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What's all the hate with the travel bros?

elitewarrior

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I don't know why there's a lot I hate on here towards guys who travel to second and third world countries to find girlfriends. I think the hate should be directed at those guys were born and live here and have no self worth don't have to sense to sign a prenup and don't bother to use a condom.
 

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Because it's infuriating when a man tries to bypass working at his problems at their core.

You gotta know it in real life before you make a judgment. Overhere the idea is that a beta bluepilled bytch tries, and eventually becomes a Don Juan Red pill King. The Passport bro(PPB) route throws all kinds of teaching about the nitty gritty of game out of the window.

Look, I admit that BEFORE the internet popped up this MIGHT'VE been a somewhat legitimate way of actually getting "love". But now..? Nah man.

Many countries are riddled by pathetic western men who all have 1 thing in common: they all suck with women. And if you are bad with women here, you'll be bad with women every where.

The ONLY way imo to become legitimate PPB is when you
-actually traveled overseas and met a woman there
-got introduced to a woman (already murky waters)
- met one here who traveled


Just from the top of my dome. I advice ay man to rather study game, himself and gender dynamics instead of taking the SEEMINGLY easy way of becoming a PPB. Remember ,the greater the investment, the greater the pain..
 

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Its because when Black people start doing what White people have been doing since before the 90s, then the world all of a sudden takes notice. I remember when I was in my early 20s in the late 90s that there was tonnes of internet reality porn of guys on sex-tourism visiting places like Thialand, Costa Rica and it was a vice with me back then. Also in the 00s and early 10s this is something that was always common.

Therefore, any recent hate sounds more like it's got even more common place, the women in the target countries are also corrupted, because of the internet, to Western values including feminism, and more non-Whites, especially Blacks are getting in all the action.
 

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I don't know why there's a lot I hate on here towards guys who travel to second and third world countries to find girlfriends. I think the hate should be directed at those guys were born and live here and have no self worth don't have to sense to sign a prenup and don't bother to use a condom.
Not everyone has context for this discussion, and you're not providing it.
 

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I don't know why there's a lot I hate on here towards guys who travel to second and third world countries to find girlfriends. I think the hate should be directed at those guys were born and live here and have no self worth don't have to sense to sign a prenup and don't bother to use a condom.
People like to create and project narratives. I personally do not care what a brother does so long as he's not hurting anyone.

Why would anyone get angry about it? Ain't no one got time for that.
 

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Its because when Black people start doing what White people have been doing since before the 90s, then the world all of a sudden takes notice. I remember when I was in my early 20s in the late 90s that there was tonnes of internet reality porn of guys on sex-tourism visiting places like Thialand, Costa Rica and it was a vice with me back then. Also in the 00s and early 10s this is something that was always common.

Therefore, any recent hate sounds more like it's got even more common place, the women in the target countries are also corrupted, because of the internet, to Western values including feminism, and more non-Whites, especially Blacks are getting in all the action.
You cannot discount racism as reason for the over emotional response to this.

When I was a officer in a battalion back in the 90s, there was an outbreak of racial tensions in the unit. This had been going on for quite some time where white, mostly Southern soldiers started hanging up confederate flags in their rooms... this had been going on for months and no one did anything about this. Then Black soldiers started hanging up ANC flags.... then SUDDENLY all this became a 'problem'.

We got a new commander that put an end to all this by banning all flags accept the American flag (and German flag since this was in Germany)... slowly things got back under control with positive leadership. The point here is that is Black soldiers had not started putting up ANC flags.... nothing would have been done... I suppose the Black soldiers were expected to tolerate the presences of a flag carried by an army in rebellion dedicated to the preservation of African chattel slavery.

