This is probably not as complicated as I'm making it but here it goes. I'm a senior, the end of last summer I hooked up with this girl that I work with that was going into college. We were extremely verbal and emotional going into this.. like it meant more than usual. I like sang to her and all this corny stuff but she loved it and everything was all good. The catch is, she had a boyfriend, of 8 months. Not cool, I know I know... But I really liked this girl. So the next day she tells her boyfriend and he cries and says he can't leave her cuz he loves her, and they cried together and all this stuff. When she left for college she left him "because of distance", or at least that's what she told him. So college goes on I visit her a couple times but it's difficult since it's an hour away and we both have school and want a social life. So somehow we manage to find a way to like each other even more. WE're talking less... but.... she calls me when she's drunk. It's obnoxious and I tell her. BUt like she confesses her love to me. THen the next day I'm like hahahah when you were drunk. And she's like I wasn't that drunk I remember what I said... like all serious. But I'm missing out on alot cuz we don't see each other much and she's scared to call it official for some reason.
Before I continue, I seriously like almost love this girl.... weird for me.
So now I'm still working at the same place, shes off to school but works there on breaks.... and me and this other co-worker have been talking.... we have a date friday. We're clicking well and I'm looking foward to this, and she definately digs me. The thing is this summer she's a counsler for some camp and is home once a week. So I wanna try to like have this girl now then when she leaves.... go back to the old. Its an ******* move but idk. Like I'm not getting any play and the first girl is so scared to like call us a couple and tells guys she's single. I'm fed up but I kinda love her.
And she once told me "if you ever like anyone else you'll never love me"
Bull but yah..
Next year I'm going to college like 15 minutes from the girl I "love" and like 3 hours away from this girl I'm going out with friday...
What should I be doing?
What should I tell girl 1 if I do date this other girl?
.... Spring Break they're gunna be working together tooo... so this is gunna be drama if I don't act....
I'm just bored....
What would you do in this situation?
Before I continue, I seriously like almost love this girl.... weird for me.
So now I'm still working at the same place, shes off to school but works there on breaks.... and me and this other co-worker have been talking.... we have a date friday. We're clicking well and I'm looking foward to this, and she definately digs me. The thing is this summer she's a counsler for some camp and is home once a week. So I wanna try to like have this girl now then when she leaves.... go back to the old. Its an ******* move but idk. Like I'm not getting any play and the first girl is so scared to like call us a couple and tells guys she's single. I'm fed up but I kinda love her.
And she once told me "if you ever like anyone else you'll never love me"
Bull but yah..
Next year I'm going to college like 15 minutes from the girl I "love" and like 3 hours away from this girl I'm going out with friday...
What should I be doing?
What should I tell girl 1 if I do date this other girl?
.... Spring Break they're gunna be working together tooo... so this is gunna be drama if I don't act....
I'm just bored....
What would you do in this situation?
