donArjun
Don Juan
Of course to get good convo you have to pay attention to their signals. And be able to sync well. In order to have good convo in the first place, you need be confident, have a little personality and smile a little. Here is my problem:
I Just eliminate alot of girls like this :
" I don't see a future here because she's not that attractive to me"
"she's way out of my league"
"I didn't feel like we've sync enoughed to go through four dates"
I guess this show some confidence/esteem issues and have to work on that. My goal is just to get Laid, but I end up turning it into a long term search.
My new strategy is this :
Try your best for a good convo and if its good, just get the number hoping that if we have a 1,2nd , 3rd date, time will make her more attracted to me. I guess I am saying attraction will be created over time ( which I fundamentally disagree with , I think either its there or not ) . You put out your confident approach , smile , personality as that is the best job you can do. The rest is in NOT IN YOUR HANDS/ CONTROL. YOUR JOB IS TO BE CONFIDENT, SMILE AND SHOW SOME PERSONALITY.
If Shes talking/giving out IOIs, dont worry if your not attracted to her 100 % , after the bang, you'll think she's better looking. "Let the testosterone do the talking "
I guess it also shows I need to realize its really not in your control , or I am trying to control it too much. ITs like a game, of micro-managing. need to treat it more of a game to play and approach more , approach each situation like each girl like its a potential lay .
ANY Suggestions , Comments ....
I Just eliminate alot of girls like this :
" I don't see a future here because she's not that attractive to me"
"she's way out of my league"
"I didn't feel like we've sync enoughed to go through four dates"
I guess this show some confidence/esteem issues and have to work on that. My goal is just to get Laid, but I end up turning it into a long term search.
My new strategy is this :
Try your best for a good convo and if its good, just get the number hoping that if we have a 1,2nd , 3rd date, time will make her more attracted to me. I guess I am saying attraction will be created over time ( which I fundamentally disagree with , I think either its there or not ) . You put out your confident approach , smile , personality as that is the best job you can do. The rest is in NOT IN YOUR HANDS/ CONTROL. YOUR JOB IS TO BE CONFIDENT, SMILE AND SHOW SOME PERSONALITY.
If Shes talking/giving out IOIs, dont worry if your not attracted to her 100 % , after the bang, you'll think she's better looking. "Let the testosterone do the talking "
I guess it also shows I need to realize its really not in your control , or I am trying to control it too much. ITs like a game, of micro-managing. need to treat it more of a game to play and approach more , approach each situation like each girl like its a potential lay .
ANY Suggestions , Comments ....