realsmoothie
Master Don Juan
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I am in fresh territory and need some advice. Remember that I am still fairly AFC at this point and 32 years old.
Here's the situation (cue "Parents Just Don't Understand"):
Over the last month I have had four girls interested in me in various ways.
HBblonde: a customer who I see maybe once every few weeks, we fool around a bit but she's passively-agressive and shy at the same time. Fun for physical stuff.
HBcrazy: a pretty good friend who wants to date me in a semi-serious way but I have been putting it off because I don't want to get serious with her yet. I am biding my time. Has some issues.
HBhottie: a superhot girl who I fooled around with a couple of times but nothing has happened since other than her calling me all the time and teasing me. I think she is interested but is unsure about me for some reason.
HBskinny: a girl who asked ME out for coffee in MY store. We had coffee, I've hung out with her at school and had dinner and a DVD (seen at her place) last week. Was pretty nervous and couldn't even kiss her. But we get along like two peas in a pod, and she is very definitely interested. Relationship material.
All of the first three girls have seen me with HBskinny. HBblonde saw me talking to her at work fairly intimately and looked pretty jealous. HBcrazy called me when I was walking towards dinner with HBskinny, I ignored the call and (of course) then passed by HBcrazy on the street a minute later (she looked pretty displeased). And I went into the restaurant where HBhottie works with HBskinny in tow, HBhottie came and sat right at my hip and was showing increased IOI's.
Now, my actual question: how do I maximize the "jealousy" factor here? I mean, let's say I see HBblonde in my store, and she asks who HBskinny is, how much do I tell her? I have a feeling that HBskinny might turn into something constant, and I will try not to make it a serious thing, so I want to know how to use that relationship for social proof.
Note: all these girls are 22-24. Not sure if that is a factor...
Here's the situation (cue "Parents Just Don't Understand"):
Over the last month I have had four girls interested in me in various ways.
HBblonde: a customer who I see maybe once every few weeks, we fool around a bit but she's passively-agressive and shy at the same time. Fun for physical stuff.
HBcrazy: a pretty good friend who wants to date me in a semi-serious way but I have been putting it off because I don't want to get serious with her yet. I am biding my time. Has some issues.
HBhottie: a superhot girl who I fooled around with a couple of times but nothing has happened since other than her calling me all the time and teasing me. I think she is interested but is unsure about me for some reason.
HBskinny: a girl who asked ME out for coffee in MY store. We had coffee, I've hung out with her at school and had dinner and a DVD (seen at her place) last week. Was pretty nervous and couldn't even kiss her. But we get along like two peas in a pod, and she is very definitely interested. Relationship material.
All of the first three girls have seen me with HBskinny. HBblonde saw me talking to her at work fairly intimately and looked pretty jealous. HBcrazy called me when I was walking towards dinner with HBskinny, I ignored the call and (of course) then passed by HBcrazy on the street a minute later (she looked pretty displeased). And I went into the restaurant where HBhottie works with HBskinny in tow, HBhottie came and sat right at my hip and was showing increased IOI's.
Now, my actual question: how do I maximize the "jealousy" factor here? I mean, let's say I see HBblonde in my store, and she asks who HBskinny is, how much do I tell her? I have a feeling that HBskinny might turn into something constant, and I will try not to make it a serious thing, so I want to know how to use that relationship for social proof.
Note: all these girls are 22-24. Not sure if that is a factor...