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Don Juan
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- Jan 8, 2006
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I've been seeing this girl for 3 months. I'm 27, she's 30.
Positives:
- she's got great tits
- she's a good conversationalist
- she does lots of interesting things, and has lots of interesting friends
- she's very low maintenance
Negatives:
- the sex is not that good, though we do have plenty of it
- she's very passive and indecisive
- she is cute, but kind of thick and not "hot"
Anyway, we're not committed right now. We see each other twice a week or so (sex every time), but we've had the conversation about seeing other people, and we are both sleeping with other people.
I'm actually extremely happy with things right now. I like this girl, and I enjoy spending time with her, but I'm not ready for any commitment, nor is she someone I would want to be committed with (primarily because of the sex). I know she likes me too, and is happy with the way things are.
However, it sure seems like a situation where one of us will start falling for the other... and it ain't gonna be me falling for her.
I'm just wondering what you consider my responsibility here. Should I check in with her from time to time to make sure she's still okay with our non-commited relationship? Or should I wait for her to bring something up?
Positives:
- she's got great tits
- she's a good conversationalist
- she does lots of interesting things, and has lots of interesting friends
- she's very low maintenance
Negatives:
- the sex is not that good, though we do have plenty of it
- she's very passive and indecisive
- she is cute, but kind of thick and not "hot"
Anyway, we're not committed right now. We see each other twice a week or so (sex every time), but we've had the conversation about seeing other people, and we are both sleeping with other people.
I'm actually extremely happy with things right now. I like this girl, and I enjoy spending time with her, but I'm not ready for any commitment, nor is she someone I would want to be committed with (primarily because of the sex). I know she likes me too, and is happy with the way things are.
However, it sure seems like a situation where one of us will start falling for the other... and it ain't gonna be me falling for her.
I'm just wondering what you consider my responsibility here. Should I check in with her from time to time to make sure she's still okay with our non-commited relationship? Or should I wait for her to bring something up?