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Don Juan
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Although I have been around for some time, I have just recently had the time to begin posting on the forums and participating more. So as a hello and gratitude for such a community to be available, what better way to say it then a free strategy from my personal chest.
This is very simple and is very effective when used correctly, as is anything.
Hypothetical example:
Your out with friends and just having a good time.
You caught eyes with a lady and you do the the don juan thing to do which is not look away first.
When you do this effectively you will have no problem getting her to glance back again in due time.
This is when you make your move. As soon as she looks back that second time and you catch her, immediately but confidently and with an intriguing look on your face, point somewhere on your face as if you are signaling that there is something on her face that you believe her attention requires.
For example, you could point right below the cheek but just above the chin, or right on the rim of your lip. She should get the impression her lipstick is running or basically that there is something she needs to wipe away or clean.
While she is frantically trying to figure out what you are trying to communicate to her across the room she is getting more into the situation and you just keep pointing slightly faster to that spot as if she is so close to removing whatever it is.
After you've had your fun playing with her you just smile and look away as if you were just teasing her.
It is a sure bet that a couple minutes later she will approach you on her own and will do a number of things such as hit you playfully on the arm asking why were you messing with her and if something was really there. And there's your opener to begin a conversation.
What makes this interesting and effective is that:
1. it can be done across the room.
2. it shows your ****y/funny side when she realizes you were playing with her.
3. in terms of power/dominance the ball is in your court since she approaches you.
4. it involves mostly hand signals which can be easily done in a loud club or bar.
5. females will naturally be curious as to what your communicating especially when they get the impression it involves a problem with how they look at the time.
6. you can alternate it and get creative. for example, as you increase how fast you point at the spot as if she almost has it, you could be confidently but surely walking towards her and then by the time you get up close and it look to her like your about to point out exactly where this "thing" is on her face, you use an opening line such as "is there a reason why your playing shadow with me across the room?" after she finishes laughing and blushing that she fell for that, finish the job.
***One good tip is to point to the side of the face opposite the arm you use. If you point with the right, point somewhere on the left side of your face. It looks more believeable and keeps the small game going.
This technique takes a certain amount of field practice but as you get better and more convincing, it is a great strategy.
Again, hello and it's good to finally be a more involved member.
This is very simple and is very effective when used correctly, as is anything.
Hypothetical example:
Your out with friends and just having a good time.
You caught eyes with a lady and you do the the don juan thing to do which is not look away first.
When you do this effectively you will have no problem getting her to glance back again in due time.
This is when you make your move. As soon as she looks back that second time and you catch her, immediately but confidently and with an intriguing look on your face, point somewhere on your face as if you are signaling that there is something on her face that you believe her attention requires.
For example, you could point right below the cheek but just above the chin, or right on the rim of your lip. She should get the impression her lipstick is running or basically that there is something she needs to wipe away or clean.
While she is frantically trying to figure out what you are trying to communicate to her across the room she is getting more into the situation and you just keep pointing slightly faster to that spot as if she is so close to removing whatever it is.
After you've had your fun playing with her you just smile and look away as if you were just teasing her.
It is a sure bet that a couple minutes later she will approach you on her own and will do a number of things such as hit you playfully on the arm asking why were you messing with her and if something was really there. And there's your opener to begin a conversation.
What makes this interesting and effective is that:
1. it can be done across the room.
2. it shows your ****y/funny side when she realizes you were playing with her.
3. in terms of power/dominance the ball is in your court since she approaches you.
4. it involves mostly hand signals which can be easily done in a loud club or bar.
5. females will naturally be curious as to what your communicating especially when they get the impression it involves a problem with how they look at the time.
6. you can alternate it and get creative. for example, as you increase how fast you point at the spot as if she almost has it, you could be confidently but surely walking towards her and then by the time you get up close and it look to her like your about to point out exactly where this "thing" is on her face, you use an opening line such as "is there a reason why your playing shadow with me across the room?" after she finishes laughing and blushing that she fell for that, finish the job.
***One good tip is to point to the side of the face opposite the arm you use. If you point with the right, point somewhere on the left side of your face. It looks more believeable and keeps the small game going.
This technique takes a certain amount of field practice but as you get better and more convincing, it is a great strategy.
Again, hello and it's good to finally be a more involved member.
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