Women that are approachable

[NoMoreNiceGuy]

I've made these observations over the years as to which women are more approachable even eager to be approached.

*Note-these may not aways be true but are MOST of the time and will put the odds in your favor*

Dresses up to go out- I lot of women don't really dress up all that much or only a little. The more effort she put into it the more likely it's because she wants to be approached.

Heavy on the Perfume- Same reason we put on cologne, to impress and attract the opposite sex.

Extra jewery- most women wear some but those that want to be approached try to stand out by wearing more. Extra rings on the fingers, more than one bracelet and necklace, and multiple earrings.

Tattoos- A woman gets a tattoo because she wants people to notice it, and her.

Piercings other than the ear- She wants to stand out as someone different so you notice her.

Showing skin- Skirts and shorts to show the legs, bare shoulders and arms, the chest area below the neck and above her breasts, and of course, showing cleavage. *WARNING does not apply on hot days!*

Dyes her hair-Most women go blonde because "blondes have more fun"

Tight clothes- She's trying to show off her figure so you notice her.

 

[Don Stefano]

"Tight clothes- She's trying to show off her figure so you notice her."

or they can just be c*ck teases...

 

[NoMoreNiceGuy]

Anyone know any others? I keep thinking that are more than these that I just can't think of offhand.

 

[is can the ray czar]

i know this girl, she's almost all of the above, dresses like she's going to a party all the time, extra tight, hair dyed slightly.

really gorgeous. but she doesn't speak to anyone, and anyone who tries could rarely keep a convo going with her, because she isn't very receptive.

how do you explain that? she's a contradiction, and i guess that's what's making her stuck in my mind for soooo long. i just can't put a label on her.

it's true, ambiguity is a powerful weapon

 

[NoMoreNiceGuy]

Originally posted by is can the ray czar:
i know this girl, she's almost all of the above, dresses like she's going to a party all the time, extra tight, hair dyed slightly.

really gorgeous. but she doesn't speak to anyone, and anyone who tries could rarely keep a convo going with her, because she isn't very receptive.

how do you explain that?

Sounds like she's just shy/insecure. She wants to be approached but because of her insecurity, she can't keep a conversation going. She may even put up blocks without even realizing she's doing it.

 

[Albion]

Actually it's scientifically proven that the more provocative a woman gets with her dress and adornment the closer she is to ovulation. In other words, when she's in heat she shows more skin.

If you'd like to read about this check out Desmond Morris, “The Human Animal”.

-al

 

[maranathaman]

One theory I have is: If she's wearing a low-cut top, she WANTS you to look at her breasts! (The Ho!!)

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[is can the ray czar]

Originally posted by maranathaman:
One theory I have is: If she's wearing a low-cut top, she WANTS you to look at her breasts! (The Ho!!)

that i agree with.

you won't put something on display if you don't want it [the breasts] to be noticed.

 

[is can the ray czar]

Originally posted by NoMoreNiceGuy:
Sounds like she's just shy/insecure. She wants to be approached but because of her insecurity, she can't keep a conversation going. She may even put up blocks without even realizing she's doing it.

so how do you penetrate this segment of the market? what strategies do you use?

it is, i believe, a rather large part of the market [at least here in malaysia]. so knowing how to get into it would be key.

any thoughts?

 

[NoMoreNiceGuy]

I knew I forgot one. Standing when they could be sitting. There are open tables and plenty of seats at the bar and yet they are standing. They usually do this in pairs.

 

[Lexomatic]

You just have to remember that women also dress up to impress other women. Its a boost to their ego when they think they more attractive to men than other women in the room.

 

[kitten-o]

Sure signs a girl wants to get noticed:

-She laughs loudly and often, or talks loud. As girls we tend to think we are supposed to be seen and not heard...when you hear a girl chances are she is confident and fun and out to get noticed.

-Don't use dress as an indicator, they may have boyfriends at the bar they are trying to impress, just a heads up.

-If they make eye contact more than once. Once can be an accident and girls don't make the same mistake twice with a guy they aren't interested in making contact with. If you catch her eye twice, do your manly duty of approaching HER.

And just for the record, the best girls are often found in packs of friends, don't be intimdated, approach all of them, how much potential is there for fun in that?!

Go get em guys.

 

[Adonis]

Originally posted by kitten-o:
And just for the record, the best girls are often found in packs of friends, don't be intimdated, approach all of them, how much potential is there for fun in that?!

Go get em guys.

Here we go! And I've often preached this on this board a billionth time, but no one will listen. I think we should have another subject matter on this board: "How to not be a gutless, ball-less, chickenpuke."

 

[Raingem]

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[This message has been edited by Raingem (edited 11-25-2001).]

 

[Neophyte]

kitten-o, I like your style. Excellent thing you say!

Cya,
Neo

 

[Man Of Adventure]

Originally posted by kitten-o:
Sure signs a girl wants to get noticed:

-She laughs loudly and often, or talks loud. As girls we tend to think we are supposed to be seen and not heard...when you hear a girl chances are she is confident and fun and out to get noticed.

-Don't use dress as an indicator, they may have boyfriends at the bar they are trying to impress, just a heads up.

-If they make eye contact more than once. Once can be an accident and girls don't make the same mistake twice with a guy they aren't interested in making contact with. If you catch her eye twice, do your manly duty of approaching HER.

And just for the record, the best girls are often found in packs of friends, don't be intimdated, approach all of them, how much potential is there for fun in that?!

Go get em guys

Hey I like this advice

This is probably the first advice that is probably gonna be real useful in getting girls,that actually came from a girl.Cool.

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[Iskandar Reza]

what if the girl is shy? how then? i mean in my area, a lot of girls are like that. in fact, almost all of them are a bit reserved. how?? it's not like i have a choice? it's the only thing there is here

 

[romio3000]

Originally posted by is can the ray czar:
i know this girl, she's almost all of the above, dresses like she's going to a party all the time, extra tight, hair dyed slightly.

really gorgeous. but she doesn't speak to anyone, and anyone who tries could rarely keep a convo going with her, because she isn't very receptive.

how do you explain that? she's a contradiction, and i guess that's what's making her stuck in my mind for soooo long. i just can't put a label on her.

it's true, ambiguity is a powerful weapon

1. she has a boyfriend, or
2. she has extremely high standards, and talks to only guys she finds attractive.
3. you think of one more, god damn it

romio300

 

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[ChrisFl]

> i luv to approach a group of women!!! Oh my, it's heavenly and totally awesome!

How do you do that?