reading over the 2 "would you fight over a girl" threads raging on right now, I realized that a lot of you are saying that a DJ should not take his date or girlfriend to a club. Some are even suggesting that "high quality" girls don't go to clubs...
Are you guys serious? Can't you see how badly that reeks of insecurity on your part?
1. the date. She agrees to go to a club with you where she knows you will grind all over her, probably kiss her, play with her body and maybe take her to a hotel/your place later. She OBVIOUSLY has high IL if she accepts the date in the first place. So the only reason some other guy will get the girl that night is if you fvck up big time (for example, by acting insecure around her when other guys try to chat her up!). You will not lose this girl during the time you just go to the bathroom and back.
2. your girlfriend. If both you and her like to dance and have a wild time AND hang out with your single friends, maybe help them get laid, then what's wrong with going to a club? What else do you suggest doing on a saturday night, staying at home with her and playing cards or doing cross words? Of course, if your girl is hot, it's almost a given some guy will try to interact with her in one way or another.
In this situation, if your gf is "high quality", she wont even give the guy the time of day; she'll blow him off instantly; she'll go looking for you, or pull you closer to her.
If your girlfriend is a low quality skank, then she will be flirting back, even letting the guy get physical with her. Then you know you're wasting your time with the wrong girl, next her and that's it.
Overall don't blame clubs for your own insecurities or your girl's slvttiness.
Are you guys serious? Can't you see how badly that reeks of insecurity on your part?
1. the date. She agrees to go to a club with you where she knows you will grind all over her, probably kiss her, play with her body and maybe take her to a hotel/your place later. She OBVIOUSLY has high IL if she accepts the date in the first place. So the only reason some other guy will get the girl that night is if you fvck up big time (for example, by acting insecure around her when other guys try to chat her up!). You will not lose this girl during the time you just go to the bathroom and back.
2. your girlfriend. If both you and her like to dance and have a wild time AND hang out with your single friends, maybe help them get laid, then what's wrong with going to a club? What else do you suggest doing on a saturday night, staying at home with her and playing cards or doing cross words? Of course, if your girl is hot, it's almost a given some guy will try to interact with her in one way or another.
In this situation, if your gf is "high quality", she wont even give the guy the time of day; she'll blow him off instantly; she'll go looking for you, or pull you closer to her.
If your girlfriend is a low quality skank, then she will be flirting back, even letting the guy get physical with her. Then you know you're wasting your time with the wrong girl, next her and that's it.
Overall don't blame clubs for your own insecurities or your girl's slvttiness.