Greetings men!
Here is an update/field report. Bear with me as I am a bit buzzed as I type this, and am covering a few days worth of events.
For those unaware, I asked out a woman at a job I am currently at (I don't want to hear anything about sh1tting where you eat, I have my reasons for doing what I do). She turns out to be a Sunshine Girl/Flake. I cut back on flirtation/attention, and she is now 50/50. What I mean by that, is that she will flirt one minute (utterly talkative, turning her chair to face me, eye contact, showing wrists, etc.), and not even acknowledge my existence the next (show up to where I am with co-workers, not look at me AT ALL, but say things like "see you all tomrrow"). So I say whatever, she is a DJ Bible guinea pig at this point, though I am not opposed to fvcking her at least once if the opportunity becomes available. I still am able to do whatever I want at work (those who are in charge are female), and the situation hasn't affected this very much.
Meanwhile, I have been going out locally and flirting with these two half-sisters with AFC boyfriends. I have such a good time with these chicks, that I find myself uninterested in the other women (small town, not a lot of decent selections). I almost approached a 3-set, but the cvnt-vibes were so strong, that I just hung out with these other chicks. With the younger one (21), I neg her a lot, and act only somewhat interested, while focusing on her older sister (23). The 21 y.o. NEVER talks about her BF, and the 23 y.o. talks about her BF with disdain. I mention that I almost went to this other bar, and 23 y.o. says "Hey, we're going there, come with us!" So I say, "Yeah, maybe I'll do that." I end up going there with them. We get trashed, and I have a convo with the 21 y.o. about religion (hey, she brought it up). She is really passionate about it to the point that she is frustrated that I do not share her views. Later, I tell the 23 y.o. that her sister is "something else" and that "we had quite the convo." She replies in a sarcastic tone with "Yeah, I'm so glad that you have a crush on my sister." I almost laugh at the idea of having a crush on anyone at 29 y.o. but say "What are you talking about? I don't have a crush on her. Would you rather I have a crush on you?" She says "Well, yeah!" and I can't remember exactly what else was said, because I wasn't expecting her to be so blunt. We end up leaving around closing and go to a party somewhere.
At the party, I introduce myself to all present (mostly females 19-24 y.o.). The dudes there (looking like 17-24 y.o.) were the saddest bunch of AFC's I have ever seen. There were women there, and they weren't doing SH!T. Some dude joined our "party" and we left, but the 21 y.o. stayed. We went to a friend's apartment for a bit. While talking with the 23 y.o., I gather that she isn't happy with her AFC BF, but is glad I am there, but is sad at not knowing what to do. I don't have time for that sh1t, so I don't do much. Rather I focus on being cool, since this chick might be available soon. After this we go to pick up her sister, and I order the dude that joined us to go inside to get her. At this point, I'm done for the night and 23 y.o. senses this. She gives me a ride home without me asking her, and I hug her and lightly shake-hands/kino her sister while ignoring the other dude, then get out of the car.
That was Saturday, fast forward to today. My co-worker that "interfered" with my pursuing of the woman I asked out mentions wanting to get into shape (I'm always going on about my exercising and that people should care about their bodies). I mention that I'm losing interest in the woman I asked out and that for now she is in the "blew it zone". My co-worker laughs and says "Yeah, she should be there." We are good friends and we pick up some beer after work and I take her home. We drink 3 beers each and she shows me a picture when she was in shape and I was like "Damn!" She laughed, and we talked about getting in shape. Before I leave, I pick the picture back up and say "Damn, thats a nice pic" and she says "Gee, thanks for making me feel bad about myself" and I reply with "Don't feel bad, because you are dedicated (to getting back in shape), right?" She says, "Yeah. Give me a call later. Be safe." She texts me later saying "Don't take it to heart, it is a good thing, but thanks for making me feel bad about myself." I reply with "You shouldn't feel bad about yourself, that wasn't my intention." and followed up with "You can be want you want, trust in that." She replies with "I know, I'm just reminded of how I was and how I should be."
So that is what is going on with the four women I am currently interacting with. I feel that since I am a Cancer, women either want to fvck me, use me as an emotional tampon, or both. Its always been like that, since school. Suicidal chicks would confide in me, or insecure chicks would look for me for support, or chicks would try to use me to break up with their BFs and then be a FB for a while. The thing is, I am seeing through this B.S. and only doing what *I* want, not what they want. I feel that I could probably have any of these women if I played my cards right (and if they meet *my* requirements). For what its worth, I am having a great time and am also getting a lot of practice.
