Hey guys, long time lurker.
So I’ve been going out with this girl for a few months and for the most part she’s great, but tonight she did something that really annoyed me.
Here’s the situation.
I work a 9 - 7 office job during the week and then I wait tables at a bar through most of Saturday so Sundays is my only free night right now really.
She says she wants to see me so I agree and we go somewhere for dinner (which I pay for) tonight.
As we get ready to leave she says she has to head back home now because her aunt doesn’t like her coming back late. This seems weak since her house is a 10 minute walk from mine.
Now, this p*sses me off because I feel like I’ve wasted my one free evening and I’m not even getting sex.
And it puts me in a difficult position.
I can’t come out and say “you had your needs met by being able to see me, now I should have my needs met by being able to fvck you!”
Put she should know better than that right?
I feel like I can’t talk about this to her without sounding weak and outcome dependent but at the same time I want to send the message that what she did really isn’t ok in my books. I know she probably isn’t on her period because we had sex on Friday.
Is going ghost on your girlfriend overkill though??
Am I over-reacting or am I in the right here?
So I’ve been going out with this girl for a few months and for the most part she’s great, but tonight she did something that really annoyed me.
Here’s the situation.
I work a 9 - 7 office job during the week and then I wait tables at a bar through most of Saturday so Sundays is my only free night right now really.
She says she wants to see me so I agree and we go somewhere for dinner (which I pay for) tonight.
As we get ready to leave she says she has to head back home now because her aunt doesn’t like her coming back late. This seems weak since her house is a 10 minute walk from mine.
Now, this p*sses me off because I feel like I’ve wasted my one free evening and I’m not even getting sex.
And it puts me in a difficult position.
I can’t come out and say “you had your needs met by being able to see me, now I should have my needs met by being able to fvck you!”
Put she should know better than that right?
I feel like I can’t talk about this to her without sounding weak and outcome dependent but at the same time I want to send the message that what she did really isn’t ok in my books. I know she probably isn’t on her period because we had sex on Friday.
Is going ghost on your girlfriend overkill though??
Am I over-reacting or am I in the right here?