I hate to talk like your grandfather but.....
The only thing that works, I have found out, after a half of a life time, is REALITY.
Reality always works. Maybe you hate doing this or that. But if you learn REALITY you can use it to your advantage.
I would like to call a woman the next day. Reality tells me she will think I am crazy. So I can't. Real men just don't do that. And women know it.
Women are different than us in their heads. You do this and that and they think, this and that. They don't see the REAL you.
So I have to pretend I don't give a damn when I am drooling for her. So what? I win.
And winning feels good.
You need 'rules' more than ever now. Women don't have to get married anymore.
Many, many, many, women are only dating for 'entertainment' and fun and relaxation.
Technically they are not dating at all!
Dating is for getting married down the road. If it's not for getting married, it's NOT dating.
You have to know now if a woman is interested in YOU or is just seeking entertainment.
A girl dating you nowadays doesn't mean she loves you like
it did years ago.
You must WEED them out. You can't ignore what's going on. You can't close your eyes.
AD
-Anti-Dump
