Canadian Catnip
Senior Don Juan
I know this girl, been acquaintances for a little while, gone out with her once. I've touched her and she is responsive. Picked her up in my car and as we were driving to have coffee I tapped her on the shoulder to make a point, a few minutes later she taps me back on the shoulder.
I've hugged her, she seems to lean in and like it. I've even grabbed her hand once to look at some jewelery and she seemed to like that too. Even touched a necklace she was wearing to "point at something" and she never flinched or backed away.
Walking back to my car from coffee I grabbed her hand to hold it, I felt as if it was a good move. As I took her hand it went totally limp and passive on me. I couldn't read what she was trying to communicate, either she was suddenly really uncomfortable with me holding her hand this soon or she is the kind of girl that goes totally passive when a guy makes a move. I let go of her hand after about 10 seconds or so because I assumed she didn't like it but was trying to be nice. But then again she may have liked it and it's just her way to go passive when a man touches her.
Has anyone else had this happen? What was I experiencing? Was she passive because she is simply like that or was she just politely telling me that the hand holding was not acceptable?
Basic question, women going passive, not moving or reacting when you advance, good or bad?
I've hugged her, she seems to lean in and like it. I've even grabbed her hand once to look at some jewelery and she seemed to like that too. Even touched a necklace she was wearing to "point at something" and she never flinched or backed away.
Walking back to my car from coffee I grabbed her hand to hold it, I felt as if it was a good move. As I took her hand it went totally limp and passive on me. I couldn't read what she was trying to communicate, either she was suddenly really uncomfortable with me holding her hand this soon or she is the kind of girl that goes totally passive when a guy makes a move. I let go of her hand after about 10 seconds or so because I assumed she didn't like it but was trying to be nice. But then again she may have liked it and it's just her way to go passive when a man touches her.
Has anyone else had this happen? What was I experiencing? Was she passive because she is simply like that or was she just politely telling me that the hand holding was not acceptable?
Basic question, women going passive, not moving or reacting when you advance, good or bad?