I've been with this girl for about 8 months. We get, sorry got, along great. However last week she pulls up and says "i need to get away from you, i think you are obsessed with me". I was shell shocked...no idea where that came from. There's no sap, no lovey type stuff coming from my end. We talk like once a day on the phone, she usually does the calling. We hang out 5 times a week, etc. She likes that I send her emails, we exchange them like 2 times a day...I work a desk job so I'm always in front of the computer. Something freaked her out and I don't know what it is, but she said "you are obsessed". Since then I have gone no contact. I know she was disrespectful as hell with this and i know she loves my attention. Not sure if I want her back or what's up with her...but when someone tells you this and you clearly aren't...I mean I looked up what obsessed meant in regards to another person...holy s@it batman I am not that. Can you beat these people and flip their head around by showing that you are not obsessed?