel like I want to vomit.
6 months ago my GF broke up with me. During the week of the break up I sensed she was going to do it, she kept asking me what would I do if I broke up with her....I simply told her I would not talk to her again(But I did not mean it, and had no clue about the NC challenge) And this DISTURBED her a lot. But about 4 days later, she hit me with the "i just need to be alone right now" bomb. When I heard that my heart dropped to my stomach. She told me how sorry she was and all that HOWEVER she told me that she still wanted to stay friends and talk. She told me that she did not want us drifting apart one bit. LIKE AN IDIOT I agreed(because I was sprung over this girl very badly). Next night she hit me up to talk on the phone, so we did just like nothing ever happened. During the next 6 months after out breakup, we talked, hung out and even had sex as if we never broke up. But something was different, as time went on from week to week we talked less and less and less and overall I started noticing that I was loosing her. And to make matters even worse, during the 6 months there were times when I would let my thoughts get to me to much and vent out EVERYTHING of how I felt about her and how I miss her...etc(all that p*ssy sensitive sh*t that send a girl running for the hills).
Early this month she went on a trip for 2 weeks. Before she left we talked on the phone for about 4 hours(just had one of those nights where we couldn't sleep). We left it off very good. But then when she came back I noticed right away something was different. She did not hit me up when she came back. About a week of her return, I finally broke silence and text her. No reply. I called 2 hours later...no answer. She called back an hour later at 3am and woke me up. When I answered she asked me what I wanted(and I never heard her use that tone of voice when talking to me....it was that irritated voice). I asked her if she was mad at me or anything, she said no...why would I think that. I asked her why she didn't hit me up when she came back and why she ignored my text...she told me simply that we cannot talk anymore. I asked her why....she said she didn't know....that we just couldn't. And I asked her to just be honest and give the real answer......she took a 20 second pause and said that she is currently talking to someone else and that it would not benefit me at all if I kept on talking to her....I said fine...
I feel so frustrated now and pissed off, because at the start, when we broke up she showed EVERY SINGLE classic sign of what the NC challenge describes of what happens to a girl when you dont talk to them after break up....and I did opposite. After reading that thread I KNOW for a fact I could of easily got her back if I would of followed it. But instead, she is now with another guy and I am still hurting bad like a little b*tch.
HOWEVER THERE IS MORE:
Before we hung up, she told me that she will still hit me up from time to time.....
and we also have a mutual friend(her best friend is my really good female friend) and she told me that I better say hi to her when i see her in person...
How should I handle that last part? Should I just ignore her and give her the cold shoulder?(I know I cant do the NC challenge anymore, way to late for that I just want to show some backbone)
