I've been seeing this girl for a few weeks. She is 19 and I'm 23. She was stuck in a relationship she didn't like for over a year or more but didn't quit for some reason. It was the only BF she had ever had. She talked to me for about a month before they broke up, I guess because I asked her out and it showed her she didn;t have to be with him.
Fast forward to the end of date 2. We have got along pretty well from the start. I said it looked like I might not have to work on Saturday afterall. I mention that I would like to go to this play where you have to follow along and figure out a murder mystery. The package includes the show, dinner, and a room at the lodge(state park). I had mentioned it to her before and she was up for it but it looked like I was going to have to work. She is very busy with school so I also said that it was an overnight stay.
That cause her to blurt out "well don't think you are getting laid", in a VERY serious tone. I of course said WTF kind of comment is that to make. She went into some big spew about some BS guys thinking that taking off work means they get laid, etc. I said well whatever and she said the was just having fun right now and doesn't want to ruin it. I told her that made me feel real great about myself LOL!
She doesn't mind getting close and I can kiss her all I can stand. I really don't know what to think now. On one hand she could just be really shy since she was with the other fella so long and it is a small town so I know that was her only one. Or she could be playing me. Or maybe I'm paranoid.
BTW, she thought the first date was strickly about getting into her pants since I took her back to my place to dance since I couldn;t think of any clubs, etc I could get her into being 19. I've wondered if that is playing into this scenario. She has also said it has upset her that a guy "friend" she used to work with called and asked her out as soon as he heard she broke up with wuss bag that couldn't make any descions. She said it has her looking at guys in a new way since she thought they were "just friends".
Fast forward to the end of date 2. We have got along pretty well from the start. I said it looked like I might not have to work on Saturday afterall. I mention that I would like to go to this play where you have to follow along and figure out a murder mystery. The package includes the show, dinner, and a room at the lodge(state park). I had mentioned it to her before and she was up for it but it looked like I was going to have to work. She is very busy with school so I also said that it was an overnight stay.
That cause her to blurt out "well don't think you are getting laid", in a VERY serious tone. I of course said WTF kind of comment is that to make. She went into some big spew about some BS guys thinking that taking off work means they get laid, etc. I said well whatever and she said the was just having fun right now and doesn't want to ruin it. I told her that made me feel real great about myself LOL!
She doesn't mind getting close and I can kiss her all I can stand. I really don't know what to think now. On one hand she could just be really shy since she was with the other fella so long and it is a small town so I know that was her only one. Or she could be playing me. Or maybe I'm paranoid.
BTW, she thought the first date was strickly about getting into her pants since I took her back to my place to dance since I couldn;t think of any clubs, etc I could get her into being 19. I've wondered if that is playing into this scenario. She has also said it has upset her that a guy "friend" she used to work with called and asked her out as soon as he heard she broke up with wuss bag that couldn't make any descions. She said it has her looking at guys in a new way since she thought they were "just friends".