guywhoneedshelp
Master Don Juan
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It's a terrible idea. It will only distract you from your personal and career goals. In today's society you can be dating 5 people at once and neither of them will care. By not caring, they don't control you. You don't have to sacrifice friends or anything to spend time with them, you just see them at your convenience and have fun, usually sex is involved.
I have someone I can shoot pool with. Some who may want to go mini-golfing. Someone who wants to go lay at the beach and get a tan. Someone who wants to see the new movie that just came out. I obtained all this by simply picking up the phone, reuniting myself with friends, and socializing everywhere I go.
I still get depressed now and then (although not as much) when I think about my ex and the fact that we just couldn't work things out. But then I realize how much better off I am.
I think what happens is a lot of guys are so used to being rejected, that finally when someone cares about them, cooks for them, etc, they think it's good enough and they settle. The reality is that when you are 18 or 19, most of the hot 19 year old girls are interested in a man who is:
1. Older
2. More successful
But I realized, I can obtain more girls and hotter girls now because I'm somewhat successful, and I make myself appear to be a bigger deal than I am. It is unbelievable how some of the girls that wouldn't give me the time of day just 3 years ago are now flocking to me. It's amazing.
I really can't believe how some of my friends were going to go away to college and now they aren't because they are so comfortable with their current girlfriend. That's bull sh!t. Women want to kill your dreams while obtaining there's. Guys in relationships avoid taking the necessary steps to evolve and succeed in their career.
So no way will I ever settle down to another exclusive relationship for awhile. I have no one demanding things from me or having expectations. I don't get attached so I simply just don't care if I hear from a girl in a week or so. I banged a girl a week ago, haven't heard from her since, and don't care. I banged a girl 2 days ago, haven't heard from her since, and don't care. Maybe I'll call them when I have needs one night and maybe not much is going on, it's raining outside, cold out, whatever. Or they'll call for the some reason. In the meantime I don't care who they bang, what they do, who they hang out with, or anything.
Am I talking to you?
I have someone I can shoot pool with. Some who may want to go mini-golfing. Someone who wants to go lay at the beach and get a tan. Someone who wants to see the new movie that just came out. I obtained all this by simply picking up the phone, reuniting myself with friends, and socializing everywhere I go.
I still get depressed now and then (although not as much) when I think about my ex and the fact that we just couldn't work things out. But then I realize how much better off I am.
I think what happens is a lot of guys are so used to being rejected, that finally when someone cares about them, cooks for them, etc, they think it's good enough and they settle. The reality is that when you are 18 or 19, most of the hot 19 year old girls are interested in a man who is:
1. Older
2. More successful
But I realized, I can obtain more girls and hotter girls now because I'm somewhat successful, and I make myself appear to be a bigger deal than I am. It is unbelievable how some of the girls that wouldn't give me the time of day just 3 years ago are now flocking to me. It's amazing.
I really can't believe how some of my friends were going to go away to college and now they aren't because they are so comfortable with their current girlfriend. That's bull sh!t. Women want to kill your dreams while obtaining there's. Guys in relationships avoid taking the necessary steps to evolve and succeed in their career.
So no way will I ever settle down to another exclusive relationship for awhile. I have no one demanding things from me or having expectations. I don't get attached so I simply just don't care if I hear from a girl in a week or so. I banged a girl a week ago, haven't heard from her since, and don't care. I banged a girl 2 days ago, haven't heard from her since, and don't care. Maybe I'll call them when I have needs one night and maybe not much is going on, it's raining outside, cold out, whatever. Or they'll call for the some reason. In the meantime I don't care who they bang, what they do, who they hang out with, or anything.
Am I talking to you?