I-am-someone
Senior Don Juan
Here's just a couple of thoughts about relationships that have been wandering through my head.
Very attractive women just can't seem to do it for me. It's like all extremely attractive women just seem so self-absorbed in their appearance, that it just turns me off so much I don't even like them anymore. I'm not the only guy that has this, I've talked to plenty of other guys that have the same feeling.
Then, when you meet a girl that is not all that attractive, you suddenly find yourself feeling unable to to have any kind of sexual feeling towards her. This is also a common thought among a lot of men.
Some people have closed these two fields down, to the point where 0,01% of the female population is still worthy of a relationship. Others don't care one dime and consider 80% of the female population as worthy of a relationship.
Neither one of these extreme opposites is really to blame for their taste. Somehow, throughout every human's life you define a list of criteria that your mate should live up to. This is just the way you are.
However, you can change your list of criteria. It's not all that hard. I believe that every single man has the ability to look within himself and loosen up these criteria in one way or another.
I have changed my criteria quite a bit over the last few weeks, and I honestly think that it's actually for the better. I've finally started to look deeper into people's personalities. Once you really go deep into someone's soul, you suddenly realize that that is a thousand times as important as appearances.
A 6.5 can suddenly turn into an 8.5 when you change your criteria. This 6.5 can have such a great personality, that it automatically raises the attractiveness.
A 9.5 can suddenly turn into a 6.5 when you change your criteria. That 9.5 can be so self-absorbed, so spoiled and so annoying, that she becomes absolutely unattractive.
These two examples, are real-life examples. I've experienced the change myself, and I believe it did me good.
Three weeks ago, I was in a bar with a 9.5 from my school, a model that does modeling work almost every week. I had been neg-hitting her most of the day, she was visibly getting horney and had been trying to get my number for a while. In the bar, she was talking to her friend and I could see what she was saying and vaguely hear it. She told her she wanted to **** me, preferably that night. So, I decided to move in for the kill, and started chatting to her with my leg in between hers while she was basically riding my leg, having me hands on her ass. Somehow, during that conversation, I realized that this was not the way to go. I finally decided to look into her soul, and as I was sitting there I suddenly realized I didn't like this girl. This girl was so self-absorbed, had lied to almost all the people she knew, had abused people to get what she wanted and just had such a personality, I suddenly felt like some horrible troll was riding my leg. I kept on laughing, and kept my game up but I managed to cool everything off by telling her she wasn't my type.
All of this made me realize, that I was essentially looking for the wrong thing, or rather that my list of criteria wasn't quite correct yet.
I'm not just looking for the girl with the sexiest body. I'm looking for a girl with a sexy body, and a great personality.
Please comment, I would love to hear someone elses take on this as well.
Very attractive women just can't seem to do it for me. It's like all extremely attractive women just seem so self-absorbed in their appearance, that it just turns me off so much I don't even like them anymore. I'm not the only guy that has this, I've talked to plenty of other guys that have the same feeling.
Then, when you meet a girl that is not all that attractive, you suddenly find yourself feeling unable to to have any kind of sexual feeling towards her. This is also a common thought among a lot of men.
Some people have closed these two fields down, to the point where 0,01% of the female population is still worthy of a relationship. Others don't care one dime and consider 80% of the female population as worthy of a relationship.
Neither one of these extreme opposites is really to blame for their taste. Somehow, throughout every human's life you define a list of criteria that your mate should live up to. This is just the way you are.
However, you can change your list of criteria. It's not all that hard. I believe that every single man has the ability to look within himself and loosen up these criteria in one way or another.
I have changed my criteria quite a bit over the last few weeks, and I honestly think that it's actually for the better. I've finally started to look deeper into people's personalities. Once you really go deep into someone's soul, you suddenly realize that that is a thousand times as important as appearances.
A 6.5 can suddenly turn into an 8.5 when you change your criteria. This 6.5 can have such a great personality, that it automatically raises the attractiveness.
A 9.5 can suddenly turn into a 6.5 when you change your criteria. That 9.5 can be so self-absorbed, so spoiled and so annoying, that she becomes absolutely unattractive.
These two examples, are real-life examples. I've experienced the change myself, and I believe it did me good.
Three weeks ago, I was in a bar with a 9.5 from my school, a model that does modeling work almost every week. I had been neg-hitting her most of the day, she was visibly getting horney and had been trying to get my number for a while. In the bar, she was talking to her friend and I could see what she was saying and vaguely hear it. She told her she wanted to **** me, preferably that night. So, I decided to move in for the kill, and started chatting to her with my leg in between hers while she was basically riding my leg, having me hands on her ass. Somehow, during that conversation, I realized that this was not the way to go. I finally decided to look into her soul, and as I was sitting there I suddenly realized I didn't like this girl. This girl was so self-absorbed, had lied to almost all the people she knew, had abused people to get what she wanted and just had such a personality, I suddenly felt like some horrible troll was riding my leg. I kept on laughing, and kept my game up but I managed to cool everything off by telling her she wasn't my type.
All of this made me realize, that I was essentially looking for the wrong thing, or rather that my list of criteria wasn't quite correct yet.
I'm not just looking for the girl with the sexiest body. I'm looking for a girl with a sexy body, and a great personality.
Please comment, I would love to hear someone elses take on this as well.
