Where Are The Finest Women In The World??
There was a thread on RSD Nation recently about this Argentinian glamour model, Luciana Salazar.
While most of the guys thought she was hot, one of the guys from Argentina responded to the thread saying that he think didn't so, and that she didn't represent the Argentinian natural beauties who are known to frolic around down there.
Personally I've always thought a lot of the newbie "She's not hot enough" mentality actually comes from a confusion between what kind of girls they'd JERK OFF to, as opposed to what kind of girls they'd date if they actually could get the time of day.
Like, while Luciana here might not be the first girl I'd pull up onto my computer screen if I was at home by myself and feeling lonely, I'm hardly delusional enough to think that if I managed to get her attention in a nightclub that I'd blow her off on account that she's "Not my type".......
Come on!!
Sexiness also has a LOT to do with a girl's personality and polarity and general energy, and while I don't know much about her, I'm guessing that Luciana is probably a lot more in tune with her sexuality than the average girl. I'm sure she'd love this article because people saying "I like her!!" and "I hate her!!" is exactly the type of reaction she wants, similar to Paris Hilton who uses her polarizing media image to her advantage.
Still, all that said I can see why some of the guys from Argentina might be annoyed that a girl who has had plastic surgery wouldn't be what they want representing the Argentinian standard of beauty to the rest of the world.
I just came back from a two month stint in Buenos Aires Argentina myself, and there were definitely a lot of naturally beautiful women down there.
At the same time, I think there's a lot of fallacies I see when it comes to the stereotypes of beauty for women around the world.
First off, I think that it has to do with the venues that you frequent. There were definitely NOT more beautiful women in Argentinian nightclubs than there were in nightclubs in Los Angeles or even Chicago.
That's because although the average girl on the street probably looks better in Argentina, the high-end venues in the USA manage to ROUND UP the best looking girls MORE EFFECTIVELY than the clubs I frequented while I was down there.
The quality of the club scene in a city has a lot to do with how well I'd rate it.
You can have all the hot women you want, but if the promoters aren't doing what's necessary to get them into one place then you're left meeting women during the day-time when you're busy getting work done or out trying to see the sights.
I think a lot of it also has to do with there being warm weather, and a high standard of fashion in the city. With warm weather it forces both girls AND guys to keep themselves in better shape. It's that little decision before you eat the bowl of icecream that maybe it's not such a good idea, as opposed to people in a colder climate who decide to just go for it.
As for fashion I've personally come to a point where I actually somewhat DISLIKE high fashion and when girls dress overly well, because it can trick the eye and make it harder to tell what she really looks like. I'm sure I'm in the minority on this -- I realize that...
OTOH, back in the day I LOVED girls who dressed high fashion, and if a girl wasn't dressed well I just wasn't interested.
I also used to like plastic surgery because I was too naive to know which girls were real and which had had work done. I'd see a girl who was rail-thin with C-cup breasts and think "Wow!! I've never seen girls like this in my entire life!!" These days, having spent 3 years in Hollywood, I can spot plastic surgery from about a mile away and it's definitely not my thing.
Of course, oftentimes the girls who've had work done are also the ones who take care of themselves in all other aspects and so they still wind up being the most attractive girls in the venue. Brooke Burke, for example, has had plastic surgery and yet any guy who says he wouldn't date her is either in a very good relationship or blatantly lying.
I also prefer cities that encourage FITNESS as opposed to just beauty and fashion.
Personally I like girls who lift heavy weights in the gym (along with cardio), as opposed to girls who are just naturally lean.
There's a lot of misconceptions about what lifting heavy weights (ie: bench press, deadlifts, squats, military press) will do to a girl -- like that it will turn girls all big and steroid looking like you see in certain magazines.
In reality, even as a GUY lifting weights you won't get to that level unless you're pounding back food and very genetically gifted.
The only thing that happens when a girl lifts weights is that she burns off massive amounts of calories and sculpts her body until it becomes totally hot.
Like, Kate Beckinsdale I personally think is drop dead gorgeous.
That goes both for her personality as well as her looks. She also has a classy vibe about her that's very hot, and carries her British accent very very well.
At the same time, Kate also chooses not to lift heavy weights in the gym and as a result has somewhat of a more ordinary girl's type physique.
It's possible that her agent advises her to keep a more classic look, because modelling can have all sorts of rigid requirements -- I don't know.
I'll still give Kate nothing but love though, just cause she endorses RSD.
Anyway, I think the standard of beauty has actually moved in a more positive direction in recent years, thanks to girls like Madonna and Sara Jessica Parker who are working out and make it look awesome.
