Well I knew that talk was coming last night. We went out got drunk etc. Went to her house she initiated sex. Then stopped. Im like wtf? I knew the talk was coming. Basically what she was asking me if I was using her for sex, and what my intentions were. I got her to spit out her intentions first. She said she is confused and scared, just like i thought. Then I got her to talk some more. She went on to say that she started talking to some guy who lives 1.5 hours away and they have hung out a couple times and he was a really nice guy etc. I laughed and said you gotta be jokin. She is the type of girl who needs a dude to stand up to her. Which I do. She claims they havent had sex. I also went on to say wtf does it show when the guy is trying to get at a girl who lives 1.5 hours away and cant get one who lives in his town (he lives in a town i did before and there is plenty of girls). I also siad he has no confidence if he hasnt trying to iniate sex. She says they were talking before I popped back into her life. which is true i think. He was gone on vacation I guess for a month and was coming back tomorrow (tonight) and was going to stay at her house cause the airport is nearby.
She then said we should just be friends and not have full sex but oral is ok lol wtf. I immedatley said cause you wanna fvck other dudes. Denied it of course. she says she is starting to get attached and doesnt know what she wants and needs to find herself (never heard that one before lol). and apparently has told the last couple people she has dated the same. I told her fvck that. I said the guy can have you and said if I walk out the door now im done for good. We kept on talking dont really remember but she kept saying shes getting attached and doesnt know what to do and just wants things easy. I told her I dont want a relationship exactly at this moment either but would like to try to work things out eventually. She just kept repeating herself and being silent so I started to walk out the door and she said ur being a b1tch so I went back and said you better apologize right now. She did then I fvcked her 1 mintue later lol.
We woke up this mornign she just kept saying the same sh1t and I said "you are basically telling me you dont want to even try to have a relationship with me cause I told u if that guy sleeps over im done for good and you refuse to tell me u wont let him." We went back to sleep for a little.
I told her I dont want to make a bad decision and walk out of her life forever so I was giving her chances. Fvck I gave this girl so many opportunities to make things right. She wouldnt change. She had to go somewhere and when I was leaving she said Ill call you tonight and let you know. I said dont call me if that guy is coming over and hopefully we will see each other again. She made some remark and I walked away. Drove 30 seconds to my house lol and said fvck it and wrote her a text. "Regardless if that guy comes over or not Im done with you. Bad move to put me second to someone." I have no clue what is going to happen now.
I told her she is stupid for bringing up sh1t cause we were totally fine hanign out. And she said would you rather have me lie? I said yes cause now things are fvcked up which they shouldnt be. What it boils down to is I dont put up with sh1t to a certain point. My other ex was the same, had the same talks, and she said the same sh1t cause I stood up and had good confidence. They want weaker men it is so obvious. Fvck that and fvck them.
She then said we should just be friends and not have full sex but oral is ok lol wtf. I immedatley said cause you wanna fvck other dudes. Denied it of course. she says she is starting to get attached and doesnt know what she wants and needs to find herself (never heard that one before lol). and apparently has told the last couple people she has dated the same. I told her fvck that. I said the guy can have you and said if I walk out the door now im done for good. We kept on talking dont really remember but she kept saying shes getting attached and doesnt know what to do and just wants things easy. I told her I dont want a relationship exactly at this moment either but would like to try to work things out eventually. She just kept repeating herself and being silent so I started to walk out the door and she said ur being a b1tch so I went back and said you better apologize right now. She did then I fvcked her 1 mintue later lol.
We woke up this mornign she just kept saying the same sh1t and I said "you are basically telling me you dont want to even try to have a relationship with me cause I told u if that guy sleeps over im done for good and you refuse to tell me u wont let him." We went back to sleep for a little.
I told her I dont want to make a bad decision and walk out of her life forever so I was giving her chances. Fvck I gave this girl so many opportunities to make things right. She wouldnt change. She had to go somewhere and when I was leaving she said Ill call you tonight and let you know. I said dont call me if that guy is coming over and hopefully we will see each other again. She made some remark and I walked away. Drove 30 seconds to my house lol and said fvck it and wrote her a text. "Regardless if that guy comes over or not Im done with you. Bad move to put me second to someone." I have no clue what is going to happen now.
I told her she is stupid for bringing up sh1t cause we were totally fine hanign out. And she said would you rather have me lie? I said yes cause now things are fvcked up which they shouldnt be. What it boils down to is I dont put up with sh1t to a certain point. My other ex was the same, had the same talks, and she said the same sh1t cause I stood up and had good confidence. They want weaker men it is so obvious. Fvck that and fvck them.