Here is an update/field report. Bear with me as I am a bit buzzed as I type this, and am covering a few days worth of events.
For those unaware, I asked out a woman at a job I am currently at (I don't want to hear anything about sh1tting where you eat, I have my reasons for doing what I do). She turns out to be a Sunshine Girl/Flake. I cut back on flirtation/attention, and she is now 50/50. What I mean by that, is that she will flirt one minute (utterly talkative, turning her chair to face me, eye contact, showing wrists, etc.), and not even acknowledge my existence the next (show up to where I am with co-workers, not look at me AT ALL, but say things like "see you all tomrrow"). So I say whatever, she is a DJ Bible guinea pig at this point, though I am not opposed to fvcking her at least once if the opportunity becomes available. I still am able to do whatever I want at work (those who are in charge are female), and the situation hasn't affected this very much.
Meanwhile, I have been going out locally and flirting with these two half-sisters with AFC boyfriends. I have such a good time with these chicks, that I find myself uninterested in the other women (small town, not a lot of decent selections). I almost approached a 3-set, but the cvnt-vibes were so strong, that I just hung out with these other chicks. With the younger one (21), I neg her a lot, and act only somewhat interested, while focusing on her older sister (23). The 21 y.o. NEVER talks about her BF, and the 23 y.o. talks about her BF with disdain. I mention that I almost went to this other bar, and 23 y.o. says "Hey, we're going there, come with us!" So I say, "Yeah, maybe I'll do that." I end up going there with them. We get trashed, and I have a convo with the 21 y.o. about religion (hey, she brought it up). She is really passionate about it to the point that she is frustrated that I do not share her views. Later, I tell the 23 y.o. that her sister is "something else" and that "we had quite the convo." She replies in a sarcastic tone with "Yeah, I'm so glad that you have a crush on my sister." I almost laugh at the idea of having a crush on anyone at 29 y.o. but say "What are you talking about? I don't have a crush on her. Would you rather I have a crush on you?" She says "Well, yeah!" and I can't remember exactly what else was said, because I wasn't expecting her to be so blunt. We end up leaving around closing and go to a party somewhere.
At the party, I introduce myself to all present (mostly females 19-24 y.o.). The dudes there (looking like 17-24 y.o.) were the saddest bunch of AFC's I have ever seen. There were women there, and they weren't doing SH!T. Some dude joined our "party" and we left, but the 21 y.o. stayed. We went to a friend's apartment for a bit. While talking with the 23 y.o., I gather that she isn't happy with her AFC BF, but is glad I am there, but is sad at not knowing what to do. I don't have time for that sh1t, so I don't do much. Rather I focus on being cool, since this chick might be available soon. After this we go to pick up her sister, and I order the dude that joined us to go inside to get her. At this point, I'm done for the night and 23 y.o. senses this. She gives me a ride home without me asking her, and I hug her and lightly shake-hands/kino her sister while ignoring the other dude, then get out of the car.
That was Saturday, fast forward to today. My co-worker that "interfered" with my pursuing of the woman I asked out mentions wanting to get into shape (I'm always going on about my exercising and that people should care about their bodies). I mention that I'm losing interest in the woman I asked out and that for now she is in the "blew it zone". My co-worker laughs and says "Yeah, she should be there." We are good friends and we pick up some beer after work and I take her home. We drink 3 beers each and she shows me a picture when she was in shape and I was like "Damn!" She laughed, and we talked about getting in shape. Before I leave, I pick the picture back up and say "Damn, thats a nice pic" and she says "Gee, thanks for making me feel bad about myself" and I reply with "Don't feel bad, because you are dedicated (to getting back in shape), right?" She says, "Yeah. Give me a call later. Be safe." She texts me later saying "Don't take it to heart, it is a good thing, but thanks for making me feel bad about myself." I reply with "You shouldn't feel bad about yourself, that wasn't my intention." and followed up with "You can be want you want, trust in that." She replies with "I know, I'm just reminded of how I was and how I should be."
So that is what is going on with the four women I am currently interacting with. I feel that since I am a Cancer, women either want to fvck me, use me as an emotional tampon, or both. Its always been like that, since school. Suicidal chicks would confide in me, or insecure chicks would look for me for support, or chicks would try to use me to break up with their BFs and then be a FB for a while. The thing is, I am seeing through this B.S. and only doing what *I* want, not what they want. I feel that I could probably have any of these women if I played my cards right (and if they meet *my* requirements). For what its worth, I am having a great time and am also getting a lot of practice.
