OK .. lets say you have been with your wife for 15 years or so .. you have a few kids and love them to bits. You have a fantastic wife for the most part (sex is great, you love your wife .. dates are great .. most of the time you have a great time together except when things get heated, kids are excellent in school etc) but when things get heated up and arguments explode over seemingly simple things and brought out of proportion while both of you are blaming the other.
Each time this happens, it always seems to bring up past arguments ... like nothing gets resolved. Your kids want you to stay at home .. and be with their mom ... but your gut is saying .. your tired of the fighting and you just want to get the **** away from everyone and never come back and if you leave your the bad guy. But you do not want to leave because it will hurt the kids (they beg you not to) and for the most part the arguments with your wife are really petty in the long haul grand scheme but seem to be made into a big deal every time and are very draining.
What would you do? How would you approach this without the aid of the marriage builders tools?
How would sosuave turn this into a better marriage? Without coming out as the bad guy? Or divorcing. How would you "game" this?
I figured I would ask this .. since the forum section title states "Learn how to have a great marriage and live happily ever after." And see if there is a better plan here to make marriage long lasting.:crazy:
Epi
Edit: I would love to learn the sosuave way to have a long lasting marriage ... and add it to my arsenal of tools.
Each time this happens, it always seems to bring up past arguments ... like nothing gets resolved. Your kids want you to stay at home .. and be with their mom ... but your gut is saying .. your tired of the fighting and you just want to get the **** away from everyone and never come back and if you leave your the bad guy. But you do not want to leave because it will hurt the kids (they beg you not to) and for the most part the arguments with your wife are really petty in the long haul grand scheme but seem to be made into a big deal every time and are very draining.
What would you do? How would you approach this without the aid of the marriage builders tools?
How would sosuave turn this into a better marriage? Without coming out as the bad guy? Or divorcing. How would you "game" this?
I figured I would ask this .. since the forum section title states "Learn how to have a great marriage and live happily ever after." And see if there is a better plan here to make marriage long lasting.:crazy:
Epi
Edit: I would love to learn the sosuave way to have a long lasting marriage ... and add it to my arsenal of tools.