AlexTheGreat
Senior Don Juan
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So it was my friend's birthday a few days ago, and he invites me out with a bunch of friends to unofficially celebrate. I readily agree to come!
Today, a few hours before I'm meeting my friend, this girl I've been seeing gives me a call. We've been seeing each other for about a month, and the last time I saw her, she told me "she didn't like this non-exclusive relationship" that we have, and that she's "starting to really like me", to which I reply "I really like you too, but I'm not looking for anything serious or exclusive". She seemed bummed at that, but nothing more; we talked the next day like nothing had been told.
So anyways, she calls me today and invites me to her place, and tells me that her roommate was gone. I let her know that I already had plans, but I'll call her after she gets off work to let her know what's going on and if I can maybe drop by.
Turns out that I can't make it to her place after all. As I let her know that, she turns relatively cold.
Now, I'm not saying that I should've ditched my friend to go see her, cuz I had no intention of doing that. But I've been putting very little effort into her, and I'm not sure exactly whether I should be working more or less for her. I think this chick is cool, and it would suck if she lost interest because I'm not giving her enough feedback.
My question is: how busy can a guy become before a girl starts losing interest from lack of feedback?
Today, a few hours before I'm meeting my friend, this girl I've been seeing gives me a call. We've been seeing each other for about a month, and the last time I saw her, she told me "she didn't like this non-exclusive relationship" that we have, and that she's "starting to really like me", to which I reply "I really like you too, but I'm not looking for anything serious or exclusive". She seemed bummed at that, but nothing more; we talked the next day like nothing had been told.
So anyways, she calls me today and invites me to her place, and tells me that her roommate was gone. I let her know that I already had plans, but I'll call her after she gets off work to let her know what's going on and if I can maybe drop by.
Turns out that I can't make it to her place after all. As I let her know that, she turns relatively cold.
Now, I'm not saying that I should've ditched my friend to go see her, cuz I had no intention of doing that. But I've been putting very little effort into her, and I'm not sure exactly whether I should be working more or less for her. I think this chick is cool, and it would suck if she lost interest because I'm not giving her enough feedback.
My question is: how busy can a guy become before a girl starts losing interest from lack of feedback?