Yeah, despite my pontificating tone in that tip I wrote I really am more interested in my life in general than women right now. So thankyou, oh good men of sosuave, for showing me that this is a fine way to think:rockon:. Anyway... right now I'd like to ask those men here who've got a bit further in life than me for advice.
I regret none of my actions but looking back, the time I quit school was running away. Fine, and I needed to. I needed to think. But I needed companionship too, and balance in all other areas of my life, and I fancy that if I'd had some good friends I'd have put up with that ****ty place a bit better. Or at least been a bit more discreet in my rebellion.
Basically that place and time derailed my hurtling sense of purpose. I had all the things I'd loved and wanted to do. I knew I was smart enough and strong enough. But then so called "reality" called and I suddenly let in other people's fears because I had become unsure. I didn't want to impose myself on other people but I loathed the idea of being imposed upon by others so much that I kept on running away from everyone. This was a reality I had to come to terms with: society is not equal, and if we don't want to be inferior, we must strive to be superior.
I can't blame anyone or anything else for my problems anymore, that was always avoidence of the truth. It's all me. I've worked out a lot of things, and I want to think more, but I know that I can't let it be a way of hiding from my fears anymore. I need balance, and I'm scared. I'm like the bird whose cage has just been opened but he won't go out yet because he doesn't know what the great big world is like. Saying this, I'm not gonna let it stop me. But that's where I am.
I can't take the idea of mediocrity. The idea disgusts me. We live in a society that clings to its limitations out of fear of freedom. I know I have to differ. But how? What shall I do? It's probably a pretty common question at my age but intimidating all the same. If I can be happy screwing about with a few good friends what's the point of beating myself up over a vision of ascendence? At the same time, however at peace I am I know that there's more out there. And if there's so much suffering in the world that we could easily change, and so much joy we could easily bring, isn't being like children still just staying willfully blind?
How do I prioritise my dreams and needs? How do I make a balance between wanting to be social and wanting to make a difference to myself and the world? How can I cope with being something that no-one around me understands, and even strive to widen this gap further?
Guys... you who have been where I was and have got to where I want to go... how did you cope?
I regret none of my actions but looking back, the time I quit school was running away. Fine, and I needed to. I needed to think. But I needed companionship too, and balance in all other areas of my life, and I fancy that if I'd had some good friends I'd have put up with that ****ty place a bit better. Or at least been a bit more discreet in my rebellion.
Basically that place and time derailed my hurtling sense of purpose. I had all the things I'd loved and wanted to do. I knew I was smart enough and strong enough. But then so called "reality" called and I suddenly let in other people's fears because I had become unsure. I didn't want to impose myself on other people but I loathed the idea of being imposed upon by others so much that I kept on running away from everyone. This was a reality I had to come to terms with: society is not equal, and if we don't want to be inferior, we must strive to be superior.
I can't blame anyone or anything else for my problems anymore, that was always avoidence of the truth. It's all me. I've worked out a lot of things, and I want to think more, but I know that I can't let it be a way of hiding from my fears anymore. I need balance, and I'm scared. I'm like the bird whose cage has just been opened but he won't go out yet because he doesn't know what the great big world is like. Saying this, I'm not gonna let it stop me. But that's where I am.
I can't take the idea of mediocrity. The idea disgusts me. We live in a society that clings to its limitations out of fear of freedom. I know I have to differ. But how? What shall I do? It's probably a pretty common question at my age but intimidating all the same. If I can be happy screwing about with a few good friends what's the point of beating myself up over a vision of ascendence? At the same time, however at peace I am I know that there's more out there. And if there's so much suffering in the world that we could easily change, and so much joy we could easily bring, isn't being like children still just staying willfully blind?
How do I prioritise my dreams and needs? How do I make a balance between wanting to be social and wanting to make a difference to myself and the world? How can I cope with being something that no-one around me understands, and even strive to widen this gap further?
Guys... you who have been where I was and have got to where I want to go... how did you cope?