DoofusDonutDude
Don Juan
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Struggled with self image for issues and still do.
I have discovered their emotional roots and am working on the internally and externally ( lifting weights, getting life togethar etc) but still feel guilt and shame and like i'm a cheat when i want to cold approach a woman when going out sarging. I feel afraid they will look at me at consider me..worth nothing. I feel i should be working on my career ( it's decent but not the best it could be) or some other things. Came from a dysfunctional family so it has some roots there. Working on that as well.
I am [29M] so its either now or never with game as well in some ways. In my society , you are way past the marriageable age by 35 and can only survive if you are a very succesful and good looking guy (both things i know i can be).
The thing is, to wait till i'm jacked, confident to start approaching or to keep working on these things on the main focus and keep doing approaches on the side?
I've met guys who used to be losers but spent a few years in highly socialable situations and became chick magnets and players without ever reading a word of game -- so there's something to be said about learning by executing instead of theorizing endlessly and then executing. Even read the same in Atomic habits. A guy doing 100 approaches and tuning each approach with feedback is going to be succesfull compared to a guy doing 1 approach after reading 100s of books and hitting the gym everyday.
What do you guys think?
I have discovered their emotional roots and am working on the internally and externally ( lifting weights, getting life togethar etc) but still feel guilt and shame and like i'm a cheat when i want to cold approach a woman when going out sarging. I feel afraid they will look at me at consider me..worth nothing. I feel i should be working on my career ( it's decent but not the best it could be) or some other things. Came from a dysfunctional family so it has some roots there. Working on that as well.
I am [29M] so its either now or never with game as well in some ways. In my society , you are way past the marriageable age by 35 and can only survive if you are a very succesful and good looking guy (both things i know i can be).
The thing is, to wait till i'm jacked, confident to start approaching or to keep working on these things on the main focus and keep doing approaches on the side?
I've met guys who used to be losers but spent a few years in highly socialable situations and became chick magnets and players without ever reading a word of game -- so there's something to be said about learning by executing instead of theorizing endlessly and then executing. Even read the same in Atomic habits. A guy doing 100 approaches and tuning each approach with feedback is going to be succesfull compared to a guy doing 1 approach after reading 100s of books and hitting the gym everyday.
What do you guys think?