What's the point of nofap?

[Chamber36]

So I stopped masturbating a bit over a week ago. Just because I decided I wanted to have my control over my sexual urges in general.... So I might be able to resist the emotionally vampiric (ex?) girlfriend that I have.

Feel like my eyes are about to pop out of my head. Decided to text an easy chick I fvcked a few weeks ago. I have got to stick my **** into something.

I work out in the gym like an angry bull, and I am feeling much more assertive when it comes to chicks in general.

I do feel like this is a bit extreme though. It's like the energy is just building up inside me and it wants to get out, but I'm keeping it inside. Like a pot where the water is boiling and the pressure just keeps going up inside, and im trying to keep it in.

I read on the internet most people do this cuz they're porn-addicted and can't jerk off without porn. That's not the case for me, I just wanted to harness the energy a bit because I know it can make u work out like a beast and give u more energy day-to-day.

I just wonder if this is normal, healthy or even reasonable for a regular horny mofo like me though.

 

[TheProspect]

I feel like when I don't masturbate (or watch porn) for about week, my erections get harder and stay up longer. You can look up the science behind that, I'm not going to explain it here.

Plus you'll feel more horny, and if you're goal is be more confident in approaching women, you'll go out of your way more to do just that. The only negative to that is you may lower your standards just to get laid.

Don't forget all the time you're saving not masturbating or watching porn, it adds up.

The point of nofap can be any of the aforementioned points but it can also simply be wanting to push the boundaries of your willpower.

 

[Roober]

Its the exact opposite of what the idiot said in "there's something about Mary"... Damn movie ruining men.

Women want a lion, not another woman

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

The energy behind the fap is misunderstood and often extremely underutilized.

It's not really something you can handle with your monkey brain, as it's the energy is essentially the reason why there's a bunch of living stuff on Earth instead of rocks. The desire to jizz into the appropriate place is the fundamental driving force of all life.

On one extreme, there's guys that never go more than an hour without fapping, as the unrequited desire to jizz is uncontrollable.

On the other extreme, there are monks that live as far away from women as they can so they don't get tempted. And even those guys bang trees that look sexy.

How you can handle it will reflect how you handle your life. The ability to delay gratification is the uber skill behind all other skills and all other accomplishments. Withholding the desire to fap is the (or jizz appropriately) is the highest level of delaying gratification.

Check out Think and Grow Rich, Chapter 11.

Napoleon Hill found that all ultra successful dudes were ones that had high sex energy that they effectively "transmuted" into other endeavors (building wealth, empires, etc.)

He also found excessive fapping common in the less than successful.

Use your own fap energy accordingly.

YOU control the fap.

Don't let the fap control YOU.

 

[wifehunter]

Not eating food, can have a similar effect.

 

[Chamber36]

Holy crap.

Went to the massage parlor and got a hand job. Now I got home and jerked off to some babe dancing around on chaturbate.
No way I could jerk off to some chick dancing in a little tight black dress before I was on nofap.

Also I realised why it is that all these women constantly wonder "where are all the men?!". When I don't fap, I really don't give a fvck! I'm sure every chick I look at I probably have the eye of the tiger. Everything turns me on... Mascara even turns me on when I'm no nofap. It really changes a man. Had a girl writhing around in her seat at school yesterday too, while she was talking to me. Shoulda given her my number. The conversation was only so short though. I only realised I was turning her on when the convo was over. Too bad I didn't strike, but still. I'll see her again. But this post is not about that. I digress. Point is: nofap is like... All the energy inside ur body is just brought to a boil and you're just steaming on the inside. And all u want is for some chick to just jerk you off or suck you off. Lol.

Also u just feel stronger and bolder on the inside. 48 Laws of power, Law 28: Enter action with boldness, becomes the easiest thing in the world.

Anything you do, you do it boldly.

 

[Serenity]

I did nofap to build my frustration/energy enough to find a woman to fvck. When I was fapping I lost my motivation to pursue real pvssy, even though I would prefer that. I put a limitation on myself to only jizz in the appropriate place (thanks @taiyuu_otoko for the term).

When the need grows strong enough and the only option you provide yourself is pvssy, then one way or another you'll find pvssy. No need to worry about how, creativity is a product of strong desire and limitations. You will find a way to release the pressure without fapping.

Worked very effectively for me. I have a girlfriend now, but I don't fvck her every day. I build up the energy, feels so much better when I finally unleash it. Sometimes I just spasm for a minute in pure pleasure, this is unattainable with too frequent sex or fapping.

So why do nofap? Improve quality by decreasing quantity, what you have less of is worth more. Also useful for redirecting yourself away from fvcking your hand and towards jizzing in the appropriate place (that term is so hilarious).

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Genesis 38:6-10 (Wasted Sperm)

8 Then Judah said to Er’s brother Onan, “Go and sleep with your brother’s widow. Fulfill your obligation to her as her husband’s brother, so that your brother may have descendants.”

9 But Onan knew that the children would not belong to him, so when he had intercourse with his brother’s widow, he let the semen spill on the ground, so that there would be no children for his brother.

