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What's all the hate with the travel bros?

MatureDJ

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It's both actually.

A man without game (falsely) believes that women from other countries, mostly poor places, are "better" than women in The West

Once they import such a woman they'll learn the hard way that indeed, a woman =a woman. If anything a woman from a poor place will be much tougher to deal with...
The idea is to only import her after she has birthed your seed, and her Sexual Market Value to every other man has been sufficiently reduced.
 

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The point of PPBs is to never bring her back to your home country. It's about moving over there and building a life in their country.
 
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I really liked the 4 hour workweek by Tim Ferris and totally see how geo arbitrage can be useful tool for improving ones quality of life and reaching financial independence. Really recommend this book for everyone.

And I cannot see any reason why this increased quality of life wouldn't include women. You might prefer women of certain ethnicity or from certain cultures more than women from your current location. I cannot see any reason not to utilize geo arbitrage for this too, especially if you have the time and place independent income already figured out.

The caveat is that while local chicks might see you exotic in foreign location and thus interesting, it doesn't magically make you successful with women if you are not that already.

Also in 3rd world countries the gold-digger-game can be much more more stronger than your average westerner-afc-game. Same potential trap as trying to use your wealth to attract a chick, only much more dangerous.
 

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What qualifies a passport bro?

I met my wife who was here studying. Her family are wealthier than mine are.

A few comments here about not doing the work, well, I earn great money. Could be more athletic, but I did and could date plenty of women here.

I got more bang for my buck with foreign women and always have. Better quality, more attractive. The women I was dating in this culture were difficult. I was late 30s and wanted kids, I couldn’t hang around.

In the west, due to mass migration which is mostly male, and those women coming are usually attached to a man, our dating market is distorted. Women here, white women, have the massive thirst of men coming here (many of which I believe came here to fulfil a dream of dating white girls) and plus all of us. so no, I don’t want to put the work in. A guy with no obvious defects, good career etc shouldn’t have to date women massively below him because demographics have made him less valuable. Other places have the opposite issue - men leaving. So you’re merely matching supply with the demand.

I have a demanding career, I’m not particularly interested in adding a rigid existence of gym and having to dedicate my life to what is a pretty normal and achievable thing - finding a wife or GF. It shouldn’t be that hard.

So while one side if “I didn’t want to do the work” I think the other side is “you’re a mug for having to dedicate your life and all your time to attracting a woman”. Especially when you consider how spoiled and trashy a good percentage of women here have been made.
All I have to deal with is some people thinking it’s a social taboo but I don’t care. My life is easier - not without some issues but compared to the BS my friends have to deal with, life is good.

Going abroad to offer a woman marriage is a poor strategy but there’s nothing wrong with living there and seeing what happens. Basically western men are over there because their men are here. Western women are terrible wife material but an enormous ego boost to men outside so they are more than welcome to pick up our trash and we can find some decent women there. No one loses.

Nature usually kills a lot of men off in wars so having higher levels of men is rare historically but that’s what’s happened in the west and why western men have it so incredibly hard in the dating market.

in many ways it’s the ultimate FU to feminism. Like it or not. If you’re dedicating your life in attracting women as your primary goal, you’re still being controlled. It’s no different to the bimbo getting a boob job. Going and seeing how things are abroad is helpful. You would be amazed how ridiculously hard the bar is set here and how poorly men are treated here and how easy life is there. WE are living the distortion, and it’s not something we should have to put up with.

Females here know this full well hence they consistently shame men who do it.
 

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The point of PPBs is to never bring her back to your home country. It's about moving over there and building a life in their country.
I left Montreal approx 5 years ago,I lived in Russia now in Prague, I dont consider myself as a passport bros but I guess I am. I did pretty well with women back home but Im not attracted to Western women, I like Slavic girls so its one of the reasons I moved here. If I find one I want to commit to, no way Im going back home with her. I will just stay there (whatever the country is) and that will be my mew life.
I have no intention to return to North America.
 

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Seems like you're going through a rough time, and I sincerely hope you will feel better soon.

Local conditions might be different from place to place, yet the Western hemisphere also has his own challenges. Plenty of them actually .

I would most definitely "buy" myself a loyal and nice looking woman TODAY if i had the opportunity. I will salute any man wants to try his luck this way.

Yet , don't cry when it all turns out to be 180 different from your expectations...
Sounds like weird flexing what you are doing. In the Philippines they earn 10 dollar a day. When you go there you are treated as rich. So things with girls are obviously more easy for many guys.

If you are a big baller then do your yacht thing or whatever in Miami with the billionaires. No one cares.
 
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hate is jealousy.

People who point their finger at PPB as being somewhat socially inept might be true for some, but at the end of the day they're doing what they want and it effects none else. I bet if the social stigma wasn't their lots of men would do the same.

look at jeff bezos wife for a prime example.
 

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Read the title and OPs post.

If you are happy, live life on your terms and think for yourself. Then begin to develop the mental strength to block out the external noise.

Hate comes from below.

Furthermore,
Grown Men and women with a healthy self esteem that are truly secure in themselves DO NOT HAVE TIME FOR HATE.
So true
 

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It's both actually.

A man without game (falsely) believes that women from other countries, mostly poor places, are "better" than women in The West

Once they import such a woman they'll learn the hard way that indeed, a woman =a woman. If anything a woman from a poor place will be much tougher to deal with...
My point is the same guys believe that women from other eras were somehow better. So place means nothing but time changes everything.

Anyway I don't think that anyone is better based on where they are from. It comes down to the individual in question. I just know that IME the women from North America I dated (etc) were not as enjoyable or memorable and had more obnoxious personalities.
 

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As with sex workers, most of the social shaming comes from average to substandard women. Which is obviously based on their fear of loosing power/leverage over "their" pool of men.

If a woman acts up and a man has "options", its less likely they get away with shhitty behaviour.

Western women rather have you in a polyamory relationship with them and 3 other guys then walking out of the door and get pvssy somewhere else. There is no social shaming on that side though.
 

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I consider my friend a passport bro. He has been in Asia for a quite a while and trying to establish a social media presence. With all the crap he talks about Western women and how much he praises Southeastern Asian women; he hasn't had a single girlfriend yet and just prostitutes to show for.
 
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