Hey guys, here I'm gonna tell you the top reasons why I think the Nerd/Geek/Average guy doesn't get laid that often. Moreso with Nerds and Geeks because average guys can get laid in social circles, but still they don't even have that much choice.
- No Balls. The nerd or average guy who just can't talk to women, have this problem, they have no balls, atleast when it comes to talking to women. They have fear, they worry about irrelavent things like "What if she doesn't like me?", "What do I say?" or "What if she rejects me?". You shouldn't care about those things, just approach the girl. Even a failed approach is a good one, because you're improving and the more you approach, the more comfortable you become with talking to women. Worried about what to say? There are tons of openers out there you can use to open a conversation with a girl. Or better yet just say the simple "Hey, how's it going?".
- Bad Social Skills. This is another reason why the average guy/nerd, more so the nerd, doesn't get laid. Overall, people who are bad at socializing with women, are generally bad at socializing period. If you look at a lot of the seduction methods out there, a lot of what they teach is just teaching antisocial guys, to become social.
- Outcome Dependent. Most AFC'S are outcome dependent and the women know this. They know that you just want to get in their pants. But lol being outcome dependent is only a problem because these guys don't have confidence. But generally though, being "Dependent" on anything is bad.
- No Backbone. A girl from a dating webcast put this perfectly, "Men have to learn to say no". That's all there is to it.
- Ingenuinity. Ingenuinity is a big reason why a lot of guys don't get laid. Even guys who DO get laid using methods and stuff, have this problem. To put it simply, they go up to a women and they're not being totally honest with her. This is a big problem with using lines and stuff. However, if the lines and stuff have been embedded into your REAL personality, the real you, then it's not a problem. You want to get in a girls pants? Be sexually aggressive, let her know through body language and kino that you want to be sexual with her. If she blows you out, oh well, there are plenty of other chicks out there.
- Confidence. This is one of the hugest reasons nerds and AFC's aren't good with women. They usually have very low confidence in themselves. They don't believe that a girl would actually WANT to waste her time with them. They believe that if they go up to a girl, something bad will happen like her saying "Oh my f*cking god! Go away!". But usually lol that's ridiculous and something like that'll probably rarely happen or only happen if she's in a mood OR you're really creepy the f*ck out of her.
- They care too damn much. AFC's and nerds just care too much. They care too much about interest and how she'll react to things. You shouldn't care about these things. She's disinterested, she's disinterested, oh well, what are you gonna do? You know. You have to realize that even if you're f*cking Mystery, you are not gonna get interest from every set.
- They put girls on a pedastal. They put girls on a pedastal when they have no reason to. Girls like us, eat, sleep, have hobbies, have worries and yes, girls too take dumps. Yes, girls take dumps, it's just something that makes them human. And yes, girls are humans and should be treated like any other humans. Goddesses? Hell no, they're humans just like us.
- Doesn't lead the interaction. The average AFC doesn't lead the interaction and expects the women too. Being the man, you have to LEAD. If you want to go for the kiss go for it. If the girl asks where you should go for a date, just pick a place. But yes, being the man you should lead the interaction.
- Doesn't escalate. The AFC is scared to escalate. Escalating is key in advancing things with a girl, unless the girl is super interested or something and is just tired of waiting(This is what happens to most AFC's when they finally do get a girl).
So yeah, these are the reasons I think the average AFC doesn't get laid.
- No Balls. The nerd or average guy who just can't talk to women, have this problem, they have no balls, atleast when it comes to talking to women. They have fear, they worry about irrelavent things like "What if she doesn't like me?", "What do I say?" or "What if she rejects me?". You shouldn't care about those things, just approach the girl. Even a failed approach is a good one, because you're improving and the more you approach, the more comfortable you become with talking to women. Worried about what to say? There are tons of openers out there you can use to open a conversation with a girl. Or better yet just say the simple "Hey, how's it going?".
- Bad Social Skills. This is another reason why the average guy/nerd, more so the nerd, doesn't get laid. Overall, people who are bad at socializing with women, are generally bad at socializing period. If you look at a lot of the seduction methods out there, a lot of what they teach is just teaching antisocial guys, to become social.
- Outcome Dependent. Most AFC'S are outcome dependent and the women know this. They know that you just want to get in their pants. But lol being outcome dependent is only a problem because these guys don't have confidence. But generally though, being "Dependent" on anything is bad.
- No Backbone. A girl from a dating webcast put this perfectly, "Men have to learn to say no". That's all there is to it.
- Ingenuinity. Ingenuinity is a big reason why a lot of guys don't get laid. Even guys who DO get laid using methods and stuff, have this problem. To put it simply, they go up to a women and they're not being totally honest with her. This is a big problem with using lines and stuff. However, if the lines and stuff have been embedded into your REAL personality, the real you, then it's not a problem. You want to get in a girls pants? Be sexually aggressive, let her know through body language and kino that you want to be sexual with her. If she blows you out, oh well, there are plenty of other chicks out there.
- Confidence. This is one of the hugest reasons nerds and AFC's aren't good with women. They usually have very low confidence in themselves. They don't believe that a girl would actually WANT to waste her time with them. They believe that if they go up to a girl, something bad will happen like her saying "Oh my f*cking god! Go away!". But usually lol that's ridiculous and something like that'll probably rarely happen or only happen if she's in a mood OR you're really creepy the f*ck out of her.
- They care too damn much. AFC's and nerds just care too much. They care too much about interest and how she'll react to things. You shouldn't care about these things. She's disinterested, she's disinterested, oh well, what are you gonna do? You know. You have to realize that even if you're f*cking Mystery, you are not gonna get interest from every set.
- They put girls on a pedastal. They put girls on a pedastal when they have no reason to. Girls like us, eat, sleep, have hobbies, have worries and yes, girls too take dumps. Yes, girls take dumps, it's just something that makes them human. And yes, girls are humans and should be treated like any other humans. Goddesses? Hell no, they're humans just like us.
- Doesn't lead the interaction. The average AFC doesn't lead the interaction and expects the women too. Being the man, you have to LEAD. If you want to go for the kiss go for it. If the girl asks where you should go for a date, just pick a place. But yes, being the man you should lead the interaction.
- Doesn't escalate. The AFC is scared to escalate. Escalating is key in advancing things with a girl, unless the girl is super interested or something and is just tired of waiting(This is what happens to most AFC's when they finally do get a girl).
So yeah, these are the reasons I think the average AFC doesn't get laid.
