thirtyzDude
Don Juan
This was interesting - I've been seeing this girl for a few weeks now. We've made out and fooled around, but nothing really below the belt. This whole time she's been telling me that she needs to wait until she's comfortable with a guy until she has sex with him...but all the while she's telling me what a nympho she is. Last night I had just gotten back from a workout and was feeling, well, randy. She came over to pick me up for a date; I kissed her and started unbuttoning her pants without asking. I did my thing for a while, then we went on our date...and she keeps telling me how she wants to wait, and she also asks how long I like to wait. Well, the answer is obvious, but I reply that I want to make sure the girl is not a psycho and won't steal my s**t while I'm sleeping. But I make sure to say nothing when she mentions her wanting to wait. I did at one point tell her I was in no rush, but my hands had minds of their own. We end up back at my place; I invite her in. She asks if I'll behave myself, I reply "no promises." She says we can go in and make out, I reply with "sure, it'll definitely start out that way." So she finally comes in and needless to say ends up naked in my bed. A couple of things I'd like to know - is that the best way to deal with a girl that persists in telling you how she wants to wait? Just say nothing and make your move later on anyway? It obviously seemed to work this time, but I just wanted to see if anyone had a better idea. Secondly, what's the best response when a girl asks you how long YOU like to wait before sex? It just seems like such a stupid question...