There's also a trend of personal trainers becoming en-vogue with all the superficial "Entertainment Tonight" type shows going out and showcasing the routines and diets that are used by the stars.
I actually think superficiality can be a good thing if it promotes a lifestyle that's centered around health and fitness. I mean, whatever it is that motivates you -- whatever, as long as it encourages you to make the right decisions for yourself.
There's really just NO COMPARISON to me between a girl who's into fitness and a girl who isn't.
If a girl is dating me, then we're going to the gym together.
That's MANDATORY.
My girlfriend has actually become so obsessed with hitting the gym with me that she's become a personal trainer.
I can't express how happy this makes me....
Anywayzzzz........
Overall, I think the most important thing is going after girls that YOU find attractive.
Everyone has their own tastes, and there's nothing that I think is more wack than going after the girls that you think your FRIENDS will like instead of of what YOU personally find attractive yourself.
I've seen a lot of guys meet girls who they won't date because they're afraid of what their friends will think.
Just the other day I was looking at one of my old buddy Erik's "WTF Episodes" on YouTube and I was blown away by the hate and nastiness towards the girls in his vids -- all throughout the responses.
There were guys saying "Those girls aren't hot enough for me!!" and you can basically GUARANTEE that the guys posting this stuff are nasty little ****heads sitting at home on their computer without having had sex for MONTHS if not YEARS.
Again, you really can't tell how attractive a girl is unless you're IN HER PRESENCE.
I've dated girls who looked downright FUNNY in photos........
But get around them in person and you'll find yourself in a ****ing trance because they're so sexual and attractive in real life.
Oftentimes the most desired girl in the club has qualities that you wouldn't expect that make her more attractive.
As you've been with more and more women, you'll probably find that you start appreciating a different set of qualities than you used to, and that you look a lot deeper at the girl that you're dating or having a physical relationship with.
Anyway, getting back to the title of this thread.........
Here are my personal favourite cities for women (subject to revision, of course)....:
10- New York
9- Chicago
8- Montreal, Canada
7- San Diego
6- Miami South Beach
5- Buenos Aires, Argentina
4- Las Vegas
3- Mykonos, Greece
2- Sydney, Australia
1- Los Angeles
Check out all these cities if you get a chance. They're all excellent.
And be sure to hit me up here with any of your own favourite cities or thoughts on any of this...........
Thanks!!
There was a thread on RSD Nation recently about this Argentinian glamour model, Luciana Salazar.
While most of the guys thought she was hot, one of the guys from Argentina responded to the thread saying that he think didn't so, and that she didn't represent the Argentinian natural beauties who are known to frolic around down there.
Personally I've always thought a lot of the newbie "She's not hot enough" mentality actually comes from a confusion between what kind of girls they'd JERK OFF to, as opposed to what kind of girls they'd date if they actually could get the time of day.
Like, while Luciana here might not be the first girl I'd pull up onto my computer screen if I was at home by myself and feeling lonely, I'm hardly delusional enough to think that if I managed to get her attention in a nightclub that I'd blow her off on account that she's "Not my type".......
Come on!!
Sexiness also has a LOT to do with a girl's personality and polarity and general energy, and while I don't know much about her, I'm guessing that Luciana is probably a lot more in tune with her sexuality than the average girl. I'm sure she'd love this article because people saying "I like her!!" and "I hate her!!" is exactly the type of reaction she wants, similar to Paris Hilton who uses her polarizing media image to her advantage.
Still, all that said I can see why some of the guys from Argentina might be annoyed that a girl who has had plastic surgery wouldn't be what they want representing the Argentinian standard of beauty to the rest of the world.
I just came back from a two month stint in Buenos Aires Argentina myself, and there were definitely a lot of naturally beautiful women down there.
At the same time, I think there's a lot of fallacies I see when it comes to the stereotypes of beauty for women around the world.
First off, I think that it has to do with the venues that you frequent. There were definitely NOT more beautiful women in Argentinian nightclubs than there were in nightclubs in Los Angeles or even Chicago.
That's because although the average girl on the street probably looks better in Argentina, the high-end venues in the USA manage to ROUND UP the best looking girls MORE EFFECTIVELY than the clubs I frequented while I was down there.
The quality of the club scene in a city has a lot to do with how well I'd rate it.
You can have all the hot women you want, but if the promoters aren't doing what's necessary to get them into one place then you're left meeting women during the day-time when you're busy getting work done or out trying to see the sights.
I think a lot of it also has to do with there being warm weather, and a high standard of fashion in the city. With warm weather it forces both girls AND guys to keep themselves in better shape. It's that little decision before you eat the bowl of icecream that maybe it's not such a good idea, as opposed to people in a colder climate who decide to just go for it.
