Read the bible!
I've been seeing alot of I want to date my friend/bestfriend/coworker etc.. and the answer is NO!
You guys claim to feel something for these people who you've known for X years and decide that these emotions should be classed under "feelings" and that maybe something might happen between you two! Hey, She flirts with you doesn't she? you guys go out all the time? you have a sh!tload of fun together!
No. The fact of the matter is you saw her as a friend, she saw you as a friend and then you got desperate and became more aware of your feelings. Everything she ever did before while she was classed as a friend is still happening now except that you think it's something more because you have decided that you wanted poontang from her! Do not fall into this trap!
Ofcourse she seems perfect for you! if she didn't, you wouldn't be bestfriends now! You need to realise that you are falling prey to laziness. You are becoming desperate and going for an "easy way out" (because you are already hanging out alot together etc) . Except this isn't an easy way out. She isn't thinking of you that way and prolly never will. Don't make illusions for yourself cause your kino seems to be working wonders; not it's not. You are deceiving yourself. It has always been that way and you are just imagining things to make you feel better.
The fact of the matter is you need to wake up and realise that nothing will happen between you 2 and even if something does happen it will just %$#^ up your friendship. It is not worth it. There are millions of other girls!
Out of experience, this is not what you are really looking for. It is just dumb to ruin a 10+ year friendship over such bs. it's not even dumb, it's sad. When this happened to me, I was still afc and my bestfriend, after telling me how she didn't want our friendship ruined said "I don't know, our friendship is great as it is". Come to think about it, I was such a dumbass for even thinking of dating her. Now your turn homies. Think about it, all that fun you are already having with her.... isn't it all you really want?
I've been seeing alot of I want to date my friend/bestfriend/coworker etc.. and the answer is NO!
You guys claim to feel something for these people who you've known for X years and decide that these emotions should be classed under "feelings" and that maybe something might happen between you two! Hey, She flirts with you doesn't she? you guys go out all the time? you have a sh!tload of fun together!
No. The fact of the matter is you saw her as a friend, she saw you as a friend and then you got desperate and became more aware of your feelings. Everything she ever did before while she was classed as a friend is still happening now except that you think it's something more because you have decided that you wanted poontang from her! Do not fall into this trap!
Ofcourse she seems perfect for you! if she didn't, you wouldn't be bestfriends now! You need to realise that you are falling prey to laziness. You are becoming desperate and going for an "easy way out" (because you are already hanging out alot together etc) . Except this isn't an easy way out. She isn't thinking of you that way and prolly never will. Don't make illusions for yourself cause your kino seems to be working wonders; not it's not. You are deceiving yourself. It has always been that way and you are just imagining things to make you feel better.
The fact of the matter is you need to wake up and realise that nothing will happen between you 2 and even if something does happen it will just %$#^ up your friendship. It is not worth it. There are millions of other girls!
Out of experience, this is not what you are really looking for. It is just dumb to ruin a 10+ year friendship over such bs. it's not even dumb, it's sad. When this happened to me, I was still afc and my bestfriend, after telling me how she didn't want our friendship ruined said "I don't know, our friendship is great as it is". Come to think about it, I was such a dumbass for even thinking of dating her. Now your turn homies. Think about it, all that fun you are already having with her.... isn't it all you really want?
