I started reading this material since I was 14 yrs old, and it didn't work much in high school but now in college it's a whole different ball game. there girls are hitting on me in all directions, ( I guess I internalized some of the alpha male stuff) the college senior chicks can't guess I'm a freshman!! but anywayz I can't join a club without having some of the " natural" leaders in the school clubs trying to lower my value or amoging me... here are some examples I've noted;
1. Pulling on my shirt and wrinkling it saying he likes it;(chumping me)
(What I should've done) appreciated his shirt and pulled it beyond relief.
2. Taking my cap and putting it on the wrong way saying he "likes it"
(What should've done) snatched it and said "look but don't touch jerk face!!"
3.talking to some other guy or girl and taking up all my space like i don't exist.
don't have solution for this yet.
4. Asking me a question and when I answer he looks away as if not interested.
don't have a solution forthis yet.
so guys are there any better suggestions as to how I should react in order to give the greatest status-lowering sting to the amogger or any other things I should look out for from a amogger??? ( they usually catch me off guard, and I only realize this WAY after the fact...I want to be able to anticipate or counter it as it happens without punching the guy in the face)
1. Pulling on my shirt and wrinkling it saying he likes it;(chumping me)
(What I should've done) appreciated his shirt and pulled it beyond relief.
2. Taking my cap and putting it on the wrong way saying he "likes it"
(What should've done) snatched it and said "look but don't touch jerk face!!"
3.talking to some other guy or girl and taking up all my space like i don't exist.
don't have solution for this yet.
4. Asking me a question and when I answer he looks away as if not interested.
don't have a solution forthis yet.
so guys are there any better suggestions as to how I should react in order to give the greatest status-lowering sting to the amogger or any other things I should look out for from a amogger??? ( they usually catch me off guard, and I only realize this WAY after the fact...I want to be able to anticipate or counter it as it happens without punching the guy in the face)