10 What he did displeased the LORD, and the LORD killed him also.*

If you jizz in the dirt, God will smite the sh!t out of you.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I honestly don't feel a difference from holding off fapping. One week and one day, nothing really, it's mostly just mental for me. I always check out hot chicks regardless of whether I can even get hard or not. Only downside though is that pornstars are so much hotter than most chicks because they know how to arch their back better and actually exercise too lol. Not a lot of chicks actually workout.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Genesis 38:6-10 (Wasted Sperm)



If you jizz in the dirt, God will smite the sh!t out of you.

LMAO your comment was actually hilarious

 

[IAmNoob]

When I do not fap for longer periods I have problems falling asleep because my **** start to ache.

 

[Infern0]

Not eating food, can have a similar effect.

This is true. I came off nofap and started intermittent fasting and noticed similar effects (as well as getting shredded). I'm going to combine the two soon, that should be interesting.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

I did nofap to build my frustration/energy enough to find a woman to fvck. When I was fapping I lost my motivation to pursue real pvssy, even though I would prefer that. I put a limitation on myself to only jizz in the appropriate place (thanks @taiyuu_otoko for the term).

When the need grows strong enough and the only option you provide yourself is pvssy, then one way or another you'll find pvssy. No need to worry about how, creativity is a product of strong desire and limitations. You will find a way to release the pressure without fapping.

Worked very effectively for me. I have a girlfriend now, but I don't fvck her every day. I build up the energy, feels so much better when I finally unleash it. Sometimes I just spasm for a minute in pure pleasure, this is unattainable with too frequent sex or fapping.

So why do nofap? Improve quality by decreasing quantity, what you have less of is worth more. Also useful for redirecting yourself away from fvcking your hand and towards jizzing in the appropriate place (that term is so hilarious).

Yes, no fap works as far as meeting women goes. Today, I was leaving Starbucks, and noticed a girl with her dress riding high over her crossed legs. It was like she was signalling for someone to approach her. Before a thought even entered my head, I turned around and asked her if the seat next to her was taken... even though there was plenty of others available .. ha ha. She was very friendly and smiley. We chatted for half an hour, and then I got her number. Now a fapper would probably have never noticed her in the first place; or if he had, would have been so foggy-minded not to notice her noticing him; or then, granting all that, have been too timid and self-conscious to simply take action. When on No fap, you are kind of on an automatic mode as far as women goes [in the flow]. If most guys are in their head, then this is one sure way to get them out of it.

 

[playa99]

I'm gonna go nofap. It's very easy to fall into the habit of watching a lot of porn and jerking off all the time. Intrigued to see the benefits!

The longest I've done from starting puberty is 7 days, so this should be fun!

 

[grayclif]

I hear a lot of "when I go no fap". Does that mean you stop jerking off for a period of time and then start back up again. Isn't the whole point to quit, permanently.

 

[Infern0]

I hear a lot of "when I go no fap". Does that mean you stop jerking off for a period of time and then start back up again. Isn't the whole point to quit, permanently.

Yeah that is the point, but easier said than done my friend, easier said than done.

Overall though I think as long as you have no major issues from porn use, cycling off regularly is good enough. In my case I usually go a couple of months on nofap, fall off, watch porn for a few weeks, then go back on nofap.

I KNOW porn and fapping is bad for me, but i also know alcohol and slutty women are bad for me, but you only live once dont you.

 

[MatureDJ]

The desire to jizz into the appropriate place is the fundamental driving force of all life.

Or the desire to be jizzed by a jizzer with good genes. Agreed.

Napoleon Hill found that all ultra successful dudes were ones that had high sex energy that they effectively "transmuted" into other endeavors (building wealth, empires, etc.)

He also found excessive fapping common in the less than successful.

I agree with the correlation, but not fully with the causation. Very successful women don't fap because they have lots of willing females who wish to be jizzed into. But certainly the ability to hold off from fapping is just one aspect of the ability to delay gratification, which of course is the most important personality attribute to being successful.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Very successful women don't fap because they have lots of willing females who wish to be jizzed into.

(I'm assuming you meant successful men)

Well, he didn't exactly explain it as fapping, but excessive jizzing. Or not really a absolute correlation of jizz's per life or anything. That among the very successful people, they are BOTH highly sexed AND they don't spend that highly sexed energy chasing tail.

For the low performers, he didn't really say if they were highly sexed or not, just that they spent a lot of their time trying to find places to jizz.

Which makes a bit of sense, if you think of the traditionally 'powerful' types (business leaders, politicians etc, entrepreneurs, inventors, great artists, musicians, etc) their main drive is POWER and WEALTH (or fame) and the jizz opportunities they get are a secondary benefit, not the main thing they are after.

And if that IS the case, then chasing low quality skank just to get your nuts off is just as bad as jizzing in the dirt.

I can't imagine Bill Gates (or Mick Jagger or Elon Musk) as a kid lying in bed at night trying to figure out how to get junior high school girls to like him. More likely he was trying to figure out how to rewire the toaster or something.

WHAT IF

that highly driven (sexed) people are naturally programmed to have their sex energy redirected at wealth building behavior? And they naturally just don't give a crap about jizzing AT ALL? And that ALL THEY CARE ABOUT is building huge empires?

And for them, jizzing when needed is just like taking a dump? Find a chick bust a nut and then back to the lab?