Muzzlehatch said:
I think the key difference is your sexual interest in these women friends and your conveying of it. Maybe 'interest' is the wrong word. 'Appreciation' is probably better. The AFC friend is simply like another girlfriend to them. We should aim to have our women friends know that at any time we would gladly fvck their brains out, and I've found that can actually be conveyed really subtly, women are far more attuned to it and not only don't mind but really like it. Even if for whatever reason that's not going to happen.
Good post!
I've found the same in my personal social life. I really notice a huge difference in the way my female friends treat me and how they treat some other guys who are also their friends, but more of the sensitive new age types. I could never really put my finger on 'what' exactly was different. But yeah i suppose it does simply come down to the fact that they are simply aware of the fact that i have a d1ck, where as that doesn't seem to be the case for the snag's.
I think when guys here say it's a bad thing to have female friends. They are really saying it's a bad thing to have 'bad' female friends. The ones you only are friendly to because you want or need something from them (their pvssy!).
Dap: I'm really not sure about your statement, but you could be right. I don't actually 'game' my female friends. I flirt with them, verbally, physically but i don't actually have any intention of seducing them, it's all 'good fun'. They try to run game on me sometimes, or throw me a sh1t test, but i wont care, just bust them on it, tease them with it. They seem to love that. Yet regardless of that i don't really get the impression they are viewing me as a potential lover.... though i really don't know for sure, i'd have to get out the guns to find out. Though to be perfectly honest, and that is probably the only reason i haven't tried to game them yet, i really like them as friends and there are plenty of other women to game.
I guess at the end of the day... i prefer it when they simply think of me as a great guy and a good catch, but who respects them to much as friends to make any moves on them. And that 'idea' seems to really make them respect me deeply... which is a great thing to have in a friend.. male OR female.
So i kind of agree with what you said, but i'm not sure if i agree that a guy should always be running game on them in such a way that the intention is to bed them. I mean... sure if i started doing that right now i suppose i'd manage to bed some of my female friends. But i think you and i both know that will terminate the friendship, and for what? A screw? If i really considered these girls to be someone who i could have a more meaningfull relationship with... we wouldn't be friends, we'd be lovers or nothing at all.
The bottom line here is that these girls mean more to me than just someone i call 'friend'. They mean lots of fun and laughs, they mean social proof... and yeah they also are (most of them at least) affectionate friends. When i look at howmuch a screw benefits me... and howmuch they benefit me as friends... the choice is really quite easy!