As for fashion I've personally come to a point where I actually somewhat DISLIKE high fashion and when girls dress overly well, because it can trick the eye and make it harder to tell what she really looks like. I'm sure I'm in the minority on this -- I realize that...
OTOH, back in the day I LOVED girls who dressed high fashion, and if a girl wasn't dressed well I just wasn't interested.
I also used to like plastic surgery because I was too naive to know which girls were real and which had had work done. I'd see a girl who was rail-thin with C-cup breasts and think "Wow!! I've never seen girls like this in my entire life!!" These days, having spent 3 years in Hollywood, I can spot plastic surgery from about a mile away and it's definitely not my thing.
Of course, oftentimes the girls who've had work done are also the ones who take care of themselves in all other aspects and so they still wind up being the most attractive girls in the venue. Brooke Burke, for example, has had plastic surgery and yet any guy who says he wouldn't date her is either in a very good relationship or blatantly lying.
I also prefer cities that encourage FITNESS as opposed to just beauty and fashion.
Personally I like girls who lift heavy weights in the gym (along with cardio), as opposed to girls who are just naturally lean.
There's a lot of misconceptions about what lifting heavy weights (ie: bench press, deadlifts, squats, military press) will do to a girl -- like that it will turn girls all big and steroid looking like you see in certain magazines.
In reality, even as a GUY lifting weights you won't get to that level unless you're pounding back food and very genetically gifted.
The only thing that happens when a girl lifts weights is that she burns off massive amounts of calories and sculpts her body until it becomes totally hot.
Like, Kate Beckinsdale I personally think is drop dead gorgeous.
That goes both for her personality as well as her looks. She also has a classy vibe about her that's very hot, and carries her British accent very very well.
At the same time, Kate also chooses not to lift heavy weights in the gym and as a result has somewhat of a more ordinary girl's type physique.
It's possible that her agent advises her to keep a more classic look, because modelling can have all sorts of rigid requirements -- I don't know.
I'll still give Kate nothing but love though, just cause she endorses RSD.
Anyway, I think the standard of beauty has actually moved in a more positive direction in recent years, thanks to girls like Madonna and Sara Jessica Parker who are working out and make it look awesome.
There's also a trend of personal trainers becoming en-vogue with all the superficial "Entertainment Tonight" type shows going out and showcasing the routines and diets that are used by the stars.
I actually think superficiality can be a good thing if it promotes a lifestyle that's centered around health and fitness. I mean, whatever it is that motivates you -- whatever, as long as it encourages you to make the right decisions for yourself.
There's really just NO COMPARISON to me between a girl who's into fitness and a girl who isn't.
If a girl is dating me, then we're going to the gym together.
That's MANDATORY.
My girlfriend has actually become so obsessed with hitting the gym with me that she's become a personal trainer.
I can't express how happy this makes me....
Anywayzzzz........
Overall, I think the most important thing is going after girls that YOU find attractive.
Everyone has their own tastes, and there's nothing that I think is more wack than going after the girls that you think your FRIENDS will like instead of of what YOU personally find attractive yourself.
I've seen a lot of guys meet girls who they won't date because they're afraid of what their friends will think.
Just the other day I was looking at one of my old buddy Erik's "WTF Episodes" on YouTube and I was blown away by the hate and nastiness towards the girls in his vids -- all throughout the responses.
There were guys saying "Those girls aren't hot enough for me!!" and you can basically GUARANTEE that the guys posting this stuff are nasty little ****heads sitting at home on their computer without having had sex for MONTHS if not YEARS.
Again, you really can't tell how attractive a girl is unless you're IN HER PRESENCE.
I've dated girls who looked downright FUNNY in photos........
But get around them in person and you'll find yourself in a ****ing trance because they're so sexual and attractive in real life.
Oftentimes the most desired girl in the club has qualities that you wouldn't expect that make her more attractive.
As you've been with more and more women, you'll probably find that you start appreciating a different set of qualities than you used to, and that you look a lot deeper at the girl that you're dating or having a physical relationship with.
Anyway, getting back to the title of this thread.........
Here are my personal favourite cities for women (subject to revision, of course)....:
10- New York
9- Chicago
8- Montreal, Canada
7- San Diego
6- Miami South Beach
5- Buenos Aires, Argentina
4- Las Vegas
3- Mykonos, Greece
2- Sydney, Australia
1- Los Angeles
Check out all these cities if you get a chance. They're all excellent.
And be sure to hit me up here with any of your own favourite cities or thoughts on any of this...........
Thanks!!
