RedKnight04
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This is a true story as AFC as they come. But this is just a sample on what I did wrong not knowing. Just to hold on to what I thought was everything in my life.
When I was 17, about 5 years ago now, I was still a virgin. I was always trying and trying to make girls notice me. I was naturally a funny guy who would always get the girls to talk to me but I was unconcious to what I was actually doing. So when they'd talk to me I would stutter, act nervous, offer dinner, offer movies.
Then I met this girl.
She was a HB8 but she knew how to deal with guys. Whether it was talking, getting things, she knew how to do it. She even approached me!
We started talking by accident when she asked me for a lighter for her cigerette. We talked more after class and went to smark a joint at a buddie's house of mine. We talked, shared different beliefs and what not. Even when I look back at it I did do things the right way naturally. I knew from a friend that told me never to call so soon and what not. And soon we were dating for ONLY a couple of weeks.
THEN we slept together.
THEN I started to feel I met someone for the rest of my life.
THEN I told her I love her. She told me not to say that.
THEN I decided to see her everyday.
THEN I decided to bring her around my close friends and make her apart of everything.
THEN I decided to visit her parents.
THEN I decided to have her meet my parents for dinner!
THEN I decided to pay for things when she would bicker.
THEN I decided to apologize and try to make everything right whenever she would start panicing EVEN if it wasn't my fault!
THEN I decided to ask her what she wanted to do.
THEN I tryed to help her with her problems.
THEN I asked her if she was allright every 5 seconds.
THEN I decided to take 2 jobs just to pay her way. AND Even told her I wanted to do it for her!
THEN I decided to ask her what radio/tv station she wanted to listen to.
THEN I started asking her how she wanted my haircut.
THEN I started putting her over my priorities.
THEN I thought about her every second.
THEN I broke up with my friends because they felt I was being used and I ignored that.
THEN I watched her flirt with other guys around me.
THEN I got mad when she would do the slightest things.
THEN I lost the girl.
After hearing this story I hope you realize what you must do even if you think it is the wrongest of the wrong to get the girl. Because I did what I thought was the right thing which all contradicted what I would later learn.
I WAS A NICE GUY. What happened?
Exactly.
When I was 17, about 5 years ago now, I was still a virgin. I was always trying and trying to make girls notice me. I was naturally a funny guy who would always get the girls to talk to me but I was unconcious to what I was actually doing. So when they'd talk to me I would stutter, act nervous, offer dinner, offer movies.
Then I met this girl.
She was a HB8 but she knew how to deal with guys. Whether it was talking, getting things, she knew how to do it. She even approached me!
We started talking by accident when she asked me for a lighter for her cigerette. We talked more after class and went to smark a joint at a buddie's house of mine. We talked, shared different beliefs and what not. Even when I look back at it I did do things the right way naturally. I knew from a friend that told me never to call so soon and what not. And soon we were dating for ONLY a couple of weeks.
THEN we slept together.
THEN I started to feel I met someone for the rest of my life.
THEN I told her I love her. She told me not to say that.
THEN I decided to see her everyday.
THEN I decided to bring her around my close friends and make her apart of everything.
THEN I decided to visit her parents.
THEN I decided to have her meet my parents for dinner!
THEN I decided to pay for things when she would bicker.
THEN I decided to apologize and try to make everything right whenever she would start panicing EVEN if it wasn't my fault!
THEN I decided to ask her what she wanted to do.
THEN I tryed to help her with her problems.
THEN I asked her if she was allright every 5 seconds.
THEN I decided to take 2 jobs just to pay her way. AND Even told her I wanted to do it for her!
THEN I decided to ask her what radio/tv station she wanted to listen to.
THEN I started asking her how she wanted my haircut.
THEN I started putting her over my priorities.
THEN I thought about her every second.
THEN I broke up with my friends because they felt I was being used and I ignored that.
THEN I watched her flirt with other guys around me.
THEN I got mad when she would do the slightest things.
THEN I lost the girl.
After hearing this story I hope you realize what you must do even if you think it is the wrongest of the wrong to get the girl. Because I did what I thought was the right thing which all contradicted what I would later learn.
I WAS A NICE GUY. What happened?
Exactly.