Women are so confusing...

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1. change your screen name to something more positive and befitting your growing role as a DJ. Skip the self deprication crap, it doesnt serve you anymore.
2. the biatch is working you. she wants the company of a man and the attention but she doesn't want to put out. I think the guys on here would call her an "attention w*hore".
3. grabbing your crotch say's she can do any sexual thing to you cause she has demasculinated your manhood with that let's just be friends bull. your not a man anymore but a play toy.
4. pull away and start taking an active interest in other women..especially in her presence...and watch her change her tune.
5. you do need to start working the boot camp deal and get out there and score some ho's for your team. I think this site would be in full support of you when you do....which should be asap!
 

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New Screen name now!

Thanks player, that was the pep talk I needed! I've gone through this site and gathered what I could. I don't really agree with alot of the things that folks say here but I do see where I've been going wrong now.

It feels so empowering, I feel like I could wrap this girl around my finger now, matter of fact it's working already.

She called earlier and said she was sorry and she wanted to make dinner for me tonight "if only I would answer the phone" :rolleyes:

I'll wait til she calls again and let her know I've already had dinner but we can do this again another time and I'll practice my newfound knowledge on her for the girl I'm going out with next week.

After all why pass up all the experience I can gain from this :D
 

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BigDummy, I suggest that you try the masturbation test. If you thought about her while masturbating 5 or more times, then a friendship with her is not enough. Make a move. If she resist, then NEXT!!!!!
 

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LOL, No I have not masturbated while thinking about her...thats what porns for!

I see this as the best of both worlds I can be friends with her still and practice my DJ skills to try and get her to make the move on me while still seeing other women and if it works i'll feel like the man and if it doesnt work before I find someone else owell its her loss and i'll obviously have someone better.

Now that I see the game for what it is its so much easier, shes called 4 times in the passed 2 hours...she even said the dinners in the oven already HAHAHAHAHA!
 

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LOL, She called again earlier today and I was polite but brief she wanted me to come down but I said not until you make me dinner again since I didnt get to eat it the last time...she wasnt pissed she said she understood ;)

It's now 2am and she just called again asking me to come down because shes all alone and she cant sleep. I laughed and said its frickin 2am your crazy!

Then she texts me after I get off the phone asking me to please call her if I change my mind and if not text her with No.

LOL I'm so confused...it's been about 2 weeks since I've seen her and it seems like shes losin it!

This is a good lookin girl too!
 

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Hey "DJ Jr." you got some mental kinks to work out. Take care of yourself bro before taking care of someone else.
 

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LOL What mental kinks?

I'm just happy I found this place...kinda like a kid in a candy store...
 

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Originally posted by violator
You case is no exception. It is obvious that this girl wants you in spite of what she is telling you. Grabbing your crotch? You have a definite green light there. ;)
Yeah, no ****ing **** these newbies are pissing me off.

This girl is groping his package, and these stupid ****ers are saying "You're so deep in the friends zone!"

I'd bet a 1000 bucks if you tried to kiss her next time the two of you are alone, that you'll be ****ing her within the hour.
 

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If you want to do something with her then stop defering her requests for you to come over at night with the dinner excuse. However, do not give her the control again by accepting the invitation on her terms. Perhaps the next time she goes that route, tell her you don't feel like it and she should come to your place for dinner.
 

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I kinda did that already, last night when she called I said if she called me at a more reasonable hour tommorow (tonight) I would come down to see her...we'll see if she calls. I'm pretty damn sure she'll call tho LOL

It feels good to hear your words Phrozen...kinda reaffirms everything i've been doing.
 

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Oh man, the late night phone call and the "come on over" is exactly what we are looking for.

This is the time to answer "I'll be right over."

When she grabs your unit again, grab her hand and hold it there. Then pull her closer and kiss her neck. And then take her to bed (while you continue to hold her hand on your now 8 inch mister) and then don't take no for an answer.
 

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Yea your right but it was her terms so I didnt really want to be a sucker and do it...plus I dont know If I want to hit it since that would mean game over and i'm having a really good time playing the game LOL (I really do care about this girl though, I dont want to seem like im just trying to get in her pants)

She called last night but she was at her house packing boxes (They just closed on their house, she lives with her mom and her grandmother whom is dying) she said she was going to spend the night there which she had actually told me the night before when I talked to her but I just wasn't paying attention because she was drunk.

Anyways it does seem like she wants me to hit it because she doesnt want me to come down when shes at her moms house but she does want me to come down when she's alone at her friends house that shes housesitting for her while shes away...she only wants to hang out when shes alone but i'm trying to instill in her that if she wants to hang then she should tell whomever shes with she wants to be alone and then tell me to come down.

Am I wrong for doing this?
 

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Don't mean any harm but you are so deep in AFCville it makes me want to hurl.

She's an attention Wh0re thats feeding on you!
 

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LMAO, thats quite possible, I really cant tell but I'm trying to play the player here...I see it as a learning experience if nothing else...We are really good friends which is my fault for being too afc in the first place but the afc days are over and im trying to convert a "good friend" into a lover.

It seems like its working but your right it could all just be an act and i'll never know unless I do this...right?

Regardless I've got a date with another girl Wed. night so that'll keep my mind off this one.
 

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Next her

Next her,avoid yourself a case of blu-balls.She's just a tease.
 

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LOL, I'm not gonna get blu balls, I'm still seeing other people...I've even got booty calls if I want to call them.

Thats not what this is about...this is about playing the player (In case you all missed it I said right off the bat I know shes trouble), never giving up, never losing...I see everything as a learning experience. The bigger the challenge the higher the learning.

So in other words I'm not really looking for quitters to come and tell me to NEXt her anymore shes already been nexted, right now shes an experiment and i'm just looking for advice on how to win the game.

Never look a gift horse in the mouth..or whatever that saying used to be :D
 

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Now shes hitting me with quotes, shes really into older literature and reads these books and watches old movies all the time.

She hit me with this last night on the phone asking if I knew what it meant.

"Accept the things to which fate binds you, and love the people with whom fate brings you together, but do so with all your heart"...Marcus Aurelius

I kind of blew it off like no big deal but now shes changed her aol profile with this quote and everything LOL...
 

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Bumping to the top for Starman, If I do have mental kinks to work out I really would appreciate the insight as I was totally blindsided by DJDorks reply that i had mental issues LOL

Do I?
 
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