2crudedudes
Senior Don Juan
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- Dec 10, 2009
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From what I can gather reading the articles and posts in the forum, I should be looking for some IOIs from girls before approaching (typically, at least eye contact and possibly a smile). However, a lot of times it feels like I can't get a decent-looking girl to even look at me.
More often than not, I go to this more or less sleazy bar with a friend (who has absolutely no problem hooking up with anything that looks even remotely female) but feel like I'm shunned to the corner. Like I said, its a sleazy bar, so its not like I'm competing with movie star-look alikes, yet I find it very difficult to even get the attention of non-elephantine women.
I have confidence issues, and feel that perhaps my weight is a turn off. I'm not massive, but I do have a beer gut. The only argument against my weight being the issue is that before I put on this weight I wasn't getting much more game either.
Its most likely a confidence deficiency, but I don't know how to overcome this. Any pointers to increase my confidence and/or increase my IOI reception would be greatly appreciated.
More often than not, I go to this more or less sleazy bar with a friend (who has absolutely no problem hooking up with anything that looks even remotely female) but feel like I'm shunned to the corner. Like I said, its a sleazy bar, so its not like I'm competing with movie star-look alikes, yet I find it very difficult to even get the attention of non-elephantine women.
I have confidence issues, and feel that perhaps my weight is a turn off. I'm not massive, but I do have a beer gut. The only argument against my weight being the issue is that before I put on this weight I wasn't getting much more game either.
Its most likely a confidence deficiency, but I don't know how to overcome this. Any pointers to increase my confidence and/or increase my IOI reception would be greatly appreciated.