Wondering what your thoughts are on having or learning "game". Does it exist or is it merely a term for having common sense in dealing with people in general?
IMO it's mearly a misused term for common sense in that "Game" implies that you have to learn some magic "cure all" in an effort to get women.
Anyone who isn't deluded knows the FIRST thing that opens the door for you is you looks, and style in regards to the type of women who'll be open to letting you approach them or them approaching you to even start interacting with them beyond that towards getting together. One size does not fit all.
"Game" seems to carry some misguided cure all belief in that ANY man who learns every bit of it (which game is just basically just common sense in acting and reacting to others) should be able to get any woman and retain/dismiss them at his choosing. That's a fallacy.
You could take ten men with the SAME exact knowledge of "game" (common sense) and to believe that every one who taught, absorbed and used "game" should be able to get any woman they want. This is completely false as it disregards many, many other aspects proponents of "game" will dismiss.
Some chicks may like rocker dudes, some may like emos, gamers, nerdy looking dudes, some tall, some with blue eyes, some like black men only, some like jacked dudes, some like bald dudes, dudes with tattoos, dudes who look like their favorite celebrity and on and on.
Also some chicks may dig other aspects of a dude that also have nothing to do with game. His everyday tone of voice. His likes and dislikes, his family, his friends or social circle, his activites.
If a chick digs you or not you cannot completely control if at all using common sense let alone a throw away term like "game".
"Game" gets thrown out by chicks who dig a dude who has a particular style she likes or gets to know them as a person beyond using tricks, lines etc. even using common sense in dealing with people.
You could say one dude has "game" when most women are FIRST attracted to his look, his style, and his use of common sense in not taking nonsense, being socially free, open, non-judgmental (in their eyes), confident, not being a pushover, not being needy or clingy etc.
That dude may have everything going for him even if there are better looking dudes who lack any basic common sense and are doormats, or simply a-holes.
Some chicks may prefer those types as well.
Put chicks in a room with an extremely attractive celebrity and none of them will give a sh1t about your common sense / "game" no matter how good it is. They'll automatically convince themselves the celebrity has "game" and the other dudes are "lames".
Take five dudes who aren't attractive. Give them all the "game" in the world ignoring whatever other issues they are masking with it. (even IF they have none). Put them in a room with 8's and above and two extremely good looking men with the same common sense or ("game") and you'll see how the women will convince themselves off of the looks and reactions of the rest of the women as well as to who really has "game".
I prefer to call being able to ineract with different people and react to them while constantly improving myself COMMON SENSE not "game". Because there is no way every dude could be equal in "game" and get any woman he chooses let alone any woman he chooses to go along with what he wants and disregard everything else involved.
IMO it's mearly a misused term for common sense in that "Game" implies that you have to learn some magic "cure all" in an effort to get women.
Anyone who isn't deluded knows the FIRST thing that opens the door for you is you looks, and style in regards to the type of women who'll be open to letting you approach them or them approaching you to even start interacting with them beyond that towards getting together. One size does not fit all.
"Game" seems to carry some misguided cure all belief in that ANY man who learns every bit of it (which game is just basically just common sense in acting and reacting to others) should be able to get any woman and retain/dismiss them at his choosing. That's a fallacy.
You could take ten men with the SAME exact knowledge of "game" (common sense) and to believe that every one who taught, absorbed and used "game" should be able to get any woman they want. This is completely false as it disregards many, many other aspects proponents of "game" will dismiss.
Some chicks may like rocker dudes, some may like emos, gamers, nerdy looking dudes, some tall, some with blue eyes, some like black men only, some like jacked dudes, some like bald dudes, dudes with tattoos, dudes who look like their favorite celebrity and on and on.
Also some chicks may dig other aspects of a dude that also have nothing to do with game. His everyday tone of voice. His likes and dislikes, his family, his friends or social circle, his activites.
If a chick digs you or not you cannot completely control if at all using common sense let alone a throw away term like "game".
"Game" gets thrown out by chicks who dig a dude who has a particular style she likes or gets to know them as a person beyond using tricks, lines etc. even using common sense in dealing with people.
You could say one dude has "game" when most women are FIRST attracted to his look, his style, and his use of common sense in not taking nonsense, being socially free, open, non-judgmental (in their eyes), confident, not being a pushover, not being needy or clingy etc.
That dude may have everything going for him even if there are better looking dudes who lack any basic common sense and are doormats, or simply a-holes.
Some chicks may prefer those types as well.
Put chicks in a room with an extremely attractive celebrity and none of them will give a sh1t about your common sense / "game" no matter how good it is. They'll automatically convince themselves the celebrity has "game" and the other dudes are "lames".
Take five dudes who aren't attractive. Give them all the "game" in the world ignoring whatever other issues they are masking with it. (even IF they have none). Put them in a room with 8's and above and two extremely good looking men with the same common sense or ("game") and you'll see how the women will convince themselves off of the looks and reactions of the rest of the women as well as to who really has "game".
I prefer to call being able to ineract with different people and react to them while constantly improving myself COMMON SENSE not "game". Because there is no way every dude could be equal in "game" and get any woman he chooses let alone any woman he chooses to go along with what he wants and disregard everything else involved.
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