just recently I went swimming and saw a nice girl from my place I already know for some time (I'm not at my home-town very often!). after some talking about what I do now, what she does now we entered a very relaxed conversation. at some point when getting out of the water, she asked me if I think she is fat (the kind of question you will hear from every woman sooner or later!). I told her, that I'm the kind of guy that doesnt look out for such things and that having a gorgeous body is just a thing hyped up by the medias etc. (hehe, she must have been thinking that I DO THINK she is fat and didnt want to tell her :-D - up to this point it was a NEG!). I could really tell by that strange smile that she felt a little put down, and THEN I told her that I think she has a very good shape and is very sexy!
I first put her down a little (in no personal way) and then relieved her of that feeling and made her feel good. I dont know if this was relevent for her giving me her number afterwards, but I gave her a compliment that sounded honest and made her feel good and special (a thing you dont get with the many routine-compliments most women are used to!).
will have a date with her this friday :-D
ciao tomazu
I first put her down a little (in no personal way) and then relieved her of that feeling and made her feel good. I dont know if this was relevent for her giving me her number afterwards, but I gave her a compliment that sounded honest and made her feel good and special (a thing you dont get with the many routine-compliments most women are used to!).
will have a date with her this friday :-D
ciao tomazu