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So, I met this girl at a random afternoon party and we got along really well (chatting and basic stuff). After the party I helped her and her friend cleanup and she just randomly told me she wanted to go have some pizza, to which I politely asked if I could join; we enjoyed the pizza and ended up chatting a lot that day. After a few days, I randomly ask her if she'd like to grab some Chinese food the following weekend, to which she agrees, we again have a wonderful time having dinner and chatting about various stuff. That evening, I tell her that I like her a lot and I officially ask her out on a "date". Well, that's the point where she freaks out and asks if I'm asking her to be exclusive and freaks out (omg). I tell her that I like her a lot and would like to get to know her more and that its too soon to become exclusive right now, maybe someday in the future maybe? She's like, she isn't looking for a serious relationship right now because of her career, but says yes for the date.... The following week, on our "date" things continue as they always did, having fun, chatting etc, and I manage to get another date. The next date, I tried to kiss her but she gave me the cheek xD, I was like what the F. Anyways, I didn't contact her after that; but, the very next day she invited me over to her apartment to watch some movies. We watched a couple and ended up having sex, after which she again tells me that she isn't looking for a serious relationship, nor is she looking for a ****bud. I was like, okay, so will we still be "dating" or meet just as friends to which she says "dating is getting to know someone better etc etc"; I again ask so we will still date? and I get a yes..Fast forward a week, she now comes over to my place, we watch movies again, and she tells me what happened last time was just a one time thing. I was like okay, but eventually we ended up having sex all over again. While leaving she was like, we should take it slow now (no more kissing, no more sex, no more intimate touches etc), I respected her decision and agreed to it but I also mentioned that I will definitely be kissing her again to which she said "she knows".
So the next time we met, I met her and her closest friends. We had a fun day. We still kept on meeting and having fun (non-sexual) and got to know each other more. She was also interested in learning about the technical and geeky stuff I am into (anime, gaming etc.). Well, a few weeks later, after a couple of weeks of going slow with no contact, I went in for a normal hug goodnight. The hug was more than a friendly hug (which I was expecting) and lasted a little too long. Anyways, we still met a few times after that. She invited me dancing a couple of times which I couldn’t attend (not because I hate dancing, but because I was genuinely busy). I also made a mistake of telling her that my friend was trying to set me up with a girl (shoot myself), she was like I should meet other girls (she thought that I should meet the girl socially, whereas setting up means on a “date”). I clarified it with her that I have met that girl at parties, but I’m not interested in “dating” her, to which she was like “you already met her?” I was like “uhm, yea, she was at the party. But, I'm NOT GONNA DATE HER because I like you”) to which she was like cool we shall discuss this next time. The next time we met, this topic never came up, and I didn’t bother starting it; but, she did mention that she was going salsa dancing with a guy she met at a prior dancing class….(I was like cool, enjoy)… The day of the dance, she ended up meeting me, we went shopping and dinner (which lasted a long time, almost till the end of the dance) and she asked me if I wanted to go dancing (for the time that was left), unfortunately I had some work so I had to decline yet again. I apologized that I made her miss her salsa with that guy to which she said it was fine and that she’ll meet him the next week when they have the dance classes. Anyways, after this date, she was like we shouldn’t meet for a week because she wants to explore dancing a bit and wants to get her expenses back on track. Well, I like this girl a lot and I wanted to know if she likes me or not because her actions speak something but her words something else. Thanks.
So, I met this girl at a random afternoon party and we got along really well (chatting and basic stuff). After the party I helped her and her friend cleanup and she just randomly told me she wanted to go have some pizza, to which I politely asked if I could join; we enjoyed the pizza and ended up chatting a lot that day. After a few days, I randomly ask her if she'd like to grab some Chinese food the following weekend, to which she agrees, we again have a wonderful time having dinner and chatting about various stuff. That evening, I tell her that I like her a lot and I officially ask her out on a "date". Well, that's the point where she freaks out and asks if I'm asking her to be exclusive and freaks out (omg). I tell her that I like her a lot and would like to get to know her more and that its too soon to become exclusive right now, maybe someday in the future maybe? She's like, she isn't looking for a serious relationship right now because of her career, but says yes for the date.... The following week, on our "date" things continue as they always did, having fun, chatting etc, and I manage to get another date. The next date, I tried to kiss her but she gave me the cheek xD, I was like what the F. Anyways, I didn't contact her after that; but, the very next day she invited me over to her apartment to watch some movies. We watched a couple and ended up having sex, after which she again tells me that she isn't looking for a serious relationship, nor is she looking for a ****bud. I was like, okay, so will we still be "dating" or meet just as friends to which she says "dating is getting to know someone better etc etc"; I again ask so we will still date? and I get a yes..Fast forward a week, she now comes over to my place, we watch movies again, and she tells me what happened last time was just a one time thing. I was like okay, but eventually we ended up having sex all over again. While leaving she was like, we should take it slow now (no more kissing, no more sex, no more intimate touches etc), I respected her decision and agreed to it but I also mentioned that I will definitely be kissing her again to which she said "she knows".
So the next time we met, I met her and her closest friends. We had a fun day. We still kept on meeting and having fun (non-sexual) and got to know each other more. She was also interested in learning about the technical and geeky stuff I am into (anime, gaming etc.). Well, a few weeks later, after a couple of weeks of going slow with no contact, I went in for a normal hug goodnight. The hug was more than a friendly hug (which I was expecting) and lasted a little too long. Anyways, we still met a few times after that. She invited me dancing a couple of times which I couldn’t attend (not because I hate dancing, but because I was genuinely busy). I also made a mistake of telling her that my friend was trying to set me up with a girl (shoot myself), she was like I should meet other girls (she thought that I should meet the girl socially, whereas setting up means on a “date”). I clarified it with her that I have met that girl at parties, but I’m not interested in “dating” her, to which she was like “you already met her?” I was like “uhm, yea, she was at the party. But, I'm NOT GONNA DATE HER because I like you”) to which she was like cool we shall discuss this next time. The next time we met, this topic never came up, and I didn’t bother starting it; but, she did mention that she was going salsa dancing with a guy she met at a prior dancing class….(I was like cool, enjoy)… The day of the dance, she ended up meeting me, we went shopping and dinner (which lasted a long time, almost till the end of the dance) and she asked me if I wanted to go dancing (for the time that was left), unfortunately I had some work so I had to decline yet again. I apologized that I made her miss her salsa with that guy to which she said it was fine and that she’ll meet him the next week when they have the dance classes. Anyways, after this date, she was like we shouldn’t meet for a week because she wants to explore dancing a bit and wants to get her expenses back on track. Well, I like this girl a lot and I wanted to know if she likes me or not because her actions speak something but her words something else. Thanks.
