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taiyuu_otoko

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Who's getting the super hot girls?

These dudes are...

Why Hollywood babes are trying to bag a tech titan, not a rock star

Worth less than a billion? No supermodels for you...

Despite their penchant for fleece vests and cargo shorts, Silicon Valley (and Alley) moguls are landing the sort of megababes who once fancied rock stars, pro athletes, Hollywood hunks and Wall Street wolves.

Last week, Evan Spiegel, the 26-year-old co-founder and CEO of Snapchat, which has been valued as high as $20 billion, got engaged to ex-Victoria’s Secret beauty Miranda Kerr, who was formerly married to actor Orlando Bloom.

Meanwhile, Page Six has linked sultry starlet and Johnny Depp’s ex Amber Heard to Tesla CEO and PayPal co-founder Elon Musk, whose worth is reportedly $12.3 billion.



 

Killakittie

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That doesn't make them Alpha.

This is just women capitalizing on a previously ignored revenue source in the forum of nerdy rich tech guys. Hypergamy has no limits or ends to fulfill it's agenda, if I could get rich selling used toe nails I'm sure some hot babe would come along at some point and fall in "love" with me. Lol
 

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That doesn't make them Alpha.

This is just women capitalizing on a previously ignored revenue source in the forum of nerdy rich tech guys. Hypergamy has no limits or ends to fulfill it's agenda, if I could get rich selling used toe nails I'm sure some hot babe would come along at some point and fall in "love" with me. Lol
Right, it really doesn't matter what you do to make money....just have your finances together. Women (honestly) don't even care if you are doing something illegal to get the money.

It's why I tell guys to strive to AT LEAST be in the middle class. Which based on national income measurements, it's making at least $37,000 per year. Make at least that, have your own place, own car, fix your looks to the best of your ability (shave, cologne, nice dressed) and have a good social personality.

If you do this, you can pick up HB 5s - HB 8s all day long (I don't believe anybody is a HB9 or HB10 naturally, which is that without a bunch of makeup, so for really "fine" girls I just give them HB8). Granted, HB5s and HB6s will make MUCH better relationship partners than HB7s and HB8s will.

Never date any chick lower than HB5.
 

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That doesn't make them Alpha.

This is just women capitalizing on a previously ignored revenue source in the forum of nerdy rich tech guy
The alpha male in nature does not directly translate well to humans, despite PUAs obsession with them. For all practical purposes, all "alpha" means is that women want a successful man. They want a top guy, a guy that they can be proud of, and brag about to their girlfriends. That could mean they want the toughest guy in the bar, the fastest racer on the track, or the guy who clearly has his finances handled.

I'm not surprised at all that women are attracted to CEOs and successful tech guys. I'd be surprised if they weren't.
 

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One of those guys in your picture was always hitting on my ex (when we were together). Yep, she loved the rich guys.
 

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The alpha male in nature does not directly translate well to humans, despite PUAs obsession with them.
I agree, I don't know what's up with the Manosphere and "the internet" with these cartoon character fascinations? Shall I name some of them?

- Alpha Male
- Beta Male
- PUA
- Don Juan
- AFC
- Bad Boy
- Nice Guy

As I continue to grow as a Man and continue to go through the trials/errors of dating life, I've come to realize that the dating game is NOT black and white, instead, it's an assortment of colors that resembles a BIG box of crayons. The dating game is black, white, red, blue, purple, yellow, orange, gray, silver, green....and so on and so on.

What am I saying? I'm simply saying that there's way too many random variables out here to put yourself into a box. If I posted the SHYT I say to women on here, most of you would say I was probably half crazy, because my conversation doesn't fit into your cartoon character prescribed LIMITED BOXES.

I like to just keep it simple. Fix your looks, personality, and finances. That gives you room for your own personal taste, touch, and style. It's about being yourself but being your BEST self.

Similar to eating right, there's an entire LIST of healthy food sources for you personally to choose from to craft your eating plan. For the life of me, if you don't like eggs, then don't include them! Just because some other idiot likes eggs, doesn't mean you have to!

So if your natural personality is shy and introverted, then use that shyt to your advantage. Your BEST self would be more of that silent, smooth, type of dude. If your natural personality is like mines which is kind of wild, opinionated and lone wolf like, then use that to your advantage! Damn, more than ONE type of personality turns on a woman...you don't have to be ME, I don't have to be YOU, just to get pvssy...we can ALL get pvssy!

Most normal and natural people are sometimes nice, sometimes an a.sshole, sometimes want to kick a.ss, sometimes need to KISS a.ss, sometimes the leader of the pack, and sometimes need to STFU and follow someone else's lead.

I'm so damn sick of these cartoon characters being promoted through the Manosphere. The dating market is difficult enough with this being one of the worse markets of women EVER, to now have to come to the Manosphere and read information that's at least 85% CARTOONISH.

Adding to this, most of the Manosphere guys never show their fvcking face, so you don't know who the hell is giving you these cartoonish theories of "be a Alpha Male at all times" lol.
 
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Killakittie

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I agree, I don't know what's up with the Manosphere and "the internet" with these cartoon character fascinations? Shall I name some of them?

- Alpha Male
- Beta Male
- PUA
- Don Juan
- AFC
- Bad Boy
- Nice Guy

As I continue to grow as a Man and continue to go through the trials/errors of dating life, I've come to realize that the dating game is NOT black and white, instead, it's an assortment of colors that resembles a BIG box of crayons. The dating game is black, white, red, blue, purple, yellow, orange, gray, silver, green....and so on and so on.

