The vast majority of posters on this site encourage you to adopt the mindset that you are the prize, and that women should be grateful to spend time with you. Guess what -- they’re wrong – and you’re even more wrong if you do.
Yes, you read correctly. Adopting the “I’m the prize” mindset with nothing to back it up is pure, unadulterated arrogance. What makes you think that a beautiful woman – no, make than any woman – should be honored to spend time with you? Put another way, what is it that you’ve accomplished that gives you the right to believe that you deserve the love and attention of a woman? The answer is probably nothing. And yet you’re trying to pretend you’re the prize in a vain attempt to attract women.
A mindset can't be adopted without some anchor in reality. The “I’m the prize” mindset is the result of having recently achieved something beyond your comfort zone – often beyond the comfort zone of most people. Those men who act as if they are the prize have, in fact, recently achieved something only others can dream about, and as a result are a source of awe and admiration. They are truly the “prize” because of the perceptions of others – not because of their own arrogant and egotistical views of themselves.
Therefore, if you want women to have a desire to spend time with you, it is up to you to achieve something in your life that gives you pride in yourself. True pride in your accomplishments can’t be faked, and if you try, you’ll be perceived by women as merely arrogant. Arrogance is ugly and unattractive.
Yes, you read correctly. Adopting the “I’m the prize” mindset with nothing to back it up is pure, unadulterated arrogance. What makes you think that a beautiful woman – no, make than any woman – should be honored to spend time with you? Put another way, what is it that you’ve accomplished that gives you the right to believe that you deserve the love and attention of a woman? The answer is probably nothing. And yet you’re trying to pretend you’re the prize in a vain attempt to attract women.
A mindset can't be adopted without some anchor in reality. The “I’m the prize” mindset is the result of having recently achieved something beyond your comfort zone – often beyond the comfort zone of most people. Those men who act as if they are the prize have, in fact, recently achieved something only others can dream about, and as a result are a source of awe and admiration. They are truly the “prize” because of the perceptions of others – not because of their own arrogant and egotistical views of themselves.
Therefore, if you want women to have a desire to spend time with you, it is up to you to achieve something in your life that gives you pride in yourself. True pride in your accomplishments can’t be faked, and if you try, you’ll be perceived by women as merely arrogant. Arrogance is ugly and unattractive.