There are other examples... Last year when Penny Hardaway tossed an empty plastic water bottle in frustration after Memphis the 'outrage' at this behavior was so freaking stupid... a coach tossed an empty plastic water bottle at no one, and you would have thought he was beating people with a bat. Contrast this with another basketball coach with a long history of abusive and childish behavior, Bobby Knight, who violently grabbed players, verbally abused then, tossed folding chairs on to a basketball court in the middle of a game... but he was White, so all this behavior was just chalked up to the fact he was competitive.

Anyway... a White regular middle-class dude has more in common with a Black regular middle-class dude than they do this a wealthy celebrity White dude. The sooner we all figure this out, the better off we will all be.
 

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I see the same people say "a woman is a woman wherever in the world she is" and "guys travel bc they have no game." Yeah which is it, homies?
It's both actually.

A man without game (falsely) believes that women from other countries, mostly poor places, are "better" than women in The West

Once they import such a woman they'll learn the hard way that indeed, a woman =a woman. If anything a woman from a poor place will be much tougher to deal with...
 

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Game applies to all women at some level.
Most of the 2nd world is feminized . To get truly 3rd world wife you better go to the amazon basin lol
I think being feminized though and being a 1st world western woman are different things, we are entering this post-feminism world that women don't want to acknowledge the drawbacks of, I mean the difference in attitudes between 5 years ago and today is really astounding, like you'd see some of the sentiments women carry towards men online but never openly in public where as today if your meeting some woman for the first time, it has never been like it is today where you can say 1 thing and they'll immediately come to some sort of judgement about your character.

The fact remains that scarcity does draw attention, even if it's an illusion at best, even if all the men around her are really no different than they would be in a 1st world vs. A 2nd, you can still easily leverage the very predictable "Grass is greener" mindset.

I don't think there is a lot of hate towards those men here, I think the hate is towards the situation that the common man finds himself in, that being the struggle to become uncommon; its not only genetics that we are born with but also the opportunities we have access to a lot of the time, sure some men can overcome but others cannot.
 

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Well I dunno. I had a pretty high body count in the US before traveling.
So which is it? Am I an incel or do I like exotic dark skinned asians? Which is it homie?
Why don’t you date those that are in your country already , if getting p8ssy is not a problem ?

Both Europe and America are packed with Asians living there, some are 2nd generation already

Why would you put such an effort going on the other end of the world to date women that speak little to no English?

To me it sounds really weird for someone to like Asian women who generally look like children ( skinny, no a$$, no t1ts, small in stature ) over a beautiful white/Latina/black woman. For sure, some will have this taste but the very vast majority of people will not. Sure, some Asian women are extremely beautiful and do not look like how I described them above, but the vast majority of Asian women look exactly like that

Like I mentioned bellow, the level of hipocrisitay on this forum is till the moon and back

 
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There are other examples... Last year when Penny Hardaway tossed an empty plastic water bottle in frustration after Memphis the 'outrage' at this behavior was so freaking stupid... a coach tossed an empty plastic water bottle at no one, and you would have thought he was beating people with a bat. Contrast this with another basketball coach with a long history of abusive and childish behavior, Bobby Knight, who violently grabbed players, verbally abused then, tossed folding chairs on to a basketball court in the middle of a game... but he was White, so all this behavior was just chalked up to the fact he was competitive.
Is race the only factor when you compare behavior from 60 years ago with behavior from last year? In the 1960s kids were hit by parents - would that be allowed today? Something can have a racial element without being 100% about race.
 

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Why don’t you date those that are in your country already ...

Why would you ... date women that speak little to no English?

To me it sounds really weird for someone to like Asian women who generally look like children ( skinny, no a$$, no t1ts, small in stature ) over a beautiful white/Latina/black woman. For sure, some will have this taste but the very vast majority of people will not.

Like I mentioned bellow, the level of hipocrisitay on this forum is till the moon and back
Why are you telling other people who they should like?
While your'e at it, gay men don't share the likes of the "vest vast majority of people", so maybe you can tell them just to like women?
 

