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Senior Don Juan
there's 3 thing you must do.
1. Dont talk to impress talk how omfortable you feel talking.
talking to impress comes in various forms.
a. trying to force a convo on a date. if theres gonna be that awkward silence then let it be.trying to do something about it will only make it worse. you shouldnt go to dinner on a first date anyway.try ending it by asking her to see a movie at your place.(yes be that direct).
talking to impress is saying things that dont befit your character.
if your are boring you better let that boring aspect of you be known to her on inception you play chess etc.
saying things that dont suit your personality will come back to hunt you.
when she finds out youre being fake your in trouble.
some chicks may actually disregard the fact that you are boring and help your social status if they like you.(ie hook you up with her friends).
b.talking about your acomplishments means you clearly want a gold digger, and a woman that had no gold digging intentions at first will eventually switch over to gold digger mode once you start bragging about all your material things and how big your business is.
talking to impress puts you in a position where you bite of more than you can chew.
2.Dont act to impress act how comfotable you feel acting.
a.acting to impress comes in various modes.
acting to impress is conciously faking mannerism or character that dont come naturally to you.
if you give of this vibe of what you aint, when you are finally with these women you'll spend your entire time living up the the fantasy you created. and god help you if you dont maintain it.many women are dumb, they believe what you tell em at the start at face value they believe the character you portray , so if you act like a badboy and you dont deliver ,youre screwed.its like youve signed an acting contract and you must fullfill that contract. or else they'll cheat on your ass. thats why the women that go for badboys know what they got their self into when they get thier ass beaten, they expected it and he lived up to it.(though i think these women are nutcases).
acting to impress is when in a night club or party you cant dance, you dont want to dance but then you force your self to dance ,so you dont look like a wierdo standing there. but doing that makes you look even more of a weirdo. because it dont come naturally to you.(if dancing comes naturally to you then do it by all means) but if it dont suit you then it dont. and it will limit your effectiveness. if you wana stand still and sip your drink then do it as long as its what naturally comes to you.somes guys are stiff and others are flexible do what befits you.i cant imaging a stiff guy like clint eastwood ever busting a move on the dance floor.you do whatcomes naturally to you and youll be more confident.
3.dont dress to impress dress how comfortable you feel dressing
dressing to impress comes in various forms
dressing to impress is following any new trend these socalled trendsetters imagine..
dressing to impress is asking the advice of women on what to wear.(if she aint your family member,dont ask her about what to wear.) not even if your tying to game the sales girl.
asking her opinion on what to wear makes you come of as undecisive, you cant make a little decision on something as lame as what to wear?
then what happens when you got a more tasking decision at hand?.
if you wna ask the sales girl anything let it be your size of clothing. you made the choice and youre asking her if she got your size thats it.
if you wana game her ask when she's of work and go straighjt for the number.if she ask why you want her number? pay for your stuff and walk away. she's just being silly.women ask for munbers and we dont say why? we just give it out. men and women we got the same needs.
doing this things makes you know your niche, and once you know your niche you become more comfortable in your own skin. and what follows next is confidence you never knew you even had. where you find your self doin things you thought you didnt have the balls to do. somtimes you find some women changing thier character to suit yours.
theres this move i think represents what a morden day non-afc guy should act like its not much of a great movie, even the storyline kinda sucked, its just that jeff daniels portrayed it quite well . the movie the answerman.
once youve shuttled outta planet afc you forget what it even looks like, it has no context to your understanding. you dont even understand it.
1. Dont talk to impress talk how omfortable you feel talking.
talking to impress comes in various forms.
a. trying to force a convo on a date. if theres gonna be that awkward silence then let it be.trying to do something about it will only make it worse. you shouldnt go to dinner on a first date anyway.try ending it by asking her to see a movie at your place.(yes be that direct).
talking to impress is saying things that dont befit your character.
if your are boring you better let that boring aspect of you be known to her on inception you play chess etc.
saying things that dont suit your personality will come back to hunt you.
when she finds out youre being fake your in trouble.
some chicks may actually disregard the fact that you are boring and help your social status if they like you.(ie hook you up with her friends).
b.talking about your acomplishments means you clearly want a gold digger, and a woman that had no gold digging intentions at first will eventually switch over to gold digger mode once you start bragging about all your material things and how big your business is.
talking to impress puts you in a position where you bite of more than you can chew.
2.Dont act to impress act how comfotable you feel acting.
a.acting to impress comes in various modes.
acting to impress is conciously faking mannerism or character that dont come naturally to you.
if you give of this vibe of what you aint, when you are finally with these women you'll spend your entire time living up the the fantasy you created. and god help you if you dont maintain it.many women are dumb, they believe what you tell em at the start at face value they believe the character you portray , so if you act like a badboy and you dont deliver ,youre screwed.its like youve signed an acting contract and you must fullfill that contract. or else they'll cheat on your ass. thats why the women that go for badboys know what they got their self into when they get thier ass beaten, they expected it and he lived up to it.(though i think these women are nutcases).
acting to impress is when in a night club or party you cant dance, you dont want to dance but then you force your self to dance ,so you dont look like a wierdo standing there. but doing that makes you look even more of a weirdo. because it dont come naturally to you.(if dancing comes naturally to you then do it by all means) but if it dont suit you then it dont. and it will limit your effectiveness. if you wana stand still and sip your drink then do it as long as its what naturally comes to you.somes guys are stiff and others are flexible do what befits you.i cant imaging a stiff guy like clint eastwood ever busting a move on the dance floor.you do whatcomes naturally to you and youll be more confident.
3.dont dress to impress dress how comfortable you feel dressing
dressing to impress comes in various forms
dressing to impress is following any new trend these socalled trendsetters imagine..
dressing to impress is asking the advice of women on what to wear.(if she aint your family member,dont ask her about what to wear.) not even if your tying to game the sales girl.
asking her opinion on what to wear makes you come of as undecisive, you cant make a little decision on something as lame as what to wear?
then what happens when you got a more tasking decision at hand?.
if you wna ask the sales girl anything let it be your size of clothing. you made the choice and youre asking her if she got your size thats it.
if you wana game her ask when she's of work and go straighjt for the number.if she ask why you want her number? pay for your stuff and walk away. she's just being silly.women ask for munbers and we dont say why? we just give it out. men and women we got the same needs.
doing this things makes you know your niche, and once you know your niche you become more comfortable in your own skin. and what follows next is confidence you never knew you even had. where you find your self doin things you thought you didnt have the balls to do. somtimes you find some women changing thier character to suit yours.
theres this move i think represents what a morden day non-afc guy should act like its not much of a great movie, even the storyline kinda sucked, its just that jeff daniels portrayed it quite well . the movie the answerman.
once youve shuttled outta planet afc you forget what it even looks like, it has no context to your understanding. you dont even understand it.
