djjizzyjeff
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IOI's may seem great for an ego boost but what you need to do when you get them is not wait and ask the chick out and for her number A.S.A.P. as WELL AS mentioning her boyfriend to her.
Why? Because believe it or not. And I'm sure most of you are already well aware IOI's mean jack squat. Chicks will purposely send IOI's even if they want nothing to do with dating you and even IF they have a boyfriend. Why?
Because they are like little kids in CONSTANT need of attention. If they need their ego boost for that moody time of day they'll flirt with you, then do it later on to some other dude because most if not all of them are insecure even if in a relationship. Same with if they have but don't mention a boyfriend they'll STILL flirt till you call them out on the carpet with: So how's your boyfriend doing? even if you don't know them or know if they have one or not.
If a chick is serious about wanting to get to know you she'll not only flirt and give out her number but she'll ask if you're single and make sure she's single.
Two quick examples of chicks who flirted with me and gave out great "signs" of IOI that meant NADA but them seeking to "flirt" only for their OWN attention fix:
One hot chick ALWAYS used to come see me at my part time. Would come in with her mom, ask for me, talk, flirt, smile, compliment me, asked about me to a friend at a party whom told me later on, make direct eye contact with me etc. It went on for a while. Part of the time she had a BF. I had a GF and she knew it at the time so I never went for it.
Eventually I got her number and had to tell the mom it was for shoes as the mom was really friendly with me and asked why I asked for her number (daughter 23) I'm much older so I had to cover my azz.
When I called the chick she never answered nor called back to a simple VM message. I had her on FB before I deleted the whole thing and at random times (only tried three times) within months to say what's up..she never answered. Dropped the whole thing period.
Conclusion: I was "for the moment" attention. Nothing more.
Chick two: the other day another hot chick came into my part time who knows me ran up, hugged me, made small talk, smiling, constantly making strong eye contact, asked if I was single etc. I immediately asked how her boyfriend is doing (that's when she admitted she had one but didn't know if it would work out). Started telling me what a great couple we'd make and we should get married etc. (Trying to gas my head up). I kept it cordial and friendly and let her go on her merry way as the next day she was going on vacation with the boyfriend she "doesn't know if it's going to work with".
In closing the chicks even IF they are interested and single need to follow through on their end. If not...You keep it friendly and cordial and drop that attention fix you're giving them right then and there as a lot of chicks WILL play the IOI game only for their own self.
You never show your hand and get emo or pissed at them. Think of them as a kid. Smile, be friendly and drop their nonsense. Don't worry. They'll soon forget about you even if you do and run off for IOI self attention fixes from the next chump they can reel into the attention game.
Why? Because believe it or not. And I'm sure most of you are already well aware IOI's mean jack squat. Chicks will purposely send IOI's even if they want nothing to do with dating you and even IF they have a boyfriend. Why?
Because they are like little kids in CONSTANT need of attention. If they need their ego boost for that moody time of day they'll flirt with you, then do it later on to some other dude because most if not all of them are insecure even if in a relationship. Same with if they have but don't mention a boyfriend they'll STILL flirt till you call them out on the carpet with: So how's your boyfriend doing? even if you don't know them or know if they have one or not.
If a chick is serious about wanting to get to know you she'll not only flirt and give out her number but she'll ask if you're single and make sure she's single.
Two quick examples of chicks who flirted with me and gave out great "signs" of IOI that meant NADA but them seeking to "flirt" only for their OWN attention fix:
One hot chick ALWAYS used to come see me at my part time. Would come in with her mom, ask for me, talk, flirt, smile, compliment me, asked about me to a friend at a party whom told me later on, make direct eye contact with me etc. It went on for a while. Part of the time she had a BF. I had a GF and she knew it at the time so I never went for it.
Eventually I got her number and had to tell the mom it was for shoes as the mom was really friendly with me and asked why I asked for her number (daughter 23) I'm much older so I had to cover my azz.
When I called the chick she never answered nor called back to a simple VM message. I had her on FB before I deleted the whole thing and at random times (only tried three times) within months to say what's up..she never answered. Dropped the whole thing period.
Conclusion: I was "for the moment" attention. Nothing more.
Chick two: the other day another hot chick came into my part time who knows me ran up, hugged me, made small talk, smiling, constantly making strong eye contact, asked if I was single etc. I immediately asked how her boyfriend is doing (that's when she admitted she had one but didn't know if it would work out). Started telling me what a great couple we'd make and we should get married etc. (Trying to gas my head up). I kept it cordial and friendly and let her go on her merry way as the next day she was going on vacation with the boyfriend she "doesn't know if it's going to work with".
In closing the chicks even IF they are interested and single need to follow through on their end. If not...You keep it friendly and cordial and drop that attention fix you're giving them right then and there as a lot of chicks WILL play the IOI game only for their own self.
You never show your hand and get emo or pissed at them. Think of them as a kid. Smile, be friendly and drop their nonsense. Don't worry. They'll soon forget about you even if you do and run off for IOI self attention fixes from the next chump they can reel into the attention game.