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I don't know why there's a lot I hate on here towards guys who travel to second and third world countries to find girlfriends. I think the hate should be directed at those guys were born and live here and have no self worth don't have to sense to sign a prenup and don't bother to use a condom.
Because desperate dudes do desperate things
 

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Is race the only factor when you compare behavior from 60 years ago with behavior from last year? In the 1960s kids were hit by parents - would that be allowed today? Something can have a racial element without being 100% about race.
Well... if you just want to look at last year... look at what happened with Angel Reese a Black basketball player for LSU... who was accused of taunting Caitlin Clark, a White player for Iowa.... What was Reese doing? The same darned thing that Clark had been doing to other players on other teams in the entire tournament. When Clark was doing it... well.... she's just a tough competitor.... When Reese did it, well she was a thug.

But okay... let's go back to when Bobby Knight was a coach.... it wasn't 60 years ago, Knight retired in 2008, 15 years ago.... but does anyone really believe that if a Black coach behaved the way Knight did, when he was coaching.... he would not have been fired.

There is a double standard... all you have to do is look for it.
 

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Hi Elite Warrior,
Well if any of your respondents are seeking a Woman,speaking from recent experience,they could do worse than the Phillipines,truly lovely Girls....Do your ground work on the Net Sites and you can line up a selection of generous Women....Generally hard working folk,English speaking with Christian values,they love American Guys as they were the beneficiaries of your enlightened Colonialism.
 

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Read the title and OPs post.

If you are happy, live life on your terms and think for yourself. Then begin to develop the mental strength to block out the external noise.

Hate comes from below.

Furthermore,
Grown Men and women with a healthy self esteem that are truly secure in themselves DO NOT HAVE TIME FOR HATE.
 

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Its because when Black people start doing what White people have been doing since before the 90s, then the world all of a sudden takes notice. I remember when I was in my early 20s in the late 90s that there was tonnes of internet reality porn of guys on sex-tourism visiting places like Thialand, Costa Rica and it was a vice with me back then. Also in the 00s and early 10s this is something that was always common.

Therefore, any recent hate sounds more like it's got even more common place, the women in the target countries are also corrupted, because of the internet, to Western values including feminism, and more non-Whites, especially Blacks are getting in all the action.
Since before the 90’s?? Try the 15th Century lol. It was them who who launched the global sex tourism industry. And later corn.

That being said, this has nothing to do with them. Yea there is a racism undertone. But It’s Mostly coming from the locals and black Americans themselves. East/south Asians don’t have any problem seeing a white dude enjoy their women. In Latin America?? They celebrate that sh1t. They see a black dude with their women?? All of sudden they become very conservative, extremely anti sex tourism, and wanna remain 100% homogenous lool.

Black Americans know that. Yet, they still go to these places and completely avoid places where they will be welcomed like west,central,south, east Africa. U will regularly catch the passport bro’s pages on Fb saying the most racist and hateful stuff about Africans. ”only Ethiopian and Cabo Verde women bro they rest r too African looking bro.” I’m African and almost choked laughing when I saw that comment lmao. Then they cry racism when they end up not being their preference’s preference. I say cry me a river
 

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But okay... let's go back to when Bobby Knight was a coach.... it wasn't 60 years ago, Knight retired in 2008, 15 years ago.... but does anyone really believe that if a Black coach behaved the way Knight did, when he was coaching.... he would not have been fired.
You're partly right - he was fired for his behavior in 2000. Even if a black coach would have been fired... well, a famous white coach got fired, which kinda undermines your point of a double-standard.


Well... if you just want to look at last year... look at what happened with Angel Reese a Black basketball player for LSU... who was accused of taunting Caitlin Clark, a White player for Iowa.... What was Reese doing? The same darned thing that Clark had been doing to other players on other teams in the entire tournament. When Clark was doing it... well.... she's just a tough competitor.... When Reese did it, well she was a thug.
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There is a double standard... all you have to do is look for it.
Could be, I'll let people who follow basketball comment.
 
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