So a girl who said I forced myself up on her. (Plz read my other post if u want).
A girl I kissed n hugged wasn't talking to me for a couple of days and when j asked the reason she said I took advantage of her n said we shouldn't be frnds. Didn't block me but wasn't texting with me before she used to blow up my phone (even after the kissing) . I went to a mutual frnd of ours and asked if she was in a relationship with a guy, he said nope and she's single, I asked some little details abt her. He said them. Previously when I asked abt her he kept it to himself, this time though he said to me that he won't tell anyone he told her that I was asking. She got mad, probably he told more to her as he was drunk when he called her. So then she called me n screamed that y should I ask abt her to him, what would he think, she even asked me every word I spoke with him n said she has to answer her frnds now in order to repair her image in front of them n said she lost every impression on me n blocked me everywhere. It has been a month. Yesterday I realised that this happened to me three times before. 3 yrs ago, I asked abt a girl to my frnd n he told her bf n that guy created a mess. Then 6 months later I was talking abt a girl with a close frnd of mine, he assured me that his chat was private but he showed her everything n I got caught n got into a mess with her then. Now things r cool with her tho. 3rd time was so dumb I talked to a guy whom I barely know abt his gf who is my frnd. Then she checked his fb n though I talked abt her in a good way she didn't like it. So now again (I'm 21) and still this happened. I really thought this guy would never tell her n then he got drunk n told her n other guy abt me asking of her. It's really embarrassing. Why does this keep on happening? What should I do? I keep losing people. She didn't block me before but after this she blockee me.
A girl I kissed n hugged wasn't talking to me for a couple of days and when j asked the reason she said I took advantage of her n said we shouldn't be frnds. Didn't block me but wasn't texting with me before she used to blow up my phone (even after the kissing) . I went to a mutual frnd of ours and asked if she was in a relationship with a guy, he said nope and she's single, I asked some little details abt her. He said them. Previously when I asked abt her he kept it to himself, this time though he said to me that he won't tell anyone he told her that I was asking. She got mad, probably he told more to her as he was drunk when he called her. So then she called me n screamed that y should I ask abt her to him, what would he think, she even asked me every word I spoke with him n said she has to answer her frnds now in order to repair her image in front of them n said she lost every impression on me n blocked me everywhere. It has been a month. Yesterday I realised that this happened to me three times before. 3 yrs ago, I asked abt a girl to my frnd n he told her bf n that guy created a mess. Then 6 months later I was talking abt a girl with a close frnd of mine, he assured me that his chat was private but he showed her everything n I got caught n got into a mess with her then. Now things r cool with her tho. 3rd time was so dumb I talked to a guy whom I barely know abt his gf who is my frnd. Then she checked his fb n though I talked abt her in a good way she didn't like it. So now again (I'm 21) and still this happened. I really thought this guy would never tell her n then he got drunk n told her n other guy abt me asking of her. It's really embarrassing. Why does this keep on happening? What should I do? I keep losing people. She didn't block me before but after this she blockee me.