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When to dump your gf

skinnyguy

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1) she stops having sex with you

2) she stops respecting you

3) she never offers to pay for anything

4) she meets up with her orbiters

5) she acts "distant"

6) you're bored with her and you've found a better girl

7) you feel like the weaker one in the relationship
 

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I think the same could be said if you're married too perhaps not all those points. But some yes for sure
 

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No sex = Next

Disrespect = Next

Getting Drunk, Bar Slut = Next

Greedy With Money = Next
 

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Good list.

Women typically start doing the things listed above for one of 3 reasons:

1.) You lost frame. If a chick was disrespectful, acted distant and was on her phone a lot on a first date, would you go out with her again? The answer should be NO. Most chicks do not do these things early on, but they increase over time because YOU allow it. The longer you date the same chick, you start getting comfortable, lead less, put up with more and frame is lost. Over time you give in more and more to the point that you are in her frame, not vise versa. Women may act like they want power, but when you give it to them, they WILL lose interest. The remedy is to keep frame and the same level of expectations of what you expect from her from the first date throughout.

2.) Monkey branchers- Some women are just always looking for the next best option. She will be into you and come across as being the loyal, trustworthy and selfless person until something "better" triggers her eye. Nothing you can do about it other than spot the signs, push pull and start spending your attention elsewhere.

3.) She's just a wh0re- Plain and simple. Some women have no intentions on an exclusive relationship and will fvck anything that gives them the right amount of attention. There are many signs to recognize for this: provocative selfies on social media, attention wh0ring on social media, "guy friends" that they always say are friends only but doesnt take you around them, etc etc.
 

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After you're bored of banging her
 

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  • Consistent decline in sex
  • Consistent decline in respect
  • She is over age 29
Which ever comes first.
 

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Hey guys... Long time no see!

Well, i'd like to thank you skynnyguy...

Since I've last logged in here I got single, got into a 2 years/half ltr, single again. Now I am dating once again... It was awesome for the first 2 months.
I thought that this time it was it. It ain't. All of the bellow is happening:

1) she stops having sex with you

2) she stops respecting you

4) she meets up with her orbiters (I'm inclined to believe)

5) she acts "distant"

7) you feel like the weaker one in the relationship​

I've decided to log in SoSuave, and by chance I've read your post.

Final call. Next!!

I don't know how was your journey for this past 4 years since we got here. But now we are older, wiser, and less inclined to hold on to women ****.

So once again, thanks to your post. It couldn't have been in a better time, And it couldn't have come from a better person!

Thanks again mate!
 

soulforge

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Hey guys... Long time no see!

Well, i'd like to thank you skynnyguy...

Since I've last logged in here I got single, got into a 2 years/half ltr, single again. Now I am dating once again... It was awesome for the first 2 months.
I thought that this time it was it. It ain't. All of the bellow is happening:

1) she stops having sex with you

2) she stops respecting you

4) she meets up with her orbiters (I'm inclined to believe)

5) she acts "distant"

7) you feel like the weaker one in the relationship​

I've decided to log in SoSuave, and by chance I've read your post.

Final call. Next!!

I don't know how was your journey for this past 4 years since we got here. But now we are older, wiser, and less inclined to hold on to women ****.

So once again, thanks to your post. It couldn't have been in a better time, And it couldn't have come from a better person!

Thanks again mate!
Your getting disrespected brah? Walk away...

If you stay, she WILL eventually leave you anyway... it's a lose lose situation!

A woman who loves you, values you, appreciates you... Will not disrespect you!
 

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1.) You lost frame.
Only this, which encompasses all in everybody's list.

Whenever you find yourself in a damaged frame, walk away. She will either return thereby surrendering to your frame--or--she won't, which is best if your frame were already dead.
 

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Only this, which encompasses all in everybody's list.

Whenever you find yourself in a damaged frame, walk away. She will either return thereby surrendering to your frame--or--she won't, which is best if your frame were already dead.
Losing frame is normally the first domino to fall, thus creating the other issues to stack up. The reason that I listed it first!
 

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Dump... if she turns out to be a slut, aka public receptacle.

That's just nasty!:eek::(:confused:
 

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This pedastaling of women is sad af. Dump your gf under your judgement, not by her motives.
 

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Your #6 is literally monkey branching... :O
Why dump her cause you found another better one? When does this stop?
Just keep stackin em if you ask me ;P
 

icantgetlaid

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Don't over complicate things.

You walk away from women when they are no longer fun. That is all you need to remember.
This.

The whole 'break up' concept is only relevant if you are married really. Otherwise, you don't need to 'break up'. Just start banging other girls, and creating distance with the girl who is no longer enjoyable to be around.
 
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