What am I saying? I'm simply saying that there's way too many random variables out here to put yourself into a box. If I posted the SHYT I say to women on here, most of you would say I was probably half crazy, because my conversation doesn't fit into your cartoon character prescribed LIMITED BOXES.

I like to just keep it simple. Fix your looks, personality, and finances. That gives you room for your own personal taste, touch, and style. It's about being yourself but being your BEST self.

Similar to eating right, there's an entire LIST of healthy food sources for you personally to choose from to craft your eating plan. For the life of me, if you don't like eggs, then don't include them! Just because some other idiot likes eggs, doesn't mean you have to!

So if your natural personality is shy and introverted, then use that shyt to your advantage. Your BEST self would be more of that silent, smooth, type of dude. If your natural personality is like mines which is kind of wild, opinionated and lone wolf like, then use that to your advantage! Damn, more than ONE type of personality turns on a woman...you don't have to be ME, I don't have to be YOU, just to get pvssy...we can ALL get pvssy!

Most normal and natural people are sometimes nice, sometimes an a.sshole, sometimes want to kick a.ss, sometimes need to KISS a.ss, sometimes the leader of the pack, and sometimes need to STFU and follow someone else's lead.

I'm so damn sick of these cartoon characters being promoted through the Manosphere. The dating market is difficult enough with this being one of the worse markets of women EVER, to now have to come to the Manosphere and read information that's at least 85% CARTOONISH.

Adding to this, most of the Manosphere guys never show their fvcking face, so you don't know who the hell is giving you these cartoonish theories of "be a Alpha Male at all times" lol.

Exactly there is no one solution. The ones who do best are those who truly don't give a fvck, have no fvcks to give about approaching women, and then can quickly adapt to the situation. I could write a ten page thesis on what attracts women alone!

I'm naturally reserved myself but i have absolutely no issues speaking in groups or socializing with complete strangers. I lost count of how many times women would wonder why i was the only guy in the room not eye balling her or leg humping her because she became so used to that behavior. Then when we did talk i had her attention she was intrigued before we even spoke.

I'm still reeling from the emotional and psychological affects of an abusive bpd marriage so even though i get huge amounts of ioi's from women and have no problem getting dates with decent looking gals i am trying to take a break from women in general for a little while.


My advice....Seek inner happiness and build the best you for YOU! <<<<<
 

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Amber Heard is going to use that guy and spit him out, with many more millions in her bank account. Billions?
 

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I agree, I don't know what's up with the Manosphere and "the internet" with these cartoon character fascinations? Shall I name some of them?

- Alpha Male
- Beta Male
- PUA
- Don Juan
- AFC
- Bad Boy
- Nice Guy
Most of those terms are good to use for making a particular point, to teach a particular lesson. Unfortunately, too many guys jump on those terms, take them too far, and take them too literally, and try to make real life fit into those stereotypes, instead of seeing them as the examples that they are intended to be. Some of those terms I'm not fond of, because I don't think they accurately describe what they are talking about ("Nice Guy" and "Bad Boy" are probably the worst).

Totally agree the world is not black and white, it's a big box of crayons. The PUA community tries to create this one stereotypical personality that women will respond to, and end up with (as you say) a cartoon character. If all that stuff were true, every woman would be with a guy who has the exact same personality
- the personality that attracts women (supposedly). Every girl would be with a tall, c0cky funny magician with a funny hat and black painted fingernails, who only spoke in preplanned canned patter and routines. It's a big world, we all have our own interests, strengths, and weaknesses. It's up to us to find our best self.
 

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That doesn't make them Alpha.

This is just women capitalizing on a previously ignored revenue source in the forum of nerdy rich tech guys. Hypergamy has no limits or ends to fulfill it's agenda, if I could get rich selling used toe nails I'm sure some hot babe would come along at some point and fall in "love" with me. Lol
Three years and two kids later, they'll divorce and the women will be instantly rich. And another one will come along and rock her hamster. The game goes on...
 

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1. He's getting married. As Once Bitten just mentioned above, that sets him up for divorce-rape.
2. He's getting Orlando Bloom's sloppy seconds.

Now ask me as a quote-unquote single beta male if I'm jealous of this "alpha."
I wonder how much money she bilked out of Orlando Bloom? It's true for many women - they acquire a set of husbands as a series of income streams. They get the house from husband 1, the child support from husband 2, the cash settlement from husband 3. I'm sure most of them know what they're doing, but I bet many of them are just delighted to find out that society sets this up for them.
 

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You don't need money to pull a hot chick! Will it help? Obviously. But the more you need to rely on money to pull *****, the more likely she'll eventually burn you, and you'll lose more when it happens. Women feign "love" all the time, especially when big bucks are involved. Rich men to women are like super hot women to men. How many men have been ecstatic to close in on a 8-10 and even bang her or be her boyfriend, only to find out quickly that her looks have worn off once you realize she's vapid and bitchy? I've had my share. It's the same for women. Money and looks wear off and they realize the guy is boring, weak, or a douche bag.
 

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You don't need money to pull a hot chick! Will it help? Obviously. But the more you need to rely on money to pull *****, the more likely she'll eventually burn you, and you'll lose more when it happens. Women feign "love" all the time, especially when big bucks are involved. Rich men to women are like super hot women to men. How many men have been ecstatic to close in on a 8-10 and even bang her or be her boyfriend, only to find out quickly that her looks have worn off once you realize she's vapid and *****y? I've had my share. It's the same for women. Money and looks wear off and they realize the guy is boring, weak, or a douche bag.
Amen. If you have money you're a target for the wrong kind of ho. Big time. It would be cheaper and more honest to just bang high dollar escorts.
 
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