Many guys complain that women do not want nice guys and that they can't get any woman. If you wanna know why nice guys finish last, look no further than what happened in Wisconsin this past Saturday. The guy was a self proclaimed nice guy in that he was always quiet, went to church, never said much and would always hold everything inside. On Saturday, after holdin too much inside, this self proclaimed nice guy went to the church and shot 7 people and then shot himself. A real man is not afraid of confrontation and will not hold everything inside. People who act all nice and hold everything inside, they end up killing their families, co workers, and other innocent people. It is really sad.
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Why women do not like nice guys
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Haha...uhh...I don't think the reason that women don't like "nice guys" is because they're afraid they'll go on shooting sprees. (although being too "nice" can be creepy for chicks sometimes)
EVERY girl I know will not agree with you that "Nice guys finish last"
The sad thing is that all you have to do is call up a girl you know and say, "Nice guys finish last" and they will disagree. But at the same time they will be jumping the next bad boy that comes along.
Nice guys become crazy men because they do everything girls ask of them but it doesn't get them laid.
If the women in his life would of put out he wouldn't of killed all those people
The sad thing is that all you have to do is call up a girl you know and say, "Nice guys finish last" and they will disagree. But at the same time they will be jumping the next bad boy that comes along.
Nice guys become crazy men because they do everything girls ask of them but it doesn't get them laid.
If the women in his life would of put out he wouldn't of killed all those people
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Nice guys finish last simply because nice guys dont try.
Guys who often fall into the "Nice guy" catagory usually fall there simply because they make no active attempt to make interest known, so somewhere down the line she mentally accepted he just wanted to be friends. It's not really a complicated issue.
I, as long as others have fell into this catagory once or twice in this lifetime and we all know it was simply do to the fact that we never besides in our imaginations showed any overt or even subtle signs that there was interest.
Guys who often fall into the "Nice guy" catagory usually fall there simply because they make no active attempt to make interest known, so somewhere down the line she mentally accepted he just wanted to be friends. It's not really a complicated issue.
I, as long as others have fell into this catagory once or twice in this lifetime and we all know it was simply do to the fact that we never besides in our imaginations showed any overt or even subtle signs that there was interest.
I agree with u 100% Double. At least with bad boys, they may be a little confrontational but within an hour, everything will be back to normal. With nice guys, they'll just hold everything in and then out of the blue, will end up causing tons of harm to innocent people.
Nice guy = Many different definitions, Mostly bad, a few good.
Nice guy can be someone who acts nice to cover up their more darker side.
Nice guy can be someone that is overtly nice and generous.
Nice guy can be someone who is obsessed about video games, porn and acts like a little puppy in front of girls.
Nice guy is someone that acts nice to people they are attracted to, but very evil to people they don't like being around. (inconsistent schizo-behavior.)
Nice guy can be someone that never says anything negative, optimistic, but lives in fairyland like some men on this website.
Nice guy can be someone who acts nice to cover up their more darker side.
Nice guy can be someone that is overtly nice and generous.
Nice guy can be someone who is obsessed about video games, porn and acts like a little puppy in front of girls.
Nice guy is someone that acts nice to people they are attracted to, but very evil to people they don't like being around. (inconsistent schizo-behavior.)
Nice guy can be someone that never says anything negative, optimistic, but lives in fairyland like some men on this website.
it actually depends on waht you mean by nice guy, i would say im a nice guy, but not in that afc kinda way, you can be a nice dude and still lay chicks and not give a **** .some people would call quiet guys nice guys when they dont know nothing about the dude, would you call someone like steven segal a nice guy(well the characters he plays )? well i think not, i think bad boys are generally loud and stupid.
badboys generally have some traits women want but not all the way, i seen some bad boys that are so clingy to thoer chicks and these girls are scared to leave them. i would say im a nice guy, but someone once told me that girls like me cos' im enigmatic.
badboys generally have some traits women want but not all the way, i seen some bad boys that are so clingy to thoer chicks and these girls are scared to leave them. i would say im a nice guy, but someone once told me that girls like me cos' im enigmatic.
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This quote would lead me to believe that you feel optimisim is bad. What are the advantages to being a pacimist, and viewing everything negatively?
To me viewing the world through your life is the worst thing to so since people rarely are honest when it comes to themselves. What I mean by this is that when we think of ourselves being cheerful, and optimistic a pacimist might think people will try to walk over you, and no one will respect you; but this is theory and in your mind. Now lets look at real life, and ask yourself of all the optimistic people you know personally, do you look down on them? Do you not respect them, and like being around them?
I've learned that often times the same way I viewed somebody who has negative or postive traits, I would often change when placing those views on myself. So my mental picture of myself would be good when imagining myself with traits I dispised on others (ego of course) and would be negative when viewed with traits I admired on others. It all came clear to me when I learned about the humans flaw of not being honest when we viewed ourselves.
Many guys complain that women do not want nice guys and that they can't get any woman.
And did you know that many many women complain about nice guys and which they would be real men?
Ask them if you don't believe me. You will find that the majority of women do preffer men who will stand up to them.
Nice guys are too worried about being liked and would rather bow down to women and kiss their feet.
And did you know that many many women complain about nice guys and which they would be real men?
Ask them if you don't believe me. You will find that the majority of women do preffer men who will stand up to them.
Nice guys are too worried about being liked and would rather bow down to women and kiss their feet.
Royal Elite
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Another classic example of S.O.B. syndrome which is misinterpered as nice guy syndrome.
Sex on the brain syndrome will make you do anything to get some. It is a proven fact that sex is a greater inititive in the male's brain then eating is. Once your sexual state is started all you brain knows is that I most get sex, and I will do anything to get it, even it means swimming upstream to die aftewards like solmon, or death like male bees, and male spiders, or supplicating myself, and having no dignity like chump males.
