women are so attracted to players! Why?

[rgeereda2nd]

This is so so so true!!!!!!!
What is it about these players that just attract women?
Women will deny and all, but they in reality are really attracted to players

what is it about players that draw women in?

 

[Qualtran]

To a woman, a player is a challenge and not someone looking to fill in some emotional void. Players are confident and because they have lots going on in their lives, girls are attracted to them and have to work to spend time with them.

 

[Skweints]

Cause Players go for many women. They don't get stuck on a single one. They portray the fundamentals of a DJ because of this. They are never nervous going up to another woman. Since their ultimate goal is sex, they realize that if they can't get it from one girl, they will ALWAYS find another girl to get it from. They are very successful at getting women to have sex with them due to all their experience.

The problem with most "Players", if you're talking about what I'm talking about, is that they actually have no real concern for the women they are hooking up with. This causes these girls to think it's their fault for problems in their "relationship". This is another reason why "Players" are so successful This is difficult to understand by AFCs, because they want to treat a women with complete respect, even if they get disrespected in return. However, showing a girl very little respect... or rather, JUST ENOUGH respect without tolerating any disrespect in return gives you a very good grip on the how things will turn out.

 

[Skweints]

Originally posted by Qualtran
To a woman, a player is a challenge and not someone looking to fill in some emotional void. Players are confident and because they have lots going on in their lives, girls are attracted to them and have to work to spend time with them.

Are we talking about stereotypical "players"? I normally don't see them as being successful in life and having lots of other stuff to do. They just want as much ass as possible... instant gratification.

 

[rgeereda2nd]

Do players chase or attract women?

 

[AIR-PILOT]

I would recommend reading the post about Social Value. It's all about social value, that is what attracts women, not a player.

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

uhhhh......you guys had some decent replies but here is the breakdown....


it does not matter if you are a player or a don juan for the matter, whos to say that the don juan is not playing like a player?

Women are attracted to men, who contains a very high amount of inner confidence and strength. To obtain this, you must put your self worth and value on your inner self, like your calling or destiny or God, and not on outside things. So this inner strength becomes natural.

To be honest, once you have this inner strength, you dont really even have to say much, I hear the women say, Its just something about him. The way he walks, and so on.

A player just has a number of women. A don juan is just attractive to a lot of women. If you personally want a lot of ass, do so.

 

[LuckyStrike]

That's right, it's all about the confidence. Either you have it or you don't and most women can sense it a mile away. Players exude confidence.

 

[CraigMack]

Because players are real men who don't take sh*t from women. This appeals to their sense of challenge. Whereas the nice guys who buckle in are boring and completely no fun.

Plus it appeals to their ego's to land a player who had lots of women. It makes the female feel special and like she truly has the goods.

 

[Mack 86]

Women don't go for players, they go for smooth men and a majority of players happen to be smooth. Females are attracted to nice hair, clean shoes, and smooth talking and those are characteristics of a player that's why females get caught up.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Can you say "Masculinity"! Players embrace their masculine nature as men in their natural pursuit of women!

Hors are attracted to players -- but good women are not!!

 

[seanmichaels]

WRONG!

Women are NOT attracted to players. They simple don't know that they are.

A woman doesn't want a cheater or want to be involved with cheaters. The player plays his game with her and the woman falls for her simply because he is confident. The woman will not want to be with him if he tells her flat out Oh yeah Imma playa.. etc. :cheer:

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by Qualtran
To a woman, a player is a challenge and not someone looking to fill in some emotional void. Players are confident and because they have lots going on in their lives, girls are attracted to them and have to work to spend time with them.

This is not entirely true, players are anything but confident individuals, and use falsehoods to make it appear as though they are better off than they really are. Not only are they not relationship material, the girls they attract for sex are anything but relationship material.

Good girls will avoid players and brand them as losers. They realize that their behaviour is a sign of low self-e4steeme and low confidence, and don't find it attractive. However, they will sometimes fall for a players schemes, and that could wreck their image of men. Otherwise, these type of girls chase after other non-player guys with high natural self-esteeme.

Originally posted by Skweints
Cause Players go for many women. They don't get stuck on a single one. They portray the fundamentals of a DJ because of this. They are never nervous going up to another woman. Since their ultimate goal is sex, they realize that if they can't get it from one girl, they will ALWAYS find another girl to get it from. They are very successful at getting women to have sex with them due to all their experience.

This is true ...

The problem with most "Players", if you're talking about what I'm talking about, is that they actually have no real concern for the women they are hooking up with. This causes these girls to think it's their fault for problems in their "relationship". This is another reason why "Players" are so successful This is difficult to understand by AFCs, because they want to treat a women with complete respect, even if they get disrespected in return. However, showing a girl very little respect... or rather, JUST ENOUGH respect without tolerating any disrespect in return gives you a very good grip on the how things will turn out.

Right on the money! ^^^^^

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by seanmichaels
WRONG!

Women are NOT attracted to players. They simple don't know that they are.

A woman doesn't want a cheater or want to be involved with cheaters. The player plays his game with her and the woman falls for her simply because he is confident. The woman will not want to be with him if he tells her flat out Oh yeah Imma playa.. etc. :cheer:

This isn't entirely true, there are in fact women who are attracted to players, but they are actually of a similar mindset as the player and want sex anyhow. It is just that the player is able to connect with these girls mentally and physically and that draws them

Other than that you are correct, there are girls whow brand them as losers because they know a player is a fake superficial individual with low self-esteeme and confidence. Some of these girls are both good and hot good looking women as well, so I would not say that all hot good looking women are attracted to players, because that is simply not true.

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by LuckyStrike
That's right, it's all about the confidence. Either you have it or you don't and most women can sense it a mile away. Players exude confidence.

No, they exude shallow arrogance that weak minded women feel is confidence, when in fact it is really a disguise to hide the fact that they are also weak minded individuals with little or no confidence or respect for themselves whatsoever.

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Can you say "Masculinity"! Players embrace their masculine nature as men in their natural pursuit of women!

Hors are attracted to players -- but good women are not!!

PRL, I would like you to explain why you feel that players are embracing their masculinity ...

In my insight, players are only half a man, and non-players are only half a man. If you take some of the concepts of a player ande some of the concepts of a non-player, that is what I view as masculine. It is the ability to shift back and forth between the two when the opportunity arises and to discern which is the appropiate way to act in a certain instance.

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by rgeereda2nd
Do players chase or attract women?

A player attracts women in a number a ways ...

For one, a player exudes his own sexual nature and isn't afraid to gives off sexual vibes in public. Women sense this and sometimes mirror that state.

Second, players persue women by causing women to persue them. They push buttons to make them come closer and always show less interest in a female than they show in them. This is actually a subtle type of manipulation that deceives weak minded females. There are women that can smell these games and willo avoid men who they perceive to be trying to manipulate them in this manner..

Third, they are not comfortable expressing themselves emotionally, and this causes them to be mysterious to bad girls, and creepy to good girls.

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
it does not matter if you are a player or a don juan for the matter, whos to say that the don juan is not playing like a player?

A don juan is a player .. however, if you arn't a player and still a ladies man then you are a casanova. The only diffrence is that don juans attract women in negitive ways, and casanovas in positive ways. The game and rules are totally diffrent, but in the end each eventually has a similar outcome.

Women are attracted to men, who contains a very high amount of inner confidence and strength. To obtain this, you must put your self worth and value on your inner self, like your calling or destiny or God, and not on outside things. So this inner strength becomes natural.

To be honest, once you have this inner strength, you dont really even have to say much, I hear the women say, Its just something about him. The way he walks, and so on.

This is true, in psychology this is called an inner locus of control.
However, you don't need to be a player to exhibit an inner locus of control.

A player just has a number of women. A don juan is just attractive to a lot of women. If you personally want a lot of ass, do so.

It depends whether you are after quantity or quality, how about both?

 

[LuckyStrike]

Originally posted by rgeere
No, they exude shallow arrogance that weak minded women feel is confidence, when in fact it is really a disguise to hide the fact that they are also weak minded individuals with little or no confidence or respect for themselves whatsoever.

You can generalize all you want but life isn't always that simple. I agree with you that most players don't have respect for WOMEN, but a player can have confidence, not shallow arrogance, in himself and his abilities.

 

[ScrewIt]

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