amazingswayze
Master Don Juan
I am somewhat frustrated. I just went on my 4th date with plate #1. I planned to take her to my youth group but when we showed up it was canceled. All good, here goes Plan B. "Let's see a movie"
Alright, so the girl keeps talking about Trainwreck. Why would I want to see a romantic comedy? Southpaw is playing! :box:
We get to the theatre and she offers to buy 2 tickets to see Trainwreck. I'm like nah, "I'll buy 2 tickets to Southpaw" She was acting like a ***** after that. She wouldn't let me kiss her in the movies. I decided to back off and get a breath of fresh air in the bathroom. I was kinda pissed because I never made out in the theatre before and my confidence was sky high going into this thing.
Alright, so the movies over and we walk out. She says, "I'm not mad anymore, the movie was good" WTF? We get back to my car and I'm just like screw it, she missed her chance. When we pull up to her house though, I still go for the goodnight kiss. It was alright. I bit her lip. Sorry, not sorry. She was acting like a ***** the whole night. I am 99% sure she has no other options. I was her first kiss. She has no experience. It's been 4 dates and we've only kissed.
I'm trying to figure out what I should do differently to escalate with her.
:trouble:
I need to adopt a new attitude. When I was driving home tonight after all that, I told myself this, "If I can't get my satisfaction, I'll seek it elsewhere." I'm pissed because my other plate is more attractive, and on the first date, I'm already making out with her and feeling her up. I want to spin more plates because there will always be obstacles when dealing with women. Spinning plates makes it easier. I'm not gonna hit this girl up at all for a week. See what happens. If plate #2 is down for a second date, I've done my job well.
All I need is time to get over these small hurdles. :rockon:
My question to my fellow DJ's is this;
What do you do when a girl isn't satisfying you?
The thing is, I'm not ready to next her yet because I have few options and I think she will open up more with time.
Ideas?
Alright, so the girl keeps talking about Trainwreck. Why would I want to see a romantic comedy? Southpaw is playing! :box:
We get to the theatre and she offers to buy 2 tickets to see Trainwreck. I'm like nah, "I'll buy 2 tickets to Southpaw" She was acting like a ***** after that. She wouldn't let me kiss her in the movies. I decided to back off and get a breath of fresh air in the bathroom. I was kinda pissed because I never made out in the theatre before and my confidence was sky high going into this thing.
Alright, so the movies over and we walk out. She says, "I'm not mad anymore, the movie was good" WTF? We get back to my car and I'm just like screw it, she missed her chance. When we pull up to her house though, I still go for the goodnight kiss. It was alright. I bit her lip. Sorry, not sorry. She was acting like a ***** the whole night. I am 99% sure she has no other options. I was her first kiss. She has no experience. It's been 4 dates and we've only kissed.
I'm trying to figure out what I should do differently to escalate with her.
:trouble:
I need to adopt a new attitude. When I was driving home tonight after all that, I told myself this, "If I can't get my satisfaction, I'll seek it elsewhere." I'm pissed because my other plate is more attractive, and on the first date, I'm already making out with her and feeling her up. I want to spin more plates because there will always be obstacles when dealing with women. Spinning plates makes it easier. I'm not gonna hit this girl up at all for a week. See what happens. If plate #2 is down for a second date, I've done my job well.
All I need is time to get over these small hurdles. :rockon:
My question to my fellow DJ's is this;
What do you do when a girl isn't satisfying you?
The thing is, I'm not ready to next her yet because I have few options and I think she will open up more with time.
Ideas?