If you don't have S.O.B. syndrome you dont mind being a nice guy, because when it's time to not be "so" nice because you was disrespected you will in the most dignified way stand up for yourself, and still move with class, and not supplicate yourself to every and anybody's will for a roll in the sack.
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Those aren't really "nice guys" you're talking about, Kevin. Those are guys who are only pretending to be "nice" because they think if they behave a certain way it will get them laid. Women have a sixth sense in picking up on that. I think that it even contributes to women taking advantage of those guys subconsciously, because they just sense that the guy is a phony.
A genuine "nice guy" is a man who is actually "nice" for the right reasons...because he has a generous and charitable nature and he does not expect anything in return for his good deeds. The guys you are talking about DO place expectations on the favors and "nice" gestures they make, and THAT is what differentiates between a REAL "nice guy" and a manipulative man who only ACTS nice because of his own selfish desire to be repaid for his "kindness". There is nothing at all "nice" about that kind of person.
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Royal Elite I never heard about that syndrome but in my termonology I call it thinking with the wrong head. They mean the same thing though. Great writing.
Girls hate nice guys because they don't provide any passion what so ever. Plus nice guys are very submissive. Oh and they clearly want you only for sex not personality, why else would you be buying dinner, buying gifts, buying flowers, buying, buying, buying. Come to think of it their are a thousand reasons.
Girls hate nice guys because they don't provide any passion what so ever. Plus nice guys are very submissive. Oh and they clearly want you only for sex not personality, why else would you be buying dinner, buying gifts, buying flowers, buying, buying, buying. Come to think of it their are a thousand reasons.
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Originally posted by 00Kevin
Nice guys become crazy men because they do everything girls ask of them but it doesn't get them laid.
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THERE IT IS BABY!
That was MY problem, before I came to this site.
I mean, it makes sense, right? You are a young guy, trying to figure things out, and you hear girls complain about how bad all these "bad" guys are treating her, and then she turns to you, LOOKS YOU RIGHT IN THE FACE, and tells you "you are sooo sweet.....don't EVER change," and "however finds you is going to be LUCKY." You think you are on to something....you are hearing what women want right from the woman! This is so easy! I just listen to what they complain about, don't do it, and I will get ALL the girls!! I will be the KING! Right? WRONG.
You realize, much, much later that girls LIE about what they REALLY want. You even OBSERVE them actually CRY at movies where the "good guy" gets the girl at the end. I have had MOTHERS actually tell me in TEARS that I was "too good" for their daughters. My OWN MOTHER gave me bad advice about girls, and raised me to respect them and put them on pedastals. And a bunch of crap about "they are not the one for you."
NOTHING MAKES SENSE.
That is why I don't buy this crap when some of you in here say, "you LET her use you, you gave away your power," blah blah. The truth of the matter is that NOBODY bothered to tell the boysthis world how to handle women, only how to SUPPLICATE to them, because they are, after all, "sugar and spice."
Then one day, you just get so mad, you either do something STUPID, or you do what I did and find this site and take your anger out on the weights. You trully have to go through a phase of hating women to actually be successful with them later. I REALLY believe that.
It's not that men don't understand women, WOMEN don't understand women.
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Nice guys become crazy men because they do everything girls ask of them but it doesn't get them laid.
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THERE IT IS BABY!
That was MY problem, before I came to this site.
I mean, it makes sense, right? You are a young guy, trying to figure things out, and you hear girls complain about how bad all these "bad" guys are treating her, and then she turns to you, LOOKS YOU RIGHT IN THE FACE, and tells you "you are sooo sweet.....don't EVER change," and "however finds you is going to be LUCKY." You think you are on to something....you are hearing what women want right from the woman! This is so easy! I just listen to what they complain about, don't do it, and I will get ALL the girls!! I will be the KING! Right? WRONG.
You realize, much, much later that girls LIE about what they REALLY want. You even OBSERVE them actually CRY at movies where the "good guy" gets the girl at the end. I have had MOTHERS actually tell me in TEARS that I was "too good" for their daughters. My OWN MOTHER gave me bad advice about girls, and raised me to respect them and put them on pedastals. And a bunch of crap about "they are not the one for you."
NOTHING MAKES SENSE.
That is why I don't buy this crap when some of you in here say, "you LET her use you, you gave away your power," blah blah. The truth of the matter is that NOBODY bothered to tell the boysthis world how to handle women, only how to SUPPLICATE to them, because they are, after all, "sugar and spice."
Then one day, you just get so mad, you either do something STUPID, or you do what I did and find this site and take your anger out on the weights. You trully have to go through a phase of hating women to actually be successful with them later. I REALLY believe that.
It's not that men don't understand women, WOMEN don't understand women.
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^The last one is dead on for most of this site,I agree.
Nice people are in for a world of hurt.People are ungratful little lemmings.
Be sociable but don't ever be the Nice Guy.
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lol,read the bible and see what God thinks of symps.
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This was a killer post!!! right on to who started it!!! My vote is that nice guys do finish last, if they start out being the nice guy. The reason I believe girls dig the bad boy is because he is exciting, he doesnt take crap from anyone, he is adverturous, and she knows that if she tries to push him around he is gonna tell her to get the hell out of his car and she will never see him again. Or scenario #2 She is gonna convert this bad boy into the nice guy. but if you are really digging the chick start out the bad boy but pay her attention and if it does blossom into a LTR slowly transition into a semi-nice guy. If you get to total nice guy, just package up your testicles and hand them to her because now she will own them and she knows it, she knows she can boss you around push you around and you will still come crawling back to her